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Hey y`all! My names Rachel & I live in Texas! Ive lived here my whole life - I ♥ it here ; dont mess with Texas. Haha thats for my friends. I ♥ to give advice but Ive been really busy lately so I havent been able to update my site since like May! Sorry! Anyways, I have a boyfriend now whos name is..♥ Tyler =) such a hottie! I love him so much. I graduated High school! And I turn 19 August 12th! 18 was such a BLAST ; ill miss my first year of being legal, haha. Im going to school in CALiF0RNiA next year! So excited;yet nervous, nervous, nervouss!! Ah! But it will be SO much fun. I`ll miss my friends more than anything. But Tylers going to school like 20 minutes away!

Ask Me About:
Sex - Im not a virgin, but Im not a slut.

Boys - Ive had a fair share of guys in my life, some good & some bad. Ive also been in an abusive relationship.

Friends - Ive lost many in my life & gotten new, great ones.

Family - I`ve had my fair share of fights;job losses, etc. I also have 2 little sisters [12 & 15, an older brother whos 23, and a baby brother whos 2. Enough said, I hope.

Fitness - I know how to stay fit & healthy..and I used to be a very heavy child but changed all that.

Cutting - Ive cut before and I did for 2 years of my life. Its not the answer.

Fashion - I ♥ Fashion ..its my life! So I know what to do with hair, makeup etc.


^& Just about anything else. I ♥ to get things in my inbox! So ask away!








Love ♥ Always,
Rachel

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since you listed it, do you know if and where they might have any copies of the maus series?
-hitler

Hey, what do you mean? Lol, sorry Im confused ..what did I list? And where?

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i am VERY short, so whenever i buy jeans, i cut them to fit my length (instead of hemming them), cause i dont care about the little freys at the bottom. But yesterday i bought corduroy pants that are of course too long, if i cut them, would that ruin them?

No, i dont think it will ruin the pants but it might be hard to cut evenly since corduroy is sucha thick fabric ♥ rache

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heyy i reli reli need help.... i luv my bf hes my sweetheart but im scared ill luv him too much then somthing will happen like b4 then we got back..... is this normal since im scared im gonna losse him???
well thnx mwah luv yah!!!!!!

Yeah, its totally normal! I guess with my Bf i trust him ..like I know when the time is right the time is right, and sometimes relationships end & people stop loving eachother. Just enjoy the time you have now with your bf nstead of worrying about the future. Just take it one day at a time - thats the key to a good relationship! =) Good luck ..mucho love ♥ Rachel

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my bf never talks 2 me at skool...i am his 1st gf ever...and he gets REALLY nervous around me!..wut do i do???...i like him a lot ...but he need s 2 talk 2 me 2!

Find out what he likes to do so he will have something to talk about =) like for example, if he likes hockey try bringing that up some how, so he might feel comfortable and speak up. Your right hes probably REALLY nervous - your his first gf! So, give him some time & try to make him feel comfortable. ♥ racheL

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(14/f) Everyone thinks I make all my boyfriends up because they don't go to our school.. I don't understand why they'd talk such crap about me behind my back or why one of my 'friends' doesn't even believe me.. it makes me feel like they think I'm not pretty or nice enough to get one and so I have to make one up! Someone please help me.. what should I say?

Maybe they are just suspicious since they dont meet people from other towns. To tell you the truth, it really doesnt matter what people think. As long as you know you have a boyfriend that loves you, it doesnt matter if other people believe you. Though, they should because you ARE friends and why would you make up a boyfriend? Ask them that and see what they say. They`re being selfish and you need to tell them that if they dont start believing you, theyre not really your friends. You shouldnt have to prove yourself to anyone, even your firends hun. ♥

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okay... friday night i went to my best friend tina's house and we had 5 guys over. we aren't that good of friends with them, so it was awkward. we took a " drug" of some sort ( i know what it was, but i don think i should specify) and it really lightened the mood. At the time i liked this guy named Matt. but matt wasn't at the party ( tina's house )anyway, i had prevously liked this other guy ted ( he isn't that cute and hes shorter but he has a good personality) . at the party when the mood was lightened i told him that i liked him( which i did, and do now) and i said he could finger me. then tina's mom came down and it was time for the boys to leave. the next day i was back to normal and now i still like matt again. I like them both. i like matt more than ted but i still like ted. now what do i do.. ted thinks he can finger me, and i want him too. but i also like matt. i am so confused!! HELP PLEASE!

