I'm 15.. i live in Alaska.. i used to live in Delaware.. i've been through a whole lot.. i think i've seen just about everything.. and i just broke up with my boyfriend.. we were going out for like a year and some months.. realy harsh.. i love giving advice.. not because it makes me feel important.. it's just always been instinct.. my friends used to call me the peace maker.. haha yeah.. so i've seen alot.. as well as been through a lot.. so i might be some help to you..
E-mail: krosseyedkow@msn.com
Gender: Female
Location: i live in alaska.. im from Delaware tho
Occupation: i work at subway. go to WeSt HiGh
Age: 15
AIM: x44caliberkissx
Yahoo: xkill_baloox
MSN: krosseyedkow
Member Since: November 24, 2004
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I have this freind and I have known her for about 2 years now. She is getting to be very braty and braggy. She is sooo spoiled and gets everything she wants. And like just the other day she was like complaining about the number of presents she got. I am so sick of putting up with her. But we have like a group of people ( about 7 ) and we do everything together. I dont know what to do, becuaes it is impossible to avoid her! Please help, I rate! (link)
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just be like.. (Name Here) You don't have to try and act like you're better then me, because that's what it sounds like you're doing.. no matter how many presents you get or didn't get doesn't change the fact that you're still complaining about it.. some people don't get shit.. and if you can't appreciate it, then she needs to look deep within herself.. tell her to stop acting. to stop being fake.. you don't get anywhere by bragging.. or being a little brat. yeah. i don't know. that's what i would say.. but that's just me.. it sounds like something that i would say if my friend was actin like that.. you don't need to make a big giant deal about it, but bring it up the next time that she wants to open her mouth about how much that she has. because someone needs to tell her ass how it is. :-D
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i found the perfect guy for me. i'm a christian girl, and he's a youth leader, we have the same sense of humor, he's totaly cute, and he's the sweetest guy i've ever met. the problem is that he's quite a bit older than me, and by the time i'm old enough to date him, he'll probably be married, because, well who wouldn't want to marry him? see, i'm only 14, and he's 20, but i think he likes me a little too. i'll find out for sure by tomarrow if he does, and add it on here. but he told me i was beautiful and stuff, so what should i do?
thanx for helping, i rate all 5's.
xoxo
sincerely,
Puppy Love (link)
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you said you're christian right? i go to church as well.. and what would you do if someone found out about this.. you just be thinkin about urself on this one.. i mean, what would happen if he did like u.. i mean, he would get in a lot of trouble.. you really don't need to get urself mixed with a guy that's 20.. im 15 and i think it would be awkward to be in a relationship with a 20 year.. also, think like.. okay.. this guy is 20 right, what is he thinkin if he's actually considering to be with a 14 year old??? Well, first i would defiantly pray about it.. ask God for the answer as well as these advice columns.But i would stay away from that situation.. you're probably really mature, but think of the consciquences.. it would be very hectic.. so, i wouldn't try to flirt with him.. because that will also probably cause problems.. just try to stay on a friendly basis, but don't let it go overboard..
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I don't know whats wrong with me. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I really do love him, and I know he loves me even more. But lately I've felt like things are just kinda drifting between the two of us. Like- it's not how it used to be. I feel like a jerk too because when I ask him if he's been feeling different lately- he always says no and that he never would ever think of breaking it off with me. Then I feel stupid for thinking things aren't working out. I know I love him, he's the cutest guy ever and he treats me pretty good. I am happy with him, but then why am I feeling like something isn't right? Am I just thinking too much or what!? Please, whats my problem?! (link)
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You know.. i've been with my guy for like.. a year and a half now, and things aren't going to be the same.. i know how you feel though.. like after 5 months, you don't feel the same when you kiss him.. you don't get as excited to see him as you used to.. or when he holds your hand or something of that nature.. but the truth is.. is that, it's all in the begining.. all those feelings are amazing, but they're only there because this is a new person.. a new feeling.. somebody new. and i realized that.. so thats my advice.. don't break it off because you don't feel the butterflies anymore.. because if you chase after those feelings you'll end up losing them.. you'll end up being with lots of guys because you needed to find that person who can keep you feeling like that.. but no ones perfect. my best advice.. do things for him, like things you haven't done before.. and just think about his eyes.. or the way that he looks at you, before you go to sleep.. it gives me really good feelings.. just think about the good things.. and be happy to have someone in your life, because it's hard to find someone that is good for you.
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sry if its long but i really need help..
Ok..heres my problem..my mom or dad dont trust me..they wont let me go out..they think im always lien where i am when i do go out..they have no trust twords me wut so ever..like yesterday i wnt to chill with my friends and i told my mom i was going to the day b4 that..but then she calles me up and seys u better get home now..im like well ill b home soon..so i came home and she was like ur grounded 4 goin out with out telling me..then i was like yeah well i told u so i wnt in the kitchen and sed that i was hungry my dad came screaming in the kitchen saying that i better eat and he through me on the table and slapped me..then i ran up stairs..i mean wut is rong with my parents..and they always treat me like shit..and my mom always treats my nephew better and when ever he does some thing rong i get blamed..i just dont know what to do ne more..
plz help me..
ps..me and my parents fite all the time.. (link)
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My mom has never hit me.. but i've seen it happen so many times.. I would say this.. Can i earn my trust back from you?? Say that you getting hit is NOT going to make anything better.. ask them if their parents hit them.. ask your dad why he would wanna hit his own baby.. Say that you would never touch your child, that you need respect and trust if they want it as well.. say that i don't deserve this.. and ask them if you think they deserve your trust if ur always slappin me? Ask them how are they helping you by slapping you.. thats the best i can do.. i know how it would feel.. i've seen my friends cry to me and tell me that their parents are abusing them.. if it's really that serious, then tell the police.. but if it's something that you can fix, then you should try that.. because you don't want to end up with foster parents.. who might be worse.. people that you don't like.. and it'll be so hard to ever see your parents again if you really love them..
