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this guy that i used to date and i are still like semi friends...we can talk about anything and when i say that i mean anything...and the other day we talked on the phone for EIGHT hours EIGHT!!! i think i still like him but i dont know because last time it didnt work out...but now i feel closer to him and comfortable talking to him and i dont know what to do?!
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i'd stay friends with him.. i think your lucky to even still be his friend--some guys are jerks and after you break up they just decide not to talk to you ever again! but believe me, being his friend is better than being nothing at all! if you want, let him know you like him a lil bit n see wat he says but i wouldn't stress over it if he doesnt feel the same way back! if he does then i'd go ahead and give it anotehr shot you have nothin to lose!!
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It's obvious you like him, do what ever you feel is right.
-xXoBrianna
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Omg girl! 8 hours haha my ear would fall off! hah but anyway I think you should give him another shot! Things before were probably different because yinz didnt know each other that well. But now that you guys talk all the time it changed and its totaly great that you guys are closer! If I were you I would try it out again but if you dont want to take the risk then just atleast confront him about it. Just be like It seems like I really got to know you more throught the past...weeks/months I wish it was like this when we were going out before. Do you think it would ever work out again. I mean dont say it exactly like that because knowing me and my dumb line he would think you were nuts but you get what i mean. I just think you should totally go for it!!!! I hope I helped!! and let me know what happened!!!
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Next time your onthe phone tell him how u feel- he might feel the same way too! and just tell him all your feelings and everthing and maybe yall will work out!
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That is along time to be talking to someone! lol. But, if you feel like you want to give this relationship another shot, then go for it! When you're talking to him on the phone or whatever, just be like "I know we've gone out before and everything and it didn't work out, but we've become alot more closer and I don't know about you, but I feel more comfortable telling you things now. I think it would be great if we gave it another shot with me and you going out again, what do you think?" Just say something like that. But, if you don't want to go out with him again, then just remain friends, I mean there is nothing wrong with talking to a friend for that long, you guys can be like best friends or whatever. Just do whatever makes you feel comfortable, just follow your heart. Hope this helps and good luck. If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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if u really dont want to date him then just be BEST FRIENDS if u kno what i mean...dont date him but be really close to him...if u give him the thought that he's ur boyfriend....they intend to do things differently and thats y it doesnt work out.....i hope i helped u out a lil bit
>>>>>arielle<<<<<
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maybe u it didnt work out than cuz u guys didnt knO eachother... i think u should give it another try since u guys knO eachother better...
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wow! it definately sounds like u have a great connection. Mabe things have changed since u last went out and he realizes that you guys get along really well. If you feel like you want to give it another try..go for it, the worse that could hapen is that u reallize u both really are better friends..and u break up again and get bak to bein good friends..hope i helped
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I say to go for it! I bet you didnt really know him that well when you first dated him! Now that you're closer you might get along better! I hope this helped!
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hey hun,umm i think you should maybe give it another try because if you too talk on the phone for that long its longing to be meant...but you know what you probably know if it didnt always work out that second time then you'll still be friends since the first break up u two were still very close friend soo i would say hey igve it a chance!!!!
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It's uncommon to find someone you connect with this way, but try to see if there's anything beyond this. What you're describing is an intimate friendship. I have that with a few of my female friends, but we would never date. If things are great where they are, then leave it at that. If you really think it's beneficial to move to the next level, then go for it.
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