Ok, I recently dumped my ex and he still really really really likes me. He said if I'm not too buzy we can go out another time... and everything is perfect now and I still have feelings for him. Well, one of my BFs likes him now and wants to go out with him. I don't want her to! I mean he is still mine! It's like we like eachother but we ain't going oout! Can I tell my friend sompin so she won't like him? Even if my ex did ask her out and she said yes, she wouldn't go out with him... she seems so young. PLease help!
i_LOVE_badboys answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 1:45 pm: hey hun hate to break it to you but i dont think you should go out with him or at least untill your friend is over him a guy isnt worth breaking up a great friendship hope i helped please rate [ i_LOVE_badboys's advice column | Ask i_LOVE_badboys A Question ]
Douchey answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 11:37 pm: Well, it seems that you do have a good friend because she won't go out with him. However, she still is crossing the boundary of liking him. Maybe you should sit down with her and tell her how uncomfortable that you're feeling with her liking him. Tell her that you still do have feelings for your ex and you're just not comfortable. [ Douchey's advice column | Ask Douchey A Question ]
no_commitment_69 answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 5:10 pm: ok i dont wanna be mean and i hope im not but he's not yours ne more....YOU broke up wit him....i kno u guys are close but he's not ur property any more......i dumped me ex too and it was the same situation but i didnt wanna go bak out wit him bc my life was tooo stressed when we were togetha but i didnt want my friend to go out wit him either....all i can possibly tell you is that you should see how it goes between them....(it prollly wont work out) but if it does go good you have to be mature enough to let him go....think about he might not want to go out wit her.....
hope i helped you hunni
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MiSz_LaDii_L answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 4:20 pm: u should explain to your friend how you feel and that your not ready to accept him going out with other girls especially girls that are like your best friend...but you really to talk to her and make her see it in your point of view...and maybe when things cool down and you get over him she can go with him but just explain that you dotn find it right that shes your best friend and wants to date one of your ex...if she your friend she'll understand [ MiSz_LaDii_L's advice column | Ask MiSz_LaDii_L A Question ]
fire_hazzard answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 3:56 pm: Explain to your friend that you still have feelings for you boytoy and aren't ready to see him dating other gals... If she's a good frind, she will respect that and either give you enough time to get over him before making your move, or find "annother fish in the sea" [ fire_hazzard's advice column | Ask fire_hazzard A Question ]
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