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I hate life like you wouldnt even believe. My dad left when i was a baby and my mom is on meds and living with a bf or maybe just some guy she has sex with and so ever since i was young i have been forced to live with my grandmother. My mom and aunt are on meds for depression and stress and they both claim its cuz of my gma which doesnt surprise me cuz she makes me insane, i wish i was dead like every 20 seconds. ever since i had sex she has been talking about eh guy for ever and its really hard for me cuz i really like him and she is the reasion why we are not together and all she ever does is tell me how worthless i am and how im stupid and how the only job i will get is selling my self even tho my grades are ABBBCC and she tells me that i am really low and just basicall puts me down every chance she gets. and i believe that is why i have no self confidence what so ever. and i believe that is why i had sex with my bf because he was the only guy who ever made me feel special and beautiful. but thats besides the point. everyday she reminds me of my mistakes and its getting old and i just want to shoot my self so i have been drinking and taking pills to make me feel alright and what not and well my question is this what can i do so i dont feel like shit 24/7? just a second ago i was going to go out cuz one of my friedns called me and she said oh you look easy enough, so how manny boys do you think you are going to fuck and so i riped my shirt and threw it at her adn said 100 get in line bi***
any ideas or insight would be much appreciated
thank you (link)
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I don't care how old this bitch is.. your grandma ?? she can shove that all up her ass.. My best friends gramma is like that.. she makes her feel like shit.. she pushed my friend down the stairs one time.. and said that she isn't worth a peice of shit because she smokes n drinks.. and her mom doesn't do a damn thing about it.. the best thing that i can say is, is that if this women is treating you like this.. if you need to yell at this bitch then you better get your point across.. don't let this women ruin your self esteem.. she's gunna drive you into doing more bad things.. just because you have had sex doesn't make you a whore/slut/hoe WHATEVER. no one ever deserves to call you that.. Ask your gramma if she did this to your mom and ur auntie.. cuz thats what it seems like.. cuz ur mom and auntie are on anti depressants... maybe gramma drove em crazy.. killing yourself wouldn't be the answer.. you would be running away from your problems.. You would approach God as a murderer.. do you want that?? i'll pray for you and your grandma.. maybe you should try to tell your grandma that your mistakes don't need to be shoved down your throat.. it'll make you insane.. just ask her to help instead of making your life hell.. tell her that you don't want to end up like your mom..
-meagan
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Hi. My names Kylie and this is my situation. I live with my older sister because my dad left and my mom died when I was born. I'm 13 and she’s 29. Anyways when I was 4 one of her friends was watching me while she went out and he was touching me sexually. I didn’t tell her and the next time he babysat me he did it again. He did it 4 different times that I can remember. Anyways I never told my sister about it. And they’re still really good friends today. He comes all the time so I see him a lot. And I feel really awkward around him. What I'm wondering is should I tell my sister about it? I don’t know if shed believe me and if she did I don’t know if shed do anything about it. I know its sexual abuse but can he actually get in trouble for it? Like since it happened a long time ago?
Please reply. I really don’t know what to do here.
Please email me if you think you can help.
hollisterhunni0628@yahoo.com
- Kylie (link)
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Okay, well unfortunately i had something like this happen to me.. except it was a siblings friend.. was my stepdad.. well anyway, i felt the same way.. it took me so long to tell my mom.. i planned it out though.. i would wait until this guy is not in your house.. what i was afraid of, was that this guy would hurt you or your sister, but i don't know him.. so i don't know. But of course this guy can get in trouble.. think of R. Kelly.. but yeah.. i would defiantly tell somebody.. if your sister doesn't beleive you.. then she has a real problem.. i thought my mom wouldn't believe me.. but as soon as i told her.. his ass was in jail the next day.. the only hard thing about this.. is that you will have to explain to the police exactly was happened.. and you might not remember because you were four.. but they make you get into details.. which made me cry.. which made me feel like i was being interigated.. which i didn't like.. anyway.. of course you should tell your sister.. it would be wrong not to. don't be afraid.. i've been in your shoes.. except i was 11.. and i felt like i had no one.. i'll be there for you.
-meagan
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Ok I'm addicted to rice!! All I eat is rice, I don't know how to get out of this rut! I won't eat all day long and then come home from school and pig out of a huge bowl of rice! It's to the point where I just eat it all and barely taste it, I want to get out of this habit! Any tips?? I have tried to cut it out cold turkey I will last about a week and then cave and pig out. (link)
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Well hmmm.. Rice isn't really good for you at all.. i used to eat rice a whole lot.. to where i would eat it too fast and it feels like im gunna throw up??? the same thing with macaroni n cheese.. hahaha.. but rice will make you tubby.. i just ate a whole bunch of rice last night.. maybe if you think of like a huge fat hairy guy with boogers runnin out of his nose whenever you go to grab some more rice, maybe you'll take less?? hahaha. or i don't know.. but im trying to cut down on rice myself.. im philipino.. so obviously i love rice right?!?!?! well yeah.. if you really want to stay somewhat healthy, just take less portions.. or have 5 small meals everyday, instead of 3 big meals.. ie: breakfast, lunch, dinner.. try to broaden it out a little bit.. good luck!!
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