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ok.. im 14/f and i know this guy that likes me.. and so does my best friend.. shes the one that wants me to go out with him.. but whenever its the 3 of us.. like if were at the movies.. she makes it so that she sits in the middle.. and i dont know how i can flirt with him if shes inbetween us.. and i dont know how to tell her that i cant flirt with him if shes always between us.. please help in any way possible
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You need to just TELL HER. Even if it's not that nice, just do it. If she actually wants you two together, she'll get out of the way. Good luck!
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Wellll..it seems like your friend doesn't want you to talk to him AT ALL. I think that she thinks that if you start flirting with him or you're next to him, he'll pay way more attention to you than to her. and if she likes him, she doesn't want that. Just sometime go to the movies just you and him. It's not like your friend HAS to go because she likes him too. Since your friend wants you guys to go out, then don't hesitate to go out with him. She shouldn't say that if she doesn't mean it. And if you definately like this boy..go for it!:)
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Ok, I think you should talk to your friend about it. I was in the same situation like a month ago except my friend liked the guy and it seems to me that your friend might have feelings for the guy and she just isnt telling you so make sure she doesnt have feelings for him and if she doesnt then I think that you should ask the guy if he wants to do something just the two of you.
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i think you should just tell her right out. tell her "well i really like this guy and when we go to the movies, you always sit between us and it makes it really hard for me to fliry with him." something like that. tell her right out. if she is your best friend then she will totally understand.
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Hi. Well why not asking the guy if he ever wants to hang out (just the two of you) without inviting your friend. And if your friend IS hanging out with you make up an excuse to be closer to him. For example, if you are at the movies on your right is your friend and on her right is that guy, say "I can't see from here, do you mind if I move there with you?" and go sit next to the guy. The excuse doesn't have to be a good excuse, you can't jsut say something like "the screen looks weird from here", that way both your friend will get the hint that you don't want her in between and he will get the hint that you like him and he will start wanting to be "sitting next to you" by himself, even when your friend DOES come in between.
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ok just be open before you go to the movies tell her you rele wanna sit by him and that she wants you to go out with him so you need to get a chance to talk and flirt with him that should help if not IM me on AIM Amber xoxo Marie
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hey hun! how do i put this into word?= uhm....yo0h can tell her that yo0h would like to sit by him just dont be like oo lemme sit by him so i can flirt...that sounds rude! just politely be like hey, i would like to sit by him this time nd if she doesnt let yo0h then yo0h sit on the outside then him then her then yo0h both sit by him nd yo0h can still flirt! hope i helped!=)
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