i was messaging my guy friend today and teasing him about liking this chick i know. (he used to like her) he's like "i dont like her. i like another girl but i know she doesn't like me." i was like "ooooh who is it? whats she like? how do you know she doesn't like you?" he wrote back "she's amazing and wonderful in every way. i know he doesn't like me... coz it's you, babe." i was like OMG i SO dont like him that way. what do i do???
blondebaby9747 answered Monday March 7 2005, 9:32 pm: Well it's really confusing when your guy friend likes you as more than just a friend and the only thing TO do is when you don't like him that way just let him off easy and just say something like "thats soo sweet of you but i really don't see us as a couple" or "i really like being just friends right now." I really hope i helped! :) [ blondebaby9747's advice column | Ask blondebaby9747 A Question ]
MiszjustineRenee answered Monday March 7 2005, 4:56 pm: Oh my gosh the same thing happened to me..more than once...DO NOT tell him you like him cause that always messes things up =/ but just tell him you'd rather be friends for now...He'll get over it! [ MiszjustineRenee's advice column | Ask MiszjustineRenee A Question ]
MummuM answered Monday March 7 2005, 12:40 pm: Just tell him that you don't have any feelings for him. You just rather be friends right him right now. You don't want to hurt him but you can't make yourself like him. Tell him that you want to be friends for now. And if it's ment to be, it'll come around again. Boy you and him, liking eachother at the sametime.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
iwonderhowbrightstarsare answered Monday March 7 2005, 8:04 am: girl, give him a chance. go out with him once. this happened to me before but the guy didn't know well enough and so i never knew if anything could of happened. what's it going to hurt? he gets to be with the girl that he really likes and you could try to see what's more in him.
all i'm saying is GIVE HIM A CHANCE [ iwonderhowbrightstarsare's advice column | Ask iwonderhowbrightstarsare A Question ]
monkeygirl answered Monday March 7 2005, 6:26 am: i am in the same situation... my best guy friend told me he wanted to go out with me and he has liked me since the day he saw me.. I guess since you don't like him you are gonna have to let him down easy... tell him you can't see him that way and don't see him that way and you don't even want to risk losing eachothers friendship.. tell it to him in a nice way and keep asking him if he is alright everything will turn out good and he will soon like another girl.... well hope i helped [ monkeygirl's advice column | Ask monkeygirl A Question ]
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