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Not so Friendly.
I have a friend. I met her in September and she was really nice for about a month and then she started hitting me for no apparent reason. Supposedly her dad "abuses her" but no physically, and whenever she hits me she blames it on that and her insomnia. Her insomnia is cured, and if she's smart enough to blame her problems on her dad, I think she's smart enough not to do it. So it's been months now, and she's bruised me a lot, in the face once. She threatens people and blames it on me when I get beaten and whenever I get a bruise she says "It prolly just something stupid you did to yourself to blame on me." So she started talking about killing people, one of them happens to be my major crush who I would do anything for, but I can't tell her or she'll kill me. (different problem) So I went to my principal because she'll end up killing someone, and we got into a fight. The principal said she's not worth it and to stop talking to her. She said she's sorry but I don't believe it, but I'm scared she's going the beat me if I tell her. I can't ignore her forever. What should I do?
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If your "friend" hits you for no apparent reason, she is either not a true friend, or is trying to get a rise out of you. Tell her how it makes you feel and ask her why she keeps hitting you. Tell trusted adults about what has been happening and that it is getting worse and try to get her help on what to do about it
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tell your parents, possibly call the cops, or get transferd 2 another school
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Really you have been the best friend you can be.But when it comes to her hitting on you,you can tell this has to stop and I hav too stop being her friend.It really really sounds like she is taking her anger out on someone else because when her father hit her you know she is being abused and as a friend you should've helped her see someone.Im really not trying to say:DONT BE THAT LITTLE BACKSTABBERS FRIEND.But thats seems like what you need to do and you should really WARN the other people about what ever is coming their way from her next time:i really hop i helped:PLEASE RATE:ANY MORE PROBLEMS OR QUESTIONS PLEASE ASK ME AND TELL ME WHAT HAPPENS OK??:SIGNING OFF GRAPE.:
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WEll first you have to realize that your friend is going through some hard times. Just approach her gentily and say you want to be friends. next go to the police station and file a report on her dad. this might lead her to not want to be your friend but she needs help. and when she hits you just ask her not to n e more. she may find it as a game. and if all else fails speak to her mom. about the killing and hitting and her dad. tell her mom that she needs therapy.
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It does not matter how her father abused her. It is still abuse. Sounds like she is following her fathers footsteps in certain ways. At least she knows where her problems are pointing to. She needs help. Tell someone, before it is too late. Do whatever in your power to get her help. Even if it causes a few more bruises, she will thank you later.
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you gotta stop being her friend. if she beats you for not being her friend how does that differ from when she beats you FOR being her friend? and warn your crush. she may be female but a bad temper can make you alot stronger than a guy. so he needs to know. good luck!
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Well what I think you should do is try to ger her help so that you can still be friends with her, and the problem might be that she's taking after her dad by hurting you because thats the only she knows to do when she's mad because thats what her dad does.I hope I helped!!
♥Blondebaby
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Um she sounds really um odd...tell her that you want her to lay off you and leave you alone...say shes a good friend but you dont exactly appreciate what shes going through..wow thats messed up...
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Don't take your princepal's answer for an answer. She needs to get help. Like anger mangament. There is probably something wrong with her mind (unbalance chemicals or something) that makes her this way. She needs to get on medication. Go to a parent or guidence consuler so she can't hurt anyone. Get her help. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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you should deff not ignore her ..if she wants to start shit give it right back at her besause thats what she wants you to be scared of her so she has absolute controle over you like her dad had over her .....dont tell your pricipal..tell your counciler at school and also the parents of you and her....trust me it will help!
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