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what to do....
alright me and this boy lets call him "a" have been going out for a year and 7 months.he lives in georgia and i live in conneticut. we lived in the same state then moved. well i started getting worried because he is now in a band and is always being wanted by chicks. well i called him one morning and he thought i was checking up on him so he wanted a break. we had a break and he did alot to uncalled stuff with like 2 chicks. he didnt have sex tho. he says hes waiting for me. anyway we talked it all out and he bought me a ticket to go see him so we can be together because after all this thats just what we needed. the thing is while on the break i did stuff with a guy here that really likes me. he asked me out and i had to say no because i still love "a" so now everything is good with me and "a" but people here are saying i should just break up with him because hes not here and the stuff he did while on a break. (what he did was worse then what i did) i have no idea what to do. i like this other guy but i am in love with "a" and i dont want to just end a almost 2 year relationship on something that might not even last a week. what should i do?
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Stay with this guy *A*.. i mean yea its a long distance relationship but it could work out and then when you are old enough to go see him more often you can.. jus do what makes you happy and dont throw what you got with *A* away with somebody that likes you a whole lot.. and most likely the whole time your with this other guy your jus going to miss and want *A* no matter wat.. much luv dez x0x0
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i think, u should go with "a" b'cuz you know he loves you. And this other guy probably doesnt know anything bout you. Plus, don't let distace come between you 2!
And he said he was sry bout the other girls. And he still wants to be with you!
hope i helped,
SAM
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~I think you should follow your heart. If you love the guy from Georgia, then you should dump the other guy~
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ok well honeslty, you cant call a freaking long distance relationship a relationship...you can but you cant...in your case you cant because you both did stuff with other people and if you 2 really had strong feeligns for eachother...he would keep his "D" in his pants and you would hold your horses...kapish? my point is...he's far...god knows what he does...dont belive guys...they say bunch a shit just to make you feel special and just have you there whenever they need you...i mean i dont doubt he prolly feels something for you...but its not whatever he says...i think you should give the chance to the guy you like that its up close to you...to a guy that you could actually see, touch or feel or whatever...instead of keeping a imaginary b/f that might do stuff behind your back...you know what i mean? i'm not trying to b mean i'm not trying to make your day be shitty..i'm just trying to bring out the facts...now its you're life...its your decision..make the right one so you wouldnt get hurt in the end...and like i said dont trust guys to much they full of shit trust me!
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be true to yourself. if you really like "a" a lot and is in love with him.. you need to be with "a" and not "b" because what i am getting out of this if you didn't take a break with "a" then you would have never even thought of person "b" i think you really like this boy (a) and if you want to be with him you should forget about "b" but if you are going to hold a grudge over what he did and if it was really bad.. he's not worth it. so take the tickets spend a day with "a" and see if the connection is still there and if not... then it isn't meant to be
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if you feel this way then dont listen to what other ppl have to say. they are not the ones that are in the relationship, so they dont kno what you and "a" have together. what you and him have together must be special becuz, obviously, you dont want to let go of it. and thats ok. you both have made mistakes and talked about them. go with what your heart tells you...i kno you want "a." you wouldnt be asking for help if you didnt want him, but you do and that's all that matters.
hope i helped
ThatSAM
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If you want to get back with "a" then get back with him, whatever people are saying around you doesn't matter because it isn't their relationship. Ultimately you will be unhappy if you don't listen to what you want. And if you were on a "break", then you were broken up and you really shouldn't use what either of you did against your relationship.
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