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HELP
sry if its long but i really need help..
Ok..heres my problem..my mom or dad dont trust me..they wont let me go out..they think im always lien where i am when i do go out..they have no trust twords me wut so ever..like yesterday i wnt to chill with my friends and i told my mom i was going to the day b4 that..but then she calles me up and seys u better get home now..im like well ill b home soon..so i came home and she was like ur grounded 4 goin out with out telling me..then i was like yeah well i told u so i wnt in the kitchen and sed that i was hungry my dad came screaming in the kitchen saying that i better eat and he through me on the table and slapped me..then i ran up stairs..i mean wut is rong with my parents..and they always treat me like shit..and my mom always treats my nephew better and when ever he does some thing rong i get blamed..i just dont know what to do ne more..
plz help me..
ps..me and my parents fite all the time..
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My mom has never hit me.. but i've seen it happen so many times.. I would say this.. Can i earn my trust back from you?? Say that you getting hit is NOT going to make anything better.. ask them if their parents hit them.. ask your dad why he would wanna hit his own baby.. Say that you would never touch your child, that you need respect and trust if they want it as well.. say that i don't deserve this.. and ask them if you think they deserve your trust if ur always slappin me? Ask them how are they helping you by slapping you.. thats the best i can do.. i know how it would feel.. i've seen my friends cry to me and tell me that their parents are abusing them.. if it's really that serious, then tell the police.. but if it's something that you can fix, then you should try that.. because you don't want to end up with foster parents.. who might be worse.. people that you don't like.. and it'll be so hard to ever see your parents again if you really love them..
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sucky parents. I say don't talk to them. When they fight you... fight back. It actually kinda sounds like they are abusers... but totally tell them how you feel... it might actually clear up some air. ehh... that does suck though. Hope things work out.
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No matter what you do, or how bad you act, your parents should <b>never</b> hit you. Go to another trustworthy adult, such as a teacher, school counselor, or a friend's parent. Tell them what's been happenning. Your parents need help, seriously. You dont sound like a bad person, so they should NOT treat you like that. If worse comes to worse, and nobody can help you, call the police. I wish you the best.
lAteR :P
casey
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no one should slap you, ever. Ask a teacher or counselor to hear your complaints.
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first of all if your parents are hitting you..you need to get help.
If you are going against their rules..yes you will fight all the time.
curfew is just that..the LATEST time you can be in.
Tow the line..do what they ask..the fights are just not worth the rebellion.
I feel for you..sounds like your paresnt have major anger issues and they need some therapy...until the do..if ever...you just have to lay low.
I am so sorry for you.
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wow im sry tehy treat u like taht..did u possibly do sumthn worng (b4 majorly) that made them lose alot fo trust 4 u?!? also if ur an only child maby tehy juss wanna b vvveeerrryy careful bcus ur there only child so yea talk 2 them bout n if it doenst hcnage than talk 2 a counselour hope i helped!
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They dont trust you because you are a teenager, n they kno what kinda stuff teenagers do. Even if you dont do anything bad, they just dont want you getting into tha wrong things n going down tha wrong road in life. My parents are tha exact same way. They hate me going out cuz they kno i like to have fun anyway that i can n they kno what i do, n what every teenager does. One night when I came home my dad hit me n threw me down n was screaming at me, so i kno what youre going through, its scary...Just try talking to them and telling them what you do, n when you are out call them every once in a while n tell them what you are up to, that way they will begin to trust you. Goodluck hun. If you ever need to talk just leave one in my inbox. xOx
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