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My friend
well my friend Ill call her *Kara* is like obsessed with a guy ill call him *Curt*. *Kara* doesnt think he likes her. So *Kara* is all depressed and stuff and thinks she doesnt deserve to live, all cuz she thinks *Curt* doesnt like her. *Kara* has asked *Curt* out numerous times, he said yes once but that only lasted a few days, all the rest of the times, *Curt* said no. Now to get to the point...*Kara* wants to kill her self and all she listens to is music about death. I dont want her to kill herself and i talk to her about if all the time. what should i do? Thanks a bunch!!
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well *Kara* needs to know first of all that *Curt* shouldnt be the number 1 reason to live there are other guys out there for her and that she just needs to use *Curt* as 1 of those guys as a experiment maybe shes just not his type but a type for some other guy or even more then 1 guy and she shouldnt kill herself over just 1 guy thats pointless she has her parents friends and you to live for
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Kara def. needs help. She shouldn't deteremine her self-worth on whether a boy likes her or not. Tell her parents or a guidance counselor before its to late. She might get mad at you but that's better than having a friend that could potentially harm herself.
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Mkay. first off, you need to tell this girl to set her priorities straitght. Tell her to find a hobby. For example, she can obsess over cars, like I do. You can help her by doing this with her. Show her that you have a badass hobby and she'll probably go with it. Then, the rest is up to her. U've apparently been a great friend for actually caring that much about her. Keep up the good work! It will pay off in the end and come right back to you.
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You need to tell a counselor. She should not depend on "Curt" and be so upset that he doesn't want to go out with her. She's blowing it way out of proportion and is endangering herself.
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I think that you should have her talk to a counciler that was how my friend was!!!! SO i told someone and they took her to a counciler, and now she i feeling better and does not say that anymore!!!
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have her talk to a school counslor or talk to her parents.. if your afraid to, talk to them on the phone
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