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love?
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My bf and I have been dating for about a month now and he recently told me that he thinks hes in love with me. I'm kind of turned off by that because its so soon. He keeps asking me how I feel and I told him I'm not sure, I'm not in love with him, what should I do.
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I think you should stop leaving him place to stick his high hopes. Cut to the truth and leave out all the insecurity, blah blah. Just tell him that you're not ready for the love declaration.
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Tell him that you really like him but you just don't Love him ... YET...
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Honesty is the best policy! Tell him that you're not ready to make that kind of decision, but you know that if given (much) more time, you can love him. Love is a process and it takes time, effort, and work, but if you're both willing to take things step by step, then who knows what good things can happen? And kudos to you for not being stupid and deciding you love him after only a month! That's wisdom!
Cheers!
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If your not in love with him, he needs to accept that. Tell him he is moving too fast and that he needs to slow down in order to make it work better.
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Tell him you really like him but its too early to say you love him. Tell him you love to spend every minute with him but its too early in the game to say you love him. Tell him the more time you spend with him, the more you like him. Or somehing mushy like that.
I hoped i helped
xoxo BLONDE911
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Wow, that sounds familiar. The exact same thing happened to me. My guy said he loved me and I was like "...whoa, too fast..."
I just told him "I'm sorry, I just don't feel as strongly as you do - at least not yet."
Just be honest. If you aren't in love and you're not sure you will be, don't tell him it'll come along just to make him feel better.
So be honest, but be nice about it. Tell him it freaks you out that it's so soon. Telling him you're not sure was good.
But whatever you do, don't say "I love you" until you're really ready, and really in love.
Just go with your gut instincts. I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Be honest. What else is there to do?
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tell him the truth then say give it some more time or you can always have sex and maybe that'll change things
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Jus tell him that you dont love him yet.. tell him you think it will come along but its jus not deep or anything right now.. Tell him you dont think he loves you real deep.. he could be tellin you that cause usually that gets to girls and we fall for that kinda stuff..much luv dez x0x0
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Just tell him you need more time to think. He should understand that if he really loves you. Some people fall in love quicker then others. Some people also take a while to fall in love. Let him know you still care about him but that you'll tell him you love him when the time is right, becuase you don't want to say it and not mean it. He should understand. I hope it helps if not you can always get my information from my advice column and i/m me or email me with a question.
-Malicious
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Tell him you dont love him! Honesty is the best policy..
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Just tell him that you need time to think about it and that you enjoy been in his company
luv roxie
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Don't say "I love you too" until you're ready. That's important. Tell him the truth- that you're not ready to say it back, and you'd like him to stop asking, that it's making you uncomfortable.
At the same time, he's given you his heart- so be careful with it- the human heart is a fragile thing. Reassure him that you do care about him, and are enjoying dating him.
I hope things work out for you two!
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Well, I think you just did what you should do.
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i think you should tell him your not ready for love yet or you thinks its to soon. if he really loves you like he says then he'll understand!
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just tell him the truth. don't worry about it. you can't help how you feel. so just be honest and tell him.
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Don't break his heart because ther chances are that if you don't love him now that you won't love him later so let him go and find someone else i hope my advice has helped and plz rate me.....
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Tell him the truth. Explain to him that you're not IN love with him yet, but you love him for him. You know that you can fall in love with him, but you just need a little more time. Tell him that you do care about him a lot and explain just how happy you are with him. I'm sure these feelings will turn into love soon hun. You just need a little more time to get your feelings right and he should understand that. Some people fall in love easy, while you want to take your time with it. Don't worry, once you explain everything he'll understand.
♥ Krissy
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you two should still go out, but i dont think it matters if he loves you and you dont love him. if your comfortable being around him while he loves you, you hsould stay with him and maybe you'll fall in love with him, or learn that your not right for eachother. so i say stay with hi and see how your relationship goes. i hope fo da best
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