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HeY! i'm 16... (17 in 2 months) and i just started going out with a guy whos 20 years old... the thing is.. he thinks i'm turning 18... and i'm scared to tell him... because i dont want to loose him! what should i do?
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If he really really loves you, he should realize that age is just a number
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You should tell him. It's not fair for him to be in a dishonest relationship. If you guys have sex, he could end up going to jail because you didn't tell him the truth.
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Be honest with him. my ex always used to think i was 18. He was 22 at the time. I jus told him there and then. I cant see your boyfreind having a problem with it unless you have lead him to believe you are older than you actually are.
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wtf is your problem if you lie to a guy about your age then your screwed you should eitehr try talking to him or forgt him bc thats just wrong
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Tell him because sooner or later he is going to find out and things could get awkward when you are together.
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As hard as it is, you have to be honest with your boyfriend, especially if you love him. Im sure your aware that it`s illegal to be going out with him even if you want to - statuatory rape (sp?) So, you have to let him know so he knows what he is doing. I really hope this all works out & you stay together. ♥
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You have to tell this guy the truth about your age. A relationship is all about trust, so make this guy realize he can trust you and tell him your real age. If he really likes and cares about you, he'll let this one slide. I'm sure it won't be a really big deal. Make sure you explain to him how much you don't want to lose him over something this silly. Add in your sorrys and I'm sure he'll understand everything.
♥ Krissy
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jsut keep on not telling him, that could work. im sure he wont mind though, assuming you havent had sex. if you have then theres a chance hes mad, but if you havent if anything hell probably be happy.
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well, i won't lecture you about the age or anything.
but tell this guy the truth before he finds out another way. make sure you include your sorrys and all that=P
if he's a keeper, then he'll let this one slide.
i've been in that situation, and even though i was scared, i told him, and he was okay with it.
Don't worry! Hope I helped.
*Diamyn*
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