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Not talking?
My boyfriend says that I ignore him! And I don't think I am! I talk to him whenever I see him and between almost every class and everything! I dunno if because usually my friends are around he doesn't want to talk or what. I've tried talking to him more and talking to him when no one else is around. Is he just like really shy or what? Cause it's like really annoying when he says that I don't talk to him or else I ignore him! Help!
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Maybe he feels like he needs more time with just you and him. Also, maybe it isn't talking he wants...he might just need you to listen. It's really frustrating to have something on your mind that you want to say and then never have the opportunity to say it, or have someone just listen to you without interrupting. That could be what he needs. Next time you are alone together, just ask simply ask him in your sweetest voice, 'What are you thinking about right now?...' or 'What's on your mind?' This will give him the opportunity to say anything he needs to, and will also show that you care. Also, it is the little things that matter alot. Whisper something in his ear...its more personal. Leave cute little notes in his locker...they will remind him of you and show him you are thinking of him. Call him just to ask how his day is going. You don't have to shower him with attention, just show him you care. Little things really do make a difference. I hope that helped! Leave something in my inbox if you need anything else!
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Maybe he needs someone to listen for a while? Ask him what he thinks he needs. It doesn't sound like you are ignoring him. Maybe you two need to spend some one on one time for a little bit. He just may miss having a few hours with all of your attention.
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You just keep trying to include him.If he doesn't want to be included there isn't a thing you can do about it.Maybe he's looking for an out I don't really know.Good luck with him.
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Maybe your bf is shy, he wants to spend alot of time with you.. call him on the phone or talk on AIM,AOL,MSN, something like tht. Talk to him about stuff, and let him no you care for him. maybe, hes not one of thse people tht dont liek to hang around their gf friends, and just want you. Idk im not sure but talk it out and if you really like the guy thn tell him how you feel.
x0o goodluck
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you call him at his house and u 2 can walk at the park alone and talk to each other and say what is on your mind.
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I think yall just need some time to talk....
Like yall can go somewhere for a walk or something and talk about it.
You can probally ask him you know are you just shy or i dont know......
Everytime you are talking to your friends and like you see him.. if i wee you if he hav't met your friends make them know each other....
And now everytime he sees you next to them he can probally join the group and talk more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok, what i used to do to give my boyfriend attention kinda worked. During lunch, we would go say hi to everyone, talk for a minute, then go get our own table so we could talk. Don't just small talk either. Find out some deep stuff about him. It really works, i promise. Don't call him, tell him he can call you, but do not call him, he'll think your obsessive. Hope this helps
lizzy
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Well, you have to ask yourself... Does he talk to you or are you always talking to him. That answer is probaly you are always being the one to come out and talk to him. SoooOOo tell him that. Also tell him that you do not understand when you are ignoring him and tell him everything you told me about you always talk to him and stuff. Be honest and maybe if he doesn't understand your point of view who knows you guys were maybe never meant to be.....hope I helped but I hope that you guys will work this out and you'll compromise...>3~Chrissie
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Have you asked him what you do to ignore him? Be like when I'm with my friends, does that bother you, you need to see what is bothering him. He might just be jealous that you always have people around you and then there he is your boyfriend and doesn't know how to socialize with the queen(you). You should try and plan a certain part of everyday where you too can catch up and what not so then there is no pointing fingers for ignoring. Good luck. Let me know what he does.
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He probably is just shy and that is completely normal for boys but you need to pull him aside and ask him if he is just shy or can't find words to say. You both should tell each other what you think is going on between you. That can make relationships better.
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