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Hey my name is amber but everyone calls me bambi.
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i am 13 and i have been very depressed. Between basketball and my dad and my friends i have been very upset and depressed. i started cuttin and now i cant stop... HOW do i stop???????
go get help, my friend use to cut but she got help after she told someone. she hasnt cut for like 4 yrs. i can ask what the name of the place she went to is ....for you...only if u want me too. and you can sign yourself in there without a parent
I love my bpyfriend but then there are these 2 other guys. This is the problem..
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months and I love him a lot. Before I ever went out with him I always likes this other guy! Lets call him Mike. Well Mike and one of my best friends went out off and on for about 5 times. I never told anyone that I liked him and no one knew. Now Mike told me he liked me and he wants to go out with me! I dont know what to do because I like Mike also and I like my boyfriend. There is this new guy who came to school and I think I'm starting to like him to. I already feel jelous when someone flirts with him. We talked a couple of times tho and I like him. My boyfriend is very complicated at times! We have had some issues but we all worked it out! I dont know what to do!!! I like all 3 of these guys! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend because I love him and I also want to go out with Mike and I like this new guy! Please help! I`l rate good I promise! Thank you.
i think you should stay with your boyfriend cause you love him and you guys already been though alot. sure hes complicated at times but what guys arent. Going with mike might be a bad idea because if something happend and you were to break up that could possibly be the end of a friendship. With this new guy you should just get to know him better and have him has a good friend. but i really think you should stay with your b/f. cause 4 months just might turn into a lifetime.
HOPE I HELPED!
~BAMBI~
ok well i like this guy and i think that he might kinda like me a little bit but he has a girl freind and she used to be muh good freind but now we dont talk like at all and she already thinks that we fool around so .......muh ? is do u think that it would be bad to do shit with him behind her back?
savannah
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my advice would be not to do it, even if you and the girls arent friends anymore. but if u do end up doing something with him behind her back then it might not be so bad since she already thinks you did.
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My bf and I have been dating for about a month now and he recently told me that he thinks hes in love with me. I'm kind of turned off by that because its so soon. He keeps asking me how I feel and I told him I'm not sure, I'm not in love with him, what should I do.
i think you should tell him your not ready for love yet or you thinks its to soon. if he really loves you like he says then he'll understand!
Am I the only one that believes people should type correctly when asking a question? Is there some way to create something that would change words that were "Chatspeak" to English?
For example:
there is dis boi, i relli relli like him! wat do i do?
Would become:
There is this boy, I really, really, like him! What do I do?
I know that is a dumb question to start with, but it's an example. I don't know how to create a program that would change the "fake" words into "real" words.. if you know, and would share, you rock!
Dont listen to r4v3n......he isnt right in the head....he's telling you to die for trying to help understand what people type, but yet he told me to die for saying aint!
I want to make my hair look sort of touseled, sexy, curly. People tell me to use gel to scrunch it but it just makes it look chunky and wet...anything else I can do to make it look dry yet touseled?
have you tried, Got2be, they have Got2be glue, curls,straight...and more....but the glue and curls work the best
ok i was dateing this 21 year old guy and i fell in love with him but then i had to move away and then i came back where he lives and we live in the same home but he has another girlfriend and now i want him back but i don't know how
i suggest you do things, to show him and let him know you still love him. And how much you love him. Im sure if you show him how much he will take you back. but dont expect it to be right away. since he has a g/f and all.
ok well im 15 and in 9 grade and theres this boy that i like but i dont really know him. Well ever since the beginning of the year i always caught him staring at me and smiling but never anything else, then we gradually started talking but only in class (we have one class together)well this semester i sit right next to him in class and we talk all the time but only in class. if we see each other in the hall we never say anything. yesterday our class was in the computer lab & we were only allowed to sit by 1 person at a table. well i got up for a minute to go look at another computer that no one was at or by and he came over and sat right next to me and we just sat there talking and then he put his hand on my leg. then the teacher looked at us an he got up and went to sit next to this girl i hate but hes friends with her. so what the heck?! im so confused so if u could just tell me if hes hinting he likes me or if he just wants to confuse me? plz i rate high!!
hey, i think he really likes you. I also think you should give him your number and have him call you. If he calls you, he definatly likes you. I hope I helped you. Good luck....or you can ask him if he wants to hang out sometime, like go to the movies or something. If your shy write him a note.
~Bambi~
ok heres how it goes this girl that hates me because someone else hates me has come back from the roc a place for trouble makers and one of my friends is her friend well anyway she came back and my other friend hangs out with her nonstop and i dont wanna talk to her while that one girl is around cuz she hates me. so ii call my friend up and tell her how i feel but she doesnt even really seem to notice shes just happy that shes back and im happy for her but like now i have no one really to hang out with cuz they all hang out with that one girl you get what im saying?
I get what your saying. I think you should have your friend come over and confront her face-to-face. and if she still dont listen or if she keeps acting the same way then she aint really a true friend. but dont worry if all your friends hang out with her more. i have one very good friend since i started getting homeschooled and i only see her once or twice a month. but if that girl is a true friend then she will understand and make time for you and her, without the other girl.
Okay so, there is this guy that I like. The only problem is, I don't think he knows me. He is in my drama class but we never talk and I am sorta nervous to be around him. My friend is really good friends with him though, but I am also nervous to tell her! I really like him though, what do I do?!?
you should tell your friend and im sure your friend will have no problem hooking you two up. Dont be nervous to tell her. Or you can get to know him yourself, talk to him!
ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them?
you should tell them only if u trust them, or keep it to yourself.......its up to you......i tell my friends but alot of ppl like to keep that private.
I have these 3 best friends and I recently found out that they cut themselves. (they use to) 2 of them were really depressed, and the other one just follows around with the "crowd" she never leaves one of the other 2 sight. Anyway, when I found out, I was sort of "desturbed" you could say. The one who always follows evryone put it in her AIM profile.. as "slice and dice" I thought that was sick! People consider us as the "good girls" in our grade. I just don't know what to do.. the 2 who were depressed told their parents and got help, but the other one hasnt told anyone but some popular people at our school cuz she thought it was cool. They didn't want to tell me b/c one of my older friends committed sucicide and I said I was ready to hear what they ahd to say, but I wasnt. What do I do? Please help me figure this out! Thanks...
If any of your friends aint telling nobody, then you should tell someone about you friend and get them some help.
ook . me and this guy have been off and on rellie sice 6th grade but like went out for a couple weeks brokeup stayed broken up for about a 5 months and did the same routine till like recent in 8th grade . [its not like we didnt date other people] but recently we went out and like rellie not for a couple of weeks but a couple of months. and then we brokeup because we got into a fite and then madeup and have sort of been together ever since but recently hes been asking me out again n i want to go out with him but like i enjoy the way we are now . liek kissing all the time and hangingout everysingle day but he wants more . i relie dont want more than that becase hes differnt when we go out . i telll him that and he doesnt understand. hes been dipping[chewing tabacco] smokeing and takieng steriods and i dont rellie like it n hes been haveign roid rages at me and i like him but i dont know what to do .
ok, i think you should take a break from him, no kissing no hugging no nothing. I know you like it but that just makes it more tempting on his part. im sure he knows what dipping and smoking can do to him, but i doubt he knows what steriods can do to him. you need to get him some help. or you should figure out a way to convince him not to do roids. He needs to understand whatever you want to tell him. If he keeps going on like this then find a boyfriend and show him you dont wanna be nothing more. but for now i think you guys should take a break.
I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou
i have the same problem, but im not going to change for a guy to like me, and neither should you. cause once you change its not you. if guys dont like you for who you are then screw them. (not literally)(lol). because eventually that guy will come around and youll be the happiest person ever.guys arent that important anyways, i havent had a boyfriend since i was 14. I have a lot of guy friends that are not attracted to me but im ok with that. so dont worry, someone will come along that likes you for who you are.
Well I straigten my hair everyday because otherwise my hair looks disgusting. My hair has a lot of static whenever I get done straitening it and I even put lotion in it sometimes since my sisters do it and they dont have any static. Is there anything I could do or a product could do for me? Any suggestions?
my hair is the same way. when my or my sister straighten my hair we put hairspray in it right after we straighten it.
i`m a freshman in high school. ever since i was about 4 or 5, i've had an excessive bladder problem i guess you could say. when somebody makes me laugh, i start to piss myself. it's been happening lately at school and volleyball practice, and i have nothing to cover it up with! is there any type of medicine i could take, or anything that could help prevent this or something.. ? please help
if you're going to laugh or make fun of me, you'll be rated a one, and i'm gonna report you. =)
hey, i know they have medicine for overactive bladders. ummm do a search online and im sure you can find something that can help you. then find out if they have it at your nearest drugstore. they also have underwear type this that you can wear. and dont worry the dont look like diapers either.
I'm a really good singer. All of my friends have said so, and are threatening to take me too American Idol when I'm 16. And I love to sing. But when I go to do it in front of some people I get really nervous and choke up. Any suggestions on how to get rid of my nervous-ness??
I am a very shy person and i get nervous when i walk into a room of strangers. All I do is I take a deep breathe close my eyes for five seconds and imagine im somewhere else. if you do go to american idol then when you get in front of the judges picture yourself back at home singing for you friends.
When my b/f puts his arm around my shoulder is it beeter to put my arm around his shoulder or waist
i think his arms should go around your waist and yours should go around his shoulder. but is he puts his arm around your shoulder then put ur arm around his waist.
Ale(girl) and i(girl) are really close. She means the world to me and we gone to each other for everything but now she acts as if she hates me and i dont know what to do?.. help me please
hey, this happended to me recently. You should confront her and ask why she acting like this. tell her to be honest with you. when this happend to me, it was because she had this boyfriend and they had each other whipped. so i confronted her and asked her why shes been acting so mean lately, and i finally got it through her head that he was no good for her. so i suggest you find out what is wrong with your friend. then try and fix it. maybe she juss heard a rumor or something. but find out. everysince i confronted my friend she hasnt chose a guy over me again and we are closer then ever. good luck
BAMBI
I am 14/f and SUPER shy and I really like this guy and its not even that i know him or anything cause i havent said one word to him and i need a way to let him know that i like him without really saying "hey i like u"... uhmm.. i see him in skool at lunch and sometimes in the hallways and i dunno hes not even that cute or anything but somehow i am attracted to him and ive seen him looking at me and then he would turn away when i looked at him but im really not sure how to show that i am intersted in him :( please help...i am so desperate cause i really really like him. and if u have any advice slightly related to this please jus say it! thanks! i rate high!
hey,
if you like this guy and you dont wanna tell him you like him, then you can write a note. but if u cant think of anything to write then have a really good friend of yours tell him for you. By the way you say he looks at you then there really is no doubt he likes you. i mean cmon, has a guy ever stared at someone he dont like.
well hope you take my advice