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going steady??
just wondering... met a great guy on match.com, we've been dating for almost 11 months... but he still has his ad up there! what's the deal with that? a male ego thing? He said no he's not looking for another girlfriend, and gave me a beautiful diamond necklace for christmas. he's 35 I'm 39. tell me how to get what I want, just a steady boyfriend without all the wondering. I'm too old for this high school crap.
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A lot of people on those match maker sites will keep their adds up because they like talking to a lot of different people. My freind herself talks to about three or four guys herself, just because she likes having people to talk to without the fear that she'll be embarrased or have her secrets told. He probably just likes to talk to different people. But, he sounds really serious about you. Diamonds are a big deal! He loves being with you, but likes talking to other people. Hope I could help a little bit! Good luck with your budding romance!!
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tell him to take his ad of or tell him that its ether that or that u think he might cheat on u
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He probably just forgot to take it off. It sounds like he really likes you, because he got you a diamond necklace (bling bling!). Just tell him it makes you mad that it's still there, and if he doesn't do anything about, dump him and keep the necklace! Lol. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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i think you are to old and mature to be dealin wit someone who obviously just wants to play around.......i might be 13 but i say just keep lookin and someone will fall into your path
i hope i helped
ps....that advice person, absolutebeginers is a jack ass....i wrote him a nasty letter because of the advice he gave you......
>>>arielle
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maybe he just forgot the fact that he still had it on and hasnt been on the site since hes met you. if hes givin you a dimond necklace he sounds pretty comitted to me..but then again you never know. But still, just tell him you dont apreiciate the add is still up and if he doesnt take it down then things are gonna change between the two of you. just say something like that if hes being stubbornate about taking it off. hope i helped even though im giving advice to someone who could be my mother lol! - selene
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Maybe he just forgot that he hadn't taken it off. If he bought you a diamond necklace, it's unlikely he wants to cheat on you or anything. Mention it to him without seeming too suspicious and ask him if he could take it off. If he loves you, then he will.
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Ask him whats it about?
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Tell him what you want. For him to remove the ad because it is insulting to you as his girlfriend. If he doesn't, take it as a warning that he is unwilling to comprimise or make a commitment. And at 35, he is not going to change.
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