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my boyfriend is really mean to me, he gets mad at everything, sometimes hes nice and sweet but then other times hes mean. like today i told him someone was trying to get wit me and he goes ok im like do you care? hes like no and i sad your a asshole and he said i know and then i said im gonna laugh when i die cuz the kid was really bothering me and wouldnt leave me alone and hes like punch him in the face. hes soo mean some times. how do i get him to be nicer?
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you dont deserve to have a boyfriend thats mean to you that is sometimes nice and sometimes mean and if hes sometimes mean where he punches guys in the face you need to think would he ever do that to me if i got him madder then what i have befor or if i stay with him and we get older and get married will he be changed or diffrent
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i dont think that u can make anyone nicer but dont be to nice to him yourself =)
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Ditch him. You don't need him, he doesn't need you. He doesn't sound like boyfriend material, and he also sounds like he doesn't like you as a girlfriend, more like a girl that happens to like him and is a challenge to break her heart. Anyway it doesn't matter what he thinks, you already have someone else in your life. Go out with him maybe you'll work out.
~passionate
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get rid of the asshole.. no girl deserves an asshole unless they are stupid enough to stay with somebody like that...sorry if it was mean..much luv dez
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You should dump him, because that can turn into abuse.
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It sounds like you're being mean kind of. I mean, just because he says he doesn't care that makes him an asshole? No, it really doesn't, he probably doesn't care because he either trust you enough to not get jealous, or hes not interested in you. Now, you should have asked, him, like, "Howcome you don't care, you trust me?" Or something like that, but you guys need to talk in private, he does sound like a jerk. I sugest for starters saying, "Ok, I don't like the way we are together, I really like you, and I really want us to be nicer, because you're usually the nice part of my day." And be calm, but if he starts yelling, hes not worth it.
-TheTeenGirl
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Mkay, babe, he's a guy. All my bff are like that. Sweetheart, i hate to tell you this, butr he's obviously not bf material. You can't be dependent on him like that. He obviously doesn't care whether or not you guyz are together...so dump his lame ass. You can do sooo much better. And you should get with that other guy that likes you if that's what makes you happy. If you don't wanna do that then warn him that you can't take him being a jerk any more and if he doesn't care, then like i said before , dump him.
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tell him that he needs to start caring because someone could be taking his Kool-aid, and if he doesnt care, then why waste your time?
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Tell him to stop being a ass n you love him and all but you dont like the way he acts like he has no feelings for you and like he dont care about you :)
Hope i helped love always ~ Ashley
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He might have an anger problem. You can tell him how much it bothers you and how you want him to be nicer...but the only way he will be nicer is if he WANTS to. I wish i could make people do stuff..if that was the case..everyone would be going out with who they want. But..reality is you cant make someone go out with you..you cant make anyone do anything. So what i would dois..tell him serisouly to stop..or the relationship will have to end. If he truly cares for you..he will make an effort to change. If it doesnt get better..do yourself a favor and breakup with him sweetie...you dont desserve someone whos mean to you.
-meliss-
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