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I like a guy in my grade but there are few problems. First, all my friends hate him. And then he is about a foot shorter than me. And then of course, the popular girls of my grade are laways flirting with him, though I doubt any of them would actually date him. I sit next to him in one class, but I can't ever talk to him. It would be awkward for me to ask him out because I'm not sure if he likes me because he's always trying to impress his friends who don't like me, but when they aren't around he's nice to me. How should i approach him?
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Don't care about what your friends think. They can't choose who you like, and who you go for. In class talk to him in a casual way and tell him how you feel.
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Normally i would just tell you too let him be,because the way you are telling us how he treats you is most likely trash when hes around his crew......but when hes not he treats you nice.But if u could tell me more i can give you better advice you know....???But just approach him by saying hi/etc...and then start a little convo...after that ask him is he dating and take over from there.:HOPE I REALLY HELPED:TELL ME WHAT HAPPENS OK??,LEAVE IT IN THA INBOX"SINGNING OFF GRAPE:PLEASE RATE THANXXXX:
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I've always dated shorter... its not thatr big of a deal. Just one day start talking to him laugh and stuff at his jokes. But dont ask him out ... thats their job!
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Try just talking to him. I started talking to this guy once and we really got to know eack other and we ended up going out for a long time. And now even though we are broken up we are still really good friends. The more you talk to him the more you will know about how good of a boyfriend he would be. Don't kid yourself either. Be truthful to yourself and listen to your heart. Also bring up things about his family... guys like it when girls are interested in their background and where their roots are. Heighth doesnt matter my friend is the eaxct same way he is shorter than his girlfriend and they have been goin out for almost a year now. Don't let the popular girls get in the way. You are probably right they won't date him. Keep the voice of one of your truest friends in the back of your mind you never know they may actually be right. If you think that they are wrong then ask them to support their opinion. You have to keep an open mind. I hope you get the man you want or at least gain a good friend. Just get some gut up and go for it. Like I always say... you will always mis 100% of the shots that you don't take. Good Luck.
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Dont just walk up to him and ask him out or anything, if you dont even talk to him you should do that first, just find a conversation with him, if hes around his friends and he acts stupid or immature just ignore him because you can do better. But more than likely him tryin to impress his friends, hes just tryin to get you to notice him. Just talk with him, find out if hes interested in you, you'll never know until you try.
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