I'm 13 and i hope to be a therapist some day... or a school counciler cuz i luv helpin ppl!
Website: blondebaby9747
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Location: Texas!
Age: 13
AIM: blondebaby9747
Member Since: March 7, 2005
Answers: 19
Last Update: March 13, 2005
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ok well i love sports,iv played sports for 7 years but anyways ever since about 2 months ago i have been gettin these really painful pains in my knees & achillies tendons(they hurt very bad) after i finish a sporting event(football game,track practice, e.t.c. I told my parents about it but they just said it will go away soon but it hasnt! my science teacher said they wher growing pains but i dont belive her.CAN ANY1 HELP ME! i'll rate 5
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you should see a docter it may be arthrites even if you are 13. something could also be wrong. my friend wants to know if you are hott, she is very pretty(she is 13) a 17 year old is trying to get her, so if you want her, come and get her. write back.
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Hey. Well, there's this boy I like in my school, and I he may like me to, as to what my friend said...but I didn't hear the whole thing. Well, I found out her liked me when he was going out with his ex, so I didn't rush anything because I didn;t want to break them up. The later on broke up because she was cheating on him with 2 other guys, but no he goes out with another girl. I was so upset when they said he had a new girlfriend because I figured, why would he go out with another girl if he really liked me. I don't know what to do, and I think about him all of the time, what should I do because I really, really like him and I'm not to the type to make the first move! (link)
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Just wait and don't bug him about it. Cuz thats a big turnoff to guys ( trust me i know!! haha ),but just give him time. Or just keep your eyes open for someone better, you never know you could be crushing on the wrong guy! Hope I Helped!!!
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okay so i like this boy names josh and he is really sweet and nice and just perfect! well so i think. and we went to this place for school and he was always tellin me how pretty i was and how he loved to spend time with me and we even started to cuddle twords the end of the day. and well we went back to school and i barley ever see him at school maybe like 2 times when we're walkin down the hall but thats it! and we say hi to eachother and maybe talk for 1 minute but then we are off to class again! well tonight there is a party and he and i will both b there and im just wondering if he even still likes me... should i try and dance with him? and flirt with him? cuz its been 2 weeks since we were on that feild trip thing... so can if you can help me thatd b great!
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just act as you normally would around him and if he starts flirting with you flirt back! Good Luck with that!
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hey im 13 and i live in pennsylvania around pittsburgh... i want to start thinking about what college i want to go to.. i want to become a psychologist or a lawyer... what are some good colleges to look into? (link)
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TCU!!! hahha jk thats in texas.... harvard, or yale, or pembroke?
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all the boys at my school(but one)are cute in there own way and my mom say they really like me i flirted with some they flirted back but i never became closer to any of them but friends and enemys i don't know whats wrong im surronded by flirting hottys and i never get closer i feel invisable but i don't like it every one had a bf(or gf)'cept me i don't know what to do keep trying or just give up some one please help me ! ! !
~confused and lonley (link)
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don't give up, just maybe it isn't your time for someone yet. he'll come along eventually.
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I really like this kid and he says he likes me. We talk on the phone all the time and he says how much he likes me, and he always ends our conversations with, I love you. One problem, he has a girlfriend but he doesnt want to dump her because he doesnt want to hurt her. I really like him what should I do? (link)
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If he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend that just means he's not worth it, and its also a sign that he will end up doing the same to you if someone he thinks is better comes along.
Hope i Helped!
♥Blondebaby
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I want to buy a pair of vans from a website and I'm wondering..do they run small..big or just regular size? (link)
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i dunno.... go ask them?!
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Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??
:)
What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!
*-KeLs-*
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I think thats totally sweet and stuff.... but whats the occasion? I dont think you should do that out of the blue ,but i think you should do that for like your anniversary or something.
Hope i Helped!
♥Blondebaby
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I've never gotten along with my dad's side of the family. We see each other once a month and they always ask the same dumb questions. "How is school?" they ask and I say fine. "Do you have a boyfriend?" they enquire and I say no. Then they ponder ALOUD why not. Well, Today we went over there and I was nervous because this time I actually have a boyfriend. I was tempted to lie and just sit through hearing all my attractive qualities again. But instead of asked if I had one, they asked "Who's your boyfriend?" I was so mad that they just assumed that I had one! (Nobody had told them I did.) They just assumed I did and out of the blue wanted to hear all about him! Well I hate that side of my family and I NEVER want them to meet any of my boyfriends. They'd be totally embarrassing and would probably scare my bf off. So what do I do? I don't want to tell them anything about my boyfriend, I don't want them to think they'll get to "meet" him, and I don't want to tell them that they are nosey. What should I do? They probably think I'm rude because I did'nt even tell them his name! But I think they are rude for invading my business and assuming things. I don't care if they are teasing or not, it's sooo mega annoying! HELP! (link)
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What you should say to your family is that they shouldn't be invading your personal business. Or not to be rude... just say "i don't know" until they get sick of hearing it or until they get the picture.
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I have a friend. I met her in September and she was really nice for about a month and then she started hitting me for no apparent reason. Supposedly her dad "abuses her" but no physically, and whenever she hits me she blames it on that and her insomnia. Her insomnia is cured, and if she's smart enough to blame her problems on her dad, I think she's smart enough not to do it. So it's been months now, and she's bruised me a lot, in the face once. She threatens people and blames it on me when I get beaten and whenever I get a bruise she says "It prolly just something stupid you did to yourself to blame on me." So she started talking about killing people, one of them happens to be my major crush who I would do anything for, but I can't tell her or she'll kill me. (different problem) So I went to my principal because she'll end up killing someone, and we got into a fight. The principal said she's not worth it and to stop talking to her. She said she's sorry but I don't believe it, but I'm scared she's going the beat me if I tell her. I can't ignore her forever. What should I do? (link)
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Well what I think you should do is try to ger her help so that you can still be friends with her, and the problem might be that she's taking after her dad by hurting you because thats the only she knows to do when she's mad because thats what her dad does.I hope I helped!!