Hey, you have to really follow your heart on this one. Are you sure you really love Ted or is it just a friend with benefits since you would let him finger you? Obviously, I dont know who you have a better relationship with because its only one party and i dont know much about the whole situation. Did you really like Ted when you said that to him? Or were you just stoned and wanted to be fingered? you have to ask yourself all these questions to find out if you would really want to have a relationship with one of the boys. Try to see who YOU could picture yourself with personality wise. Its a hard decision and somebodys going to get hurt, but you should make it now so you dont lead matt or especially Ted on. Hope i helped ♥ Rache

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I want to buy a pair of vans from a website and I'm wondering..do they run small..big or just regular size?

They run small. ♥

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What are some stores or websites where I can get really cute skirts for our school's spring fling?

Try http://gojane.com, http://ae.com, or http://abercrombie.com =)

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Hey does anyone know where i could get some really cute bikini's for the summer? i am going on an early vacation so your help is greatly appreciated! x0

Victorias Secret*Old Navy*Filenes*Sears*TJ Max*JCpennies* anywhere basically!

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there is going to be a dress up day at school on s. patricks day and we have to wear a st. patricks day shirt i love good luck bear from the carebears selection does any one know where i can get a good luck bear shirt???

Try Hot Topic -♥ rache

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i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok???????

Its totally okay! Everyone gets lonely once in awhile and wants somebody to comfort them and hear i love you! ♥ RaCheL

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i like this boy and he likes me 2 but wen i am around him somthing bad or eberrasing happens wen i try 2 fix it i just make it worse wut shood i do?

Hey! Ugh Im the same exact way!! Im SUCH a clutz & a dumb blonde and I always say stupid stuff around guys so its okay! Just laugh it off! Like if you drop something be like woops! And smile. Lots of my ex-boyfriends thought it was cute! So, dont let them know your upset just chill and look really cute while your fixing it! =) ♥

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Ok, about a month ago I noticed a small lump around my crotch.. I have just noticed it getting bigger.. Its about 5mm long, and 2mm high.. what do you think it is? could it possibly be cancer? if so.. what sort?

17/m

It could be cancer or another type of STD if youre sexually active. Go to your doctor immediately so that if its something serious they can diagnose and treat it. ♥

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Hey, does anyone know a good way to make your leg go higher in an arabesque and such? And also, how to get your split better? Thanks so much!

The best way is just to stretch as much as you can every day! Make a shecudale for yourself, such as every day when you wake up, get home from school, and before you go to bed stretch your leg in any excercises you know! Splits take practice and lots of it so try going as far down as you can each day a little more. ♥ plz rate and view the column! Im new =)

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What is a fast way to get tan...like my mom said i she would get me a membership at a tanning bed but im scared ill get skin cancer...

Hey..well its your decision - the fastest way to get a tan IS by a tanning bed, but there are of course the skin - cancer risks that are involved you might be concerned about it. I think your ok but you should think it over before you go. I suggest not going tanning all the time, maybe only for special occasions - dances, parties, dates, etc. ♥

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my boyfriend always fingers me and eats me out but the problem is i never have an orgasm. i was wondering why that is or if theres anything i can do to have one?
14/f

Maybe hes not doing it in the right spot. When hes eating you out, tell him to lick near the clitoral hood and lick the lips of your vagina. Most people dont know this but licking just the vagina probably wont give you an orgasm very quickly. ♥

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Is it legal to have a tag cover (the tag on the back of the car) that covers up the county name?
I live in georgia by the way.

Yeah

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HeY! i'm 16... (17 in 2 months) and i just started going out with a guy whos 20 years old... the thing is.. he thinks i'm turning 18... and i'm scared to tell him... because i dont want to loose him! what should i do?

As hard as it is, you have to be honest with your boyfriend, especially if you love him. Im sure your aware that it`s illegal to be going out with him even if you want to - statuatory rape (sp?) So, you have to let him know so he knows what he is doing. I really hope this all works out & you stay together. ♥

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I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help...

You might be feel sick, spotting, tender breasts, mood swings, be hungry a LOT and have cravings. Your best bet would be to go get an EPT or First Response Pregnancy test. Chances are, you are pregnant if you have spotting, nausea, and the condom fell off. &heartsl; good luck

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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 months and on sunday im going to his house for a couple of hours... ok well we kiss all the time and i want to be able to kiss him in other places. please give me ideas of where guys like to be kissed nothing like head or anything cuz we've both said were not ready for that. thanks bunches

Try kissing his lips ((gently)), his neck, his ears, his nose, his eyes when theyre closed its really sexy, cheek, hair. ♥

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