Member Since: March 7, 2005
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Last Update: March 7, 2005
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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?
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still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?
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what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help! (link)
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That is exactly what happened to me. Only in the very end he ended up breaking up with me for his ex. But the feelings were mutual. Me and his bf were bf 's too. So basically stick with the guy, just so that you don't regret it. Wondering about what could have happened is the worst ever. Or if you feel like he's loosing interest also, then just break up with him b4 he breaks up with you and makes you feel like shit.
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well my friend Ill call her *Kara* is like obsessed with a guy ill call him *Curt*. *Kara* doesnt think he likes her. So *Kara* is all depressed and stuff and thinks she doesnt deserve to live, all cuz she thinks *Curt* doesnt like her. *Kara* has asked *Curt* out numerous times, he said yes once but that only lasted a few days, all the rest of the times, *Curt* said no. Now to get to the point...*Kara* wants to kill her self and all she listens to is music about death. I dont want her to kill herself and i talk to her about if all the time. what should i do? Thanks a bunch!! (link)
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Mkay. first off, you need to tell this girl to set her priorities straitght. Tell her to find a hobby. For example, she can obsess over cars, like I do. You can help her by doing this with her. Show her that you have a badass hobby and she'll probably go with it. Then, the rest is up to her. U've apparently been a great friend for actually caring that much about her. Keep up the good work! It will pay off in the end and come right back to you.
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you know how most ppl have tht friend who is always there for them and they can trust them no matter what..pretty much their best friend? well i dont have a best friend, i just a lot of friends and theres lots of times where i need someone like a bestfriend that will keep all my secrets but i dont have neone like that so wht should i do!? (link)
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Sweetheart, it's called a diary. No one will ever know except for you. If you need some one to have a conversation with about it, then a friend will come along, don't wry. Always keep this in mind...Everything happens for a reason.
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well i have this friend and she is all nice and stuff around me...but when another person is around us shes different...for example today we went to abercrombie and i grabbed this shirt and she said she didnt like it...but then when my other friend came and said she liked it, she changed her mind...what should i do about it? (link)
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Well, she's trying to hard from my point of view. But w/e, confront her about it, communication is the ultimate key to friendships and dealing with things. Just make sure she's clear about it and understands.
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I have this one friend named Jenna and she is SO sweet but about a month ago, she totally started hanging out with some other people. She still claims to be my friend, but I feel like she has just ditched me. So I told Jenna how I felt and she said she just has a hard time juggling friendships, but it seems like she has ALL the time in the world for her 2 new friends. So what can I do to help Jenna see the light or snap out of what she is doing? Would the silent treatment help at all? (link)
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Dude, the silent treatment works if you wanna b a bitch. But if your one of those girls that will do w/e it takes. Then go for it. Other wise, she should snap out of it, because if you think that those girls aren't really good friends. Then there not gonna b there for her when she needs them the most. But you will. Don't wry, if she truly is a friend then she will start to realize it.
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I want my boyfriend to kiss me first. But I think he wants me to kiss him first. And I dunno what to do. His best friend keeps telling me to give him a kiss, but I kinda wanna wait til he kisses me! I am really confused about it tho lol. I might just give him a kiss tomorrow and see what happens. What do you guys think I should do? If it helps I'm 13 (link)
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Umm he's the guy, so he should make the first move. That's my opinion. If he doesn't make the first move and kiss you, then obviously he's a pussy. But if you feel that secure around him, and he's still not kissing you after a while, then go for it.
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Evcer since i was littel. .everyone hads been calling me a duck because of the way that i walk. . .i really just need help0 to learn how not to care what people think. .sometimes i wish i could just be someone elese or something. . . (link)
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K, if you walk like a duck, then stand in front of a mirror and practice walking, you'll get better at it. And if ppl keep on making fun of you, then tell them to shut the f*ck up and go screw themselves. You need to be secure about urself.
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my boyfriend is really mean to me, he gets mad at everything, sometimes hes nice and sweet but then other times hes mean. like today i told him someone was trying to get wit me and he goes ok im like do you care? hes like no and i sad your a asshole and he said i know and then i said im gonna laugh when i die cuz the kid was really bothering me and wouldnt leave me alone and hes like punch him in the face. hes soo mean some times. how do i get him to be nicer? (link)
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Mkay, babe, he's a guy. All my bff are like that. Sweetheart, i hate to tell you this, butr he's obviously not bf material. You can't be dependent on him like that. He obviously doesn't care whether or not you guyz are together...so dump his lame ass. You can do sooo much better. And you should get with that other guy that likes you if that's what makes you happy. If you don't wanna do that then warn him that you can't take him being a jerk any more and if he doesn't care, then like i said before , dump him.
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I have a friend at school, his name is Tyler. He isn't your popular jock. No girls like him. Just recently iv learned he likes me and would want to go out with me. We are very good friends.
And if I went out with him and we break up, I'm afraid it would ruin our friend ship. What should I do? Help!!!!!!!!!!
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If you think that it will ruin your relationship with him if you two go out...then don't do it. And be sure to explain to him why you made your decision just so that there is no miscommunication.
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