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my boyfriend always fingers me and eats me out but the problem is i never have an orgasm. i was wondering why that is or if theres anything i can do to have one?
14/f
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Maybe hes not doing it in the right spot. When hes eating you out, tell him to lick near the clitoral hood and lick the lips of your vagina. Most people dont know this but licking just the vagina probably wont give you an orgasm very quickly. ♥
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Maybe you dont get any affection from that maybe you should try doing something different or continue doing what you have been doing just add something different
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oh my gosh! you shouldn`t let anyone finger you your only 14 even though im 14 i should know that no one in their right mind is going to touch me anywhere down there! your grosss letting him do that to you!
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Well first of all. . .mabye he's just not good a at it. . .2nd of all. . . .fake t. . .all girls do it. . i know i do! Happy to help :)
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most girls dont orgasm that young in age. most girls dont have a real orgams until they reach their twenties.
but if u think it is just you or just him not getting the job done, then tell him what you would like him to do. he will be more than willing to do it if he can make you orgasm. but just remember what i said avove this though. if it doeant help then you'll just have to wait to experience it.
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You can masturbate.
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Without getting embarrassed, woudl you mind telling us if you are able to give yourself an orgasm? Many girls/women have difficulty achieving this, at least until they are a fair bit older.
Also, as the others say, give him some guidance on when he is getting it right and when he isn't. Be nice about it. If you make him feel like he is no good at it and wound his ego, he will break up with you and label you as a frigid b**ch just to save his own ego. He may be too young to really know but every single woman is different. There is no guaranteed way for him to know what will work for you and what wont. So it really really isn't any fault of his or his technique. Make sure he undertstands that. Just tell him that "Oh that feels great but it feels even better when you did.......". Then you can guide him without making his feel like he was doing anything wrong.
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If he's your age he probably just isn't doing it right.Even if he's a little older he probably isn't doing it right.I can't believe i'm telling you this! If you think it would feel better elsewhere you have to tell him where.He doesn't just automatically know these things.You'll just have to experiment until you get it right.When you do you'll know it!I hope that didn't sound mean my saying he isn't doing it right...that wasn't my intention there is just no other way to say it! NOt his fault.You teach him!okay? Feel free to ask more if the need....arises.
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Tell him what things you like
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