ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them?
Claire15 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 2:50 pm: Only if you trust them 100% and definetly would want your friends knowing what the two of you got up to. You don't want one of your friends falling out with you next week and it ending up all over the school that you had sex. Plus sometimes just you and your boyfriend knowing about it makes it even more exciting and special. Personally I think you should keep it to yourself for the moment, give them the toned down version if you need to and in time maybe tell your closest friend. That way it won't be used against you and it'll continue to be an exciting secret that you and your boyfriend share.
tara_rose101 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 12:57 pm: If you think that they'll understand and won't tell anyone you can. but sometimes friends don't understand. so if you really trust them you can. also don't tell all of your friends. [ tara_rose101's advice column | Ask tara_rose101 A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday March 10 2005, 9:33 am: I hope he used protection first thing.Second thing is I wouldn't make a habit of doing it at his house...What if someone walked in on you? Man talk about huge embarasment (sorry spelling)!
Third, keep your private life to yourself.Don't uh, kiss and tell. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
LilSport1992 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 8:54 am: You should talk to your boyfriend about it. Ask him if it would be okay to tell one or two friends at the most. If he says no then dont say anything and just talk to him about it. Hope i helped. [ LilSport1992's advice column | Ask LilSport1992 A Question ]
Altazuma answered Thursday March 10 2005, 5:06 am: No.
You may trust your friends, but I am willing to beat they don't deserve that trust. It will be all over school within a day. Some bits of information are just too tempting for people to keep as a secret. [ Altazuma's advice column | Ask Altazuma A Question ]
icey0990 answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 9:41 pm: Well..sex is a private and emotional matter. If you feel comfortable telling them..then go ahead. If it were me..i would tell one person..two at the most. This way if runors got around i would know exactly where they started from. I know you may want to tell a group of 6 or 7 frinds..but thats dangerous..because one of them might tell one of their good friends..and trust me stuff gets around very quickly. I've seen people get embarassed because of rumors n it really messes them up. So if your anxious to spill about it all..only tell 2 really close friends who you can trust. If you feel that you dont want to tell anyone..thats perfectly fine too. You can just say "we made out and thats all."
Im a virgin..but if i were in your place i would probably end up telling one or 2 really close friends. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
irish_mobsta91 answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 8:13 pm: you should only tell them if your truly trust them. i mean, TOTALLY trust them. pls, dont rate me on this, b.c i havent evn had sex yet, so i dont know what to really do, im just saying what i would do.
irish
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angieroonie answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 7:40 pm: If you trust them then tell them! it's your secret to tell though so be careful who you tell. you might also wanna check with your b/f if he minds you telling your friends. [ angieroonie's advice column | Ask angieroonie A Question ]
x0s0uljahx0 answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 7:35 pm: aye it savannah ...umm i dont think that u should tell them because you dont want your boii freind to get mad and if you tell one person the hole world will know! trust me ben there done that ...and also.......it might make u look immature to brage about that sort of thing...
toxxxic11ana answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 7:10 pm: If you are imberess to tell them... well don't tell them just half u know yall just kissed and you totally loooved it!!!!
But now if you really want them toknow but not everybody else just tell to one of your closest friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ toxxxic11ana's advice column | Ask toxxxic11ana A Question ]
Lizzy answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 7:08 pm: ummm, no. But you can tell someone you trust. If your b/f finds out you were out showing off about having sex with him, he'll probly be pissed. Unless the two of you decided that you can tell people, respect what you two have privately.
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lilbambi87 answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 6:43 pm: you should tell them only if u trust them, or keep it to yourself.......its up to you......i tell my friends but alot of ppl like to keep that private. [ lilbambi87's advice column | Ask lilbambi87 A Question ]
RaCheLbaYbEe answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 6:43 pm: Only if you want to. I mean, Ive done that before and it everyone in school found out. If you dont want that to happen, you shouldn't tell your friends - even if they ARE trustworthy. Word gets around so fast! lol. Plus, sex is a private thing just between you & your boyfriend and he might be mad if he finds out you told people. If you dont care about any of these things, then go ahead! =) ♥ racheL [ RaCheLbaYbEe's advice column | Ask RaCheLbaYbEe A Question ]
lilrocksta13 answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 6:35 pm: Sooner or later they may find out, but you have rights to privacy and so I wouldn't say anything if I were you but if it feels right, you should tell them everything. [ lilrocksta13's advice column | Ask lilrocksta13 A Question ]
luv2swim109 answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 6:34 pm: if you trust them then yes. only a few. you never no. dont tell ALL of your friends though. im sure one of them might end up spilling. what i think you should do is only tell your closest friend. the one you trust with your life. hope everything works out!!......with your friends and your b/f
XxLiiLSiiNgErXX answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 6:31 pm: tell them straiht up that you guys screwed and it was mad fun! tell them that he's mad good and that he gave you like 4 orgasms and all that stuff.. mae them jelous... by the way.. how old are you? lol
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