I love my boyfriend but then there are these 2 other guys I like?
Question Posted Thursday March 10 2005, 3:27 pm
I love my bpyfriend but then there are these 2 other guys. This is the problem..
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months and I love him a lot. Before I ever went out with him I always likes this other guy! Lets call him Mike. Well Mike and one of my best friends went out off and on for about 5 times. I never told anyone that I liked him and no one knew. Now Mike told me he liked me and he wants to go out with me! I dont know what to do because I like Mike also and I like my boyfriend. There is this new guy who came to school and I think I'm starting to like him to. I already feel jelous when someone flirts with him. We talked a couple of times tho and I like him. My boyfriend is very complicated at times! We have had some issues but we all worked it out! I dont know what to do!!! I like all 3 of these guys! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend because I love him and I also want to go out with Mike and I like this new guy! Please help! I`l rate good I promise! Thank you.
angieroonie answered Thursday March 10 2005, 5:20 pm: well it seems to me that you DONT ove your boyfriend. you may think you do but you dont actually love him. like him maybe but not love. if you loved him you would have eyes for him only. if you feel you can learn to love him and forget about the other guys then stay with him. if not... pick one. [ angieroonie's advice column | Ask angieroonie A Question ]
adviceforteens answered Thursday March 10 2005, 4:30 pm: Well, I can tell that your boyfriend means alot to you. And I can respect that. Mike, have you ever seen him with other girls like not just flirting but like touchy feely? Ask your boyfriend where he sees the relationship going. Depending on what he says could answer your question. Or maybe you could ask him if he loves you. If he says yes ask him to explain what the word means when he says it. Ask him how he feels inside when those 8 letters ( 3 little words ) come out of his mouth. As far as the new guy I think that you should get to know him before you go making any decisions. Hope you have luck with your men. [ adviceforteens's advice column | Ask adviceforteens A Question ]
no_commitment_69 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 3:43 pm: calm down hunni just breathe for a second....im in the same pickle jar you are.....if i say anything that makes you mad at me plz write me bak.......ok well lets satrt with the new kid....leave him alone for a lil while because i like the new kid once whn i had a bf and he turned out to be an ass and my ex bf had moved on.....lets move on to "mike" if you are loyal to your bf then tell mike to wait for you if he likes you back he will wait.....if your not (totally)loyal to your bf (bc not everyone is fully dedicated to there bf/gf) then you can pull of bein a 'playa' and be wit the both of them....who knows mike could turn out to be the one or he could be ass
lilbambi87 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 3:36 pm: i think you should stay with your boyfriend cause you love him and you guys already been though alot. sure hes complicated at times but what guys arent. Going with mike might be a bad idea because if something happend and you were to break up that could possibly be the end of a friendship. With this new guy you should just get to know him better and have him has a good friend. but i really think you should stay with your b/f. cause 4 months just might turn into a lifetime.
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~BAMBI~ [ lilbambi87's advice column | Ask lilbambi87 A Question ]
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