|
What do i do?
OK this is for everyone!
I have never had a boy friend! Is that bad?? And I want one, but no one wants to go w/ me! Cause i am a tomboy! I like to skate and stuff like that! I personally think i imtate boys! Cause i can shoot a ball into a basketball and i play sports! Is this a bad thing? I am 13 and i have a lot of boy friends! I have one that is my bff and i like hima lot is that ok? Plzz i rate high!!
Confused
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
omg most boys i know would do anything to go out with a tomboy / jock. ur 13 -- give it a while .. dont change ur style! guys will realize sooner or later that they need a tomboy. Trust me, i play about every sport there is!! haha and im a tomboy .. and i love it! best of luck
]
not a problem, then guys can relate to you more! :)
you'll prob. have more in common!
*-KeLs-*
]
Why are you so worried about having a boyfriend at such an early age? YOu have years to go! Keep being active and stay fit--I think you'll appreciate your skills much more in the long run.
Cheers.
]
Dude! You rock! Look, I've never had a boyfriend, I'm the same age as you.. same gender too. lol. Ok, well, I can't play b'ball ... but, I do enjoy baseball, sports, and I'm a tomboy too. I don't care if I have a farmers tan, I'm a farmer's granddaughter! .. yeah. So, no. There's nothin' wrong with not having a boyfriend, and that's incredibly sweet that you like your best friend! That's ok. Does he know? He might like you too, if he knew. And, I have a good deal of guy-friends too, actually, I have more true guy-friends than I do girl-friends. Weird. There's nothing wrong with being who you are! God made you the way He wanted you to be, and if you're a tomboy, live up to that! Don't stop playin' b'ball if that's what you love, do it with pride. Just because you're the only girl that can shoot a ball into the basket doesn't mean you're weird. And, just because you're a tomboy doesn't mean that you wont be able to have a boyfriend. You should tell your best friend that you like him... he might like you too. You'll never know unless you ask. I'm glad you asked this question.
-FunnyCide
]
they are guys they just havent realized that your not a guy with mad tits yet
]
i have never had a boyfriends.. im 13 and i have alot of boyfriends??? what the HELL are you talking about?
]
ya its okay! u should just be yourself, and if t hey cant accept u, then thay arent good enough for you
]
Wait, first you say you've never had a boyfriend, then you say you have a lot of boyfriends. I'm going to use logic to clear this up: You've never had a boyfriend, but you have many friends who are guys.
You're just 13, don't worry about it. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 17. It's not bad that you're a sporty tomboy. Believe me, it's better to be appreciated for being talented and fun than for being a Barbie.
You could ask out your bff, that's better than ok.
]
Yeah i mean it's ok to not have a boyfriend and it's normal as a 13 year old to want one too. I have friends that are tomboys and they have boyfriends... you never know your bff may like you too... thats kind of how it is when you have a guy friend thats really close, it's because they like you. I guess my advice is stay the way you are and don't change who you are to get him to like you because then it backfires. Hope I helped!! :)
]
maybe if you just tone it down a bit dont act too too rough around the guys its definitly a turn off guys dont want a girl that can beat the shit outta them not saying that u actually want to but u noe that dont want a tough girl. maybe wear a little bit of makeup and do ur hair but dont totally change who u are just for a guy
]
no no thats awesome. maybe u can find like a guy who is a tomgirl or something
]
Personally, I think that being a tomboy is cool and that is CERTAINLY not a problem. My little niece is fourteen and a tomboy. She was going through the same thing. She likes boys, though. She's (what do you young people call it these days?) boy-crazy. She talks about boys 24/7 but can never get oine of her own. I'm going to tell you what I told her. "You don't have to change your personality to get boys to like you. You don't have to make yourself girly to get boys to like you. Boys will come to you. There are probably 5 or 6 boys that like you but they're shy." You are not imitating boys. You're being yourself and if you keep doing that, boys will be lined up just to skake your hand. LOL. Well, best of luck. P.S. It's DEFINITLY not a bad thing that you like sports. In fact, in high school, guys like that in a girl! :-)
~~~Kayla~~~
]
It's ok. Don't change who you are for a boy though. If you are a tomboy one day you'll find a guy that wants a tomboy. Everyone is differnet. Sooner or later you will find that one speacial person. I hope I helped! ♥
]
I used to be like that, when i was like 9-12. You shouldn't change they way you are to make guys notice you. And I had that problem too. I just got more girly I guess over the years, but I still kick ass in gym class and play sports, and I'd skate if I wanted too. That's deffinetly niot a bad thing. ALot of guys probably want a girl who will shoot hoops with them and not worry about breaking nails. And I haven't had a b/f either and I'm 14. So I think you should just be your self with a little flirting towards this kid you like. And see hoe things work out from there.
Hope I helped-
]
You are a 13 year old girl. You don't need to worry about not having a boyfriend. In fact many parents I know wouldn't even allow their children to date so young. Play sports and enjoy being young. Don't worry so much about boys.
]
More Questions: |