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break up?
i go out with this kid names paul.. and he smokes weed and i dont like the fact that he dosee and hes 3 years older then me and its weird.. and i dont wanna breakup wiht him jus for that but i dont know what i wanna do right now..? what do you think i should do? pleasee help
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break up with him thats not a JUST that thing that is a way big thing!
Allie cat
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ASk him as nicely as possible to try cut down on the somkeing at least around you and then if he can handle that possibly ask him to quit.
hope this helps
torance<3
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I know this will be hard but if it was me i would ask him if he cares more bout you or more bout his weed. And tell him if he does really care for you then the weed has to go. And if he keeps on doing weed your best bet would be leave him cause all he is doing is asking for trouble.
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If he makes you uncomfortable, break up with him. I don't have all the facts but it doesn't sound like you are happy with him.
Take care,
AAG
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okay.. if hes smoking weed and you dont like it, you NEED to break up with him!! chances are youre going to end up "falling in love with him" (like alot of girls happen to do...) and youre gonna want to do what he does... chances are youre gonna start smoking too if you stay with him... (im not accusing... just guessing...) i just lost my best friend over an issue similar to this... and the thing is once you start smokin weed, youre gonna wanna try other stuff too... its not worth screwing youre whole life up over... hes only a guy... and i hate to say this...but there are a lot more guy out there, that will respect what you say, and that wont smoke... im sorry this isnt really what you want to hear... but i just dont want what happened to my best friend, to happen to anyone else...beacause although it might be making you feel good, its gonna end up hurtin someone else...
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Tell him how you feel about this if he dosent get the picture than you should dump him. if he cares about you he should understand. if he dosent its not your fault and its his lose! :)
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If him smoking weed bothers you that much, simply ask him to please not do it around you. I have friends and family who do things that I don't agree with. I know better than to think they're going to change just to please me so I asked them to keep it away from me. For me, it's easier to deal with if I don't have to see it right in front of my face.
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if you do luv him that much, guess what? you have to deal with it if you have that much feelings for him. don't even bother trying to stop him because he won't listen and if he did want to listen you wouldn't be asking for help now would you? so, i suggest to just either deal with it if you really love him or if you don't like love him that much, break up with him because people who smoke weed are terrible and you'll get sucked itno those things. so ignore it!!!
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you need to confront him that you dont like the fact that he smokes so just call him or tell him in person that you would really like it if he tryed to quit smoking. and if he says no tell him that you really feel uncomfortible with it and if he really loves you he will atleaset try to quit. i hope i have helped
~*kristen*~
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Well my best guy friend smokes weed, drinks alcohol (to an extreme), and tries to kill himself. I always just tell him how much I care for him, and how much he is dangering himself. He knows, but I just want to make sure he'll be okay! I think the only thing you can do is, talk to him about it, and say that it's bothering you that he's doing that to himself. Other then that, there's nothing more you can do. Unless you turn him into a counselor which wouldn't be fair because he's your boyfriend, and he might not like you after that. Just be careful, and make sure he doesn't EVER pressure you into doing that stuff.
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