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ok long story short>>>i got caught shopliftin.....(my friends had nothin to do wit it)......**dont tell me anythin about the shopliftin like its bad or anythin bc i undastand everythin that happened**....but my friends mom is pissed at her bc she is the one i was stealin shit 4....but i still dont want her to take anypart of it ....and im only aloud over her house if i talk to her parents but how would i start up a convo wit her parents?
if you dont mention anything about shopliftin is bad or anythin like that ill rate high...thanx
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Just tell them the truth about what happened and that if they don't know what to think, you understand because things like this can be hard for the parents to soak in.
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shoplifting is something poor people do dont get me wrong im not saying you are poor im poor lol but i dont shoplift you should explain to her parents that you friend had nothing to do with it and that you are really sorry adn you went to get it because you knew she realy wanted it
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Okay to talk to your friends parents you should do it in person and without your friend there. be like "(What ever your call them) your daughter had nothing to do with the shop lifting. You should not blame her or be mad at her she isn't the one who walked out of the store with the items, I am. She isn't the one who decided to do it, (I'm guessing she didn't want to) she didn't even want to do it. I just wanted to give her the stuff so I stole it. Don't be mad at her she didn't force me to do it. Be mad at me but not her." Something along those lines, just make it clear that you did it and not her. That way even though they most likely will blame you for everything it takes the heat off of your friend especially since she didn't do it. Just explain to them the situation and that she didn't do it. Let them know you wont do it again. Just basically apologize, I really hope this helps.
-Malicious
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i think you should just call your friends house and when the parents pick up say something like this:
hi mr(or mrs.)(their last name) this is (your name). i wanted to talk to you about this whole shoplifting situation. i know that you are probably mad at me and your daughter but i just wanted to clear it up that she had nothing to do with it. i know it was wrong to shoplift and i dont ever plan on doing it again. i dont know why i did it but i know it was a mistake. i dont expect you to have respect towards me anymore but i just wanted you to know that i learned my lesson and that your daughter had no part in it.
good luck, take care, and get back to me to let me know what happened.
-ashlea
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ok well i do it twho but i have never been cought...well i think you should deffinatly talk to the parents ... tell them that there daughter had absolutly NOTHING to do with it it was your actions! and she should not be punished for them tell your freind that you are sorry infront of her mom and dad...(make it look good) hahah...just be sincere and if this girl is this important to you you wil say anyhting to get her parents trust back i know it will be hard but....they will have alot more respect for you if you go there on your own time...
hope i helped
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How the hell did you get caught, most stores have horrible security, plus the security guards cant do anything to you.
Just tell her parents that you're sorry, blah blah blah didnt know what you were thinking. You dont have to mean it, just sound like you do.
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just say your really sorry and tell them your never gonna do it again and you hope they wont be mad at you for this mistake and not to take their daughter responsible for it. sorry you got caught! good luck!
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ok im not going to tell you that its bad..and you r u takeing blame for everything?? well if you are then To start a coneversation with her parents .. Be like hi Mrs. who ever and Mr. who ever,
You know about that shopliftin deal well i kinda Had full credit for it.. I mean i know that you are thinkin i am a bad kid ... BUt im not im learning from mistakes and im takeing full blame for my not so bright mistake... I really want to be friends with your daught/son .. And im really sry for everything.. please dont get mad at her if anything get mad at me..
Ok theres some ways to start it off!!
hope it all works out :)
hope i helped..
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You could start out the convo with " I understand that you are mad at me but i think that you shoudl give me another chance. After all i was stealin for your girl. Tell her that you understand the consequences and you are willing to take responsibilty. That should work... just make her believe that you are ready for anything that she could possibly throw at you as far as questions. answer everything in a complete logical answer so that she knows you are being truthful. Wish you luck!!!!!
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hey, that sux that ur in this position...wow..um...well if it where me i would call and be like 'hey i wanna tell you i made a mistake shop lifting...i realize that it wasnt a good descision and i would hate to lose my best friend over it' or something like that
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