♥Blondebaby
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OK this is for everyone!
I have never had a boy friend! Is that bad?? And I want one, but no one wants to go w/ me! Cause i am a tomboy! I like to skate and stuff like that! I personally think i imtate boys! Cause i can shoot a ball into a basketball and i play sports! Is this a bad thing? I am 13 and i have a lot of boy friends! I have one that is my bff and i like hima lot is that ok? Plzz i rate high!!
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Yeah i mean it's ok to not have a boyfriend and it's normal as a 13 year old to want one too. I have friends that are tomboys and they have boyfriends... you never know your bff may like you too... thats kind of how it is when you have a guy friend thats really close, it's because they like you. I guess my advice is stay the way you are and don't change who you are to get him to like you because then it backfires. Hope I helped!! :)
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Hi there, I'm 14 years old and I have a problem with self harm. It used to be controlable, but now it's an addiction. No one else knows, and I don't know how I can stop, because it's getting really bad. How do I control it?? (link)
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Well i almost have the same problem but what i do instead is I punch a pillow as hard as i can or i just squeeze my fists really tight to avoid it. Or another thing i do is write them down on paper or listen to music or even cry. You can also talk to a close friend about your problems. But if its now an addiction you might want to go to a counciler or therapist to help ease your pain inside. Now is the time you tell somebody about it, before it goes to far. Hope i Helped!! :)
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Well, me and my friend have been friends like forever. WE are bestfriends and our families are extremly close. Well, she has tried braking the relationship every month and 3 or 4 times a month. I am sick of it!! And starting to get sick of her fighting. She can be oh so nice and OH SO mean. We only fight online because she doesn't want to fight in person. I think she might want the relationship to end but I really don't know. She says she will always come back to me every time we fight but sometime I think she won't. I really don't want to lose her but maybe the next time we fight this may be the end to our relationship. I need some advice with that. She used to say how I get all the guys, and how I am not pretty, and also how I copy her, and junk but like I don't understnad her. I have tried not telling her more close things so if we do lose the relationship she won't really have anything to say to anyone about my secrets. But Like I need help on what to do with her..... (link)
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Well have you tried asking your friend if she'd trying to end the relationship? And if so why would she want to? I know thats a really short and probably unhelpful answer but i hoped it helped at least a little! :)
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i was messaging my guy friend today and teasing him about liking this chick i know. (he used to like her) he's like "i dont like her. i like another girl but i know she doesn't like me." i was like "ooooh who is it? whats she like? how do you know she doesn't like you?" he wrote back "she's amazing and wonderful in every way. i know he doesn't like me... coz it's you, babe." i was like OMG i SO dont like him that way. what do i do??? (link)
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Well it's really confusing when your guy friend likes you as more than just a friend and the only thing TO do is when you don't like him that way just let him off easy and just say something like "thats soo sweet of you but i really don't see us as a couple" or "i really like being just friends right now." I really hope i helped! :)
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Okay. i have a problem with my baseball coach. I am 14 yrs old and his son is 14 also. My baseball coach beats hi son but i dont know how to tell n 1 about ....help me (link)
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Well if you know that someone is beating his son tell ANYONE (just make sure its an adult!!)! Right away too! But dont go telling every one. this is a personal matter. But you habe to know for sure before you tell anybody, because you don't want to get somebody in trouble for something they're not doing.
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my fiend and me go to the pet shop every day and hang out well there is a cute guy there i like and i always want to see him . but today she didnt want to go and i think it was because she didnt like me liking him or i am almost obsessed with him what should i do (link)
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Well belive it or not people do get tired of going places just for the things YOU want but I dont know the whole story. Your probably not obsessed with him though and thats what i was talking about ^^. But just ask her why she didnt want to go. hope i helped!! :)
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my friend just pantsed my bf and his underwear came down too! he's supposed to come over tonight...i don't know how i'm going to face him!!! HELP! (link)
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Wow that's really intense. When he does come over, the best thing i would do is to avoid the subject and just act normal. Hope I helped....
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I want my boyfriend to kiss me first. But I think he wants me to kiss him first. And I dunno what to do. His best friend keeps telling me to give him a kiss, but I kinda wanna wait til he kisses me! I am really confused about it tho lol. I might just give him a kiss tomorrow and see what happens. What do you guys think I should do? If it helps I'm 13 (link)
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Well, i have the same problem haha. I am waiting until my boyfriend kisses me. Or, this takes a lot of guts to do but ask him if he wants to kiss you, but you have a lot of guts if you are going to kiss him. GOod Luck! i hope i helped!
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I have this one friend named Jenna and she is SO sweet but about a month ago, she totally started hanging out with some other people. She still claims to be my friend, but I feel like she has just ditched me. So I told Jenna how I felt and she said she just has a hard time juggling friendships, but it seems like she has ALL the time in the world for her 2 new friends. So what can I do to help Jenna see the light or snap out of what she is doing? Would the silent treatment help at all? (link)
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Of course the silent treatment would not be the answer because that would mean that now YOUR not being a good friend to her. I'm really sorry about the whole dilemma though. Just be nice to her. I've been through the same problem and now me and her are great friends again. Just give her time.
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