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a girl at my school has been going through a very tough time lately. her dad left 3 weeks ago and she just found out that she might be pragnant. this would be much easier if she WASN'T 13!!! but she is and we are best friends. im the only one that knows about the pregnant thing. what do i tell her i rate high for a real answer
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well she needs to tell her parents. there going to find out sooner or later. just make sure she knows that you will always be there for her no matter what. mayb have a girls night out and dont think about everything that is going on
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her mom has to know shes pregnant, or atleast someone does. just support her and stay by her.. tell her everything is going to be ok.. just comfort her and bring her to the hospital so she can find out what shes going to do with the baby.. she needs a friend most right now and your a good person for being there
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You need to tell her an show her that you are there for her. She is probably having so many mixed emotions and feelings and wondering what she should do or whe she did. I used to have problems with my father and I would always wonder what I did. She obviously knows that she can trust you and that you are there for her becasue you are the only one that she has confided in about being pregnant. Because she is only 13 I suggest that she has the baby and gives it up for adoption unless her mother is willing and able to help her with it. Your friend needs you right now to support and listen to her no matter what she decides or what she says. You just need to reasure her and let her know what you think. She also needs to tell her mother about her pregnancy. She will be able to help her more than you can. She may be scared to do that but it's important that she does. She will need your support in that too. Just make sure that you are there for her and she knows that.
Good luck and I hope things work out with your friend
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She needs to find out for sure. Then she needs to talk to mom. She will also need a best friend to lean on. :)
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well what you need to do is stick by her side...and help her in anything she needs and in anything you can...god knows the fear she's feeling right now...and she's propably paranoid...going crazy trying to think or visualize whats going to happen next. she's prolly mad, sad, depressed and prolly crys a lot...i dont belive in aborshion i kno she's 13 but she should've thought of that before she did what she did...killing a innocent creature its not the right thing to do. (i hope she's not pragnant though) you need to put her hopes up by telling her that everything is going to be ok and no matter what you'll help her in anything she needs! try to keep her from doing anything stupid or inmature...because when you're depressed anything goes on ur mind...so try to keep her as close as possible and make her feel as calm and safe as possible! dont tell her you know how it feels when you dont know how...but tell her that you'll try to help her with everything you can...i hope i helped...very tough situation...i wish you good luck and ur friend 2. xoxo effy
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Hey! I think that the best thing that you can do for your friend right now is to just stick by her side through all of this. She is probably feeling really mad, sad, lonely, and depressed since she might be pregnant and her dad just left. Be there for her and talk to her and listen to her. To find out for sure if your friend is really pregnant try getting an at home pregnancy test or go to: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) to find a planned parenthood that's close to you so you could go there. Your friend is going through some tough times so you should just try to comfort her.
Good Luck
I hope this helps
xoxoxo
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That does put you in a difficult position because you're a guy and you need to be there for her. And you need to show her all the support you can. Best friends don't tell secrets, so you should keep it to yourself until she's ready to come clean with her family. You must really be a good friend for asking advice on your friend that you care about so much.
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First of all, she needs to tell her mother. Also, what is she doing going out having sex at 13?!???!? Plus, if you want to, go with her and get a pregnancy test done. Im sorry about her dad, and yes... it would be much better if she wasnt 13. But yea... she should tell her mom and go get a pregnancy test done. If you want, tell me her results.
-hope i helped
-Morgan
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tell her that your here for her 100% tell her no matter what you are one of the greatest things that ever happend to me. plus let her know that she needs to take it easy now and that maybe this was just a warning. tell her that if shes going to be messing around next time she NEEDS to use protection.
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ok um try to follow this and relate it to you and hers situation. Im 14 and my mom is gona pass away in 1 month and a month ago i thought i was pregnant because im a dumbass but anyway my friend kayla is in your boat she helped me threw this shit..This may sound horrible but i didnt have money to buy a pregnancy test so i stole one (dont ever do that) and i told her i didnt want to take it beecause i was so sure i was...i took it-i wasn't..theres one problem out of the way. The whole fact bout my mom she just helped me threw it by tellin me that i should just cry i told her i cant and even my counseler said "People deal with inccidents like this in different ways, This just happens to be how you're dealing with it." so kayla just told me to just take time and cry thats it,i told her to leave me alone because she doesnt know what i was going through and she doesnt still but she was always there in case i fell
if it does turn out that she pregnant then she definately needs to go to a doctor no doubt about it she can hold it off as long as she wants but shes gonna have to go. If she doesnt listen to you dont ever turn her away she may get you mad but you need to always be there for her turnin this tough time.
>>>>>sry this is long but hope i helped write me some time to let me kno how things went
>>>>>arielle aka:pip
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If you dont know what to say to her then dont say anything. just be there for her, she needs to kno that someone is there to help her through this. I kno that it is gonna be hard for her ,and for you becuz of the fact that you have to watch her go through it, but you and your friend will get through this.
hope i helped and good luck!
keep her safe
ThatSAM
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i think that you should just be there for her, you dont have to find a solution, just say that everything will be fine and reassure her. be her friend cuz thats what she needs right now. tell her that if there is ever a time that she needs you, then ur there.
thats the only thing i could think of
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wOw 13 and pragnant! Okay well you really need to talk to her and tell her no matter what you will always be there for her! Try not to fight at all and just tell people to take it easy on her with out telling them the whole story!
xOx ViLLy*
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Tell her she gets what she deserves for not being abstinant.
Theres always aborting it too.
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i know it might not be what u r looking for but if you go to someone for help then it might be alot easier for her.
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If she thinks she is pregnant, she needs to take a pregnancy test. If she can't afford to buy one, go to planned parenthood (maybe have YOUR mom take both of you? tell her the situation) and have a test done. She needs to know if she is pregnant so she can take care of herself as well as the baby properly. If she isn't pregnant, tell her to either wait to have another sexual encounter (she is vulnerable right now) or at the very least make sure she uses protection. If she is pregnant, she needs to decided what she wants to do. In any case, be there for an open ear and try to help her out.
EDITED: I am not saying YOU need a pregnancy...I am saying SHE does.
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just let her know she can turn to you and confide in you if she needs to talk. try to understand her and make sure you dont tell anyone about the pregnate thing...its non of anyone else' business. you dont really need to tell her anything, just be there. <3
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You need to comfort her and help her get through this. When she has this baby be there for her. Let her know tht whatever she needs that you are willing to help her out. Love her and dont ever stop being best friends with her! Tell her that everything will be okay and that you will always have her back! X0`
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you know what there isnt much you can tell her but that your always gonna be there for her and help her through this rough time if you could tell me a bit more about your situation i could give some even better more in depth advice so if u want drop me a message in my inbox
Hope everything goes good
-Chriss
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