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He likes me and I like him!


Question Posted Saturday March 12 2005, 8:15 pm

I really like this kid and he says he likes me. We talk on the phone all the time and he says how much he likes me, and he always ends our conversations with, I love you. One problem, he has a girlfriend but he doesnt want to dump her because he doesnt want to hurt her. I really like him what should I do?

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angelinluv6767 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 11:56 pm:
im in the same situation rihgt now. i like this guy and he says he likes me too but he has a girlfrined. just let him break up with her, but until then dont say i love you or anyhtinga nd when he says it to you be like "you have a girlfriend so please dont say that" .. hope this helped you!

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Latina645 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 3:52 pm:
well.... i think.. you should keep talking to him.. but when he says.. the "i love u" stuff.. tell him not to say that b.c it snot right.. when he goes out with someone else



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Sophie_xxx answered Sunday March 13 2005, 3:43 pm:
I think that you'll have to tell him to end it with her, because otherwise then, in a way, you're cheating.
It sounds to me as though you make a great couple and I think that you should tell him that.
You will hurt the girl, obviously, but you'll hurt her more if the girl finds out what's been going on behind her back.
Hope I helped,
Good luck hun,
Sophie xxx

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sexy_as_fcuk answered Sunday March 13 2005, 3:18 pm:
I dont think this guy likes you as much as he says he does. He doesnt want to hurt his gf but at the same time he isnt being honest with her whickh in the long run will hurt her more. You shouldnt be second best to this lad find someone else there are plently of people out there for you.

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blondebaby9747 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:26 am:
If he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend that just means he's not worth it, and its also a sign that he will end up doing the same to you if someone he thinks is better comes along.
Hope i Helped!
♥Blondebaby

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karenR answered Sunday March 13 2005, 1:03 am:
He'll say whatever he can to keep you on the hook. After all if the other girl should break up with him he can fall back on you right.And in the meantime He can have his cake and eat it too.Save yourself problems down the road and find a new guy.I know you like this one but I think he's using you.Just be friends but don't expect him to dump the other girl anytime soon.

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goMango answered Saturday March 12 2005, 10:14 pm:
make her dump him :D

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MummuM answered Saturday March 12 2005, 10:04 pm:
Sweetie, you really need to find a new guy to crush on. This one seems like he's just playing with your heart. If he really does like you like he says he does, he wouldn't have a problem with dumping his girlfriend that he has now. It's great that you're really good friends with this guy, but I think that's all you should be. How do you know, if/when you actually do go out with this guy he won't be doing the same things he's been doing to you? He could be going out with you and telling another girl he's been talking to, that he loves her. So if I were you, I'd concider a new crush. This guy is not worth having you as a girlfriend.
♥ Krissy

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aeromonkey answered Saturday March 12 2005, 10:04 pm:
Whoa... well.. for starters, it's really sweet you've found love... appreciate it while you stil have it.

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MiZzAdViCe16 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 10:04 pm:
dont push him to dump his girlfriend (im not saying you are im just saying incase the situation gets bigger)just kept in touch like you are now and just wait for him to sump his girlfriend if he really wants an excuse and if he really doesnt like her he can just say someone told me that you said a bunch of trash about me and that you made out with this other guy

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Shortie8959 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 9:30 pm:
Hey. Well, I think that you should remain really good friends. Everybody ends up breaking up most of the time, so they're probably break up eventually. And when/if they do, just really be there for him, it'll make you closer and all. If it was meant to be, trust me, it'll happen. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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lilrocksta13 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 9:01 pm:
Move on. There are other fish in the sea. You never know what can happen. He may just be telling you that he likes you as a FRIEND so be really careful about what can happen/

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missing-identity-seeker answered Saturday March 12 2005, 8:50 pm:
TO: He likes me and I like him!,

well the first thing i would like to say is be careful with a kid like this. im not saying not to trust him. its just that you dont noe how many girls hes doing this exact same thing to and if hed do this to you when you guys are dating. get to noe him better first. but if you are REALLIE sure about it, no regrets, well the only thing i can tell you is to wait it off. you cant exactly make him break up with the girl he's with now and you certainly cant make the girl break up with him. and its only fair that she should discover the truth by herself because she is the one with him. ya noe?

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teengoddess12 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 8:25 pm:
don't give him one more speck of your attention. if this guy can easily cheat on that g/f of his, what's keeping him from cheating on you. i know that you're flattered and like that attention, but open your eyes dumbass

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