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bf has issues with calling
okay its always like i have to call my boyfriend or else we dont talk till like night time...he calls to say goodnight...but to make plans...it seems like i ALWAYS have to call him...and today im doing nothing till the nighttime and i want to call him because waiting for him to call me is just a waste of time...but then again i dont think i should call him...i called him yesterday to make plans and the day before...and we love hangin out we have so much fun...but its me who always has to call first...should i call him?
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ummm...i know how you feel...it was like that with my ex...you know what stop waiting around for him to call...he will call you when he wants to talk and when he calls at night dont answer or w/e it will drive him insane (or it should) and he will start calling more or talk to him about it
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He probably doesn't realize he is doing it. I had something exactly the same, except it was instant message. I always had to IM my boyfriend. ALWAYS. I told him about it, and he IMed me a few times. Your boy friend probably doesn't even know. He probably waits for you to call because he knows you've done it in the past all the time so thats what he expects. Tell him how you fell.
MeganKristine
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You shouldn't wait around expecting him to call thats just a waste of your time. Try going out with your friends instead don't let your boyfriend have all the fun without you. Wait a few days then call him and ask him why he never calls you to hangout. maybe he has something else he has to do there could be a good reason why he is ignoring you and you deserve an explanation!
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Deff. quit calling him for a while. if he really wants to hang out with you, he'll call. You dont want to look too needy. Dont wait around all day for his calls. go out and do stuff, its nott worth wasting the best days of your life on a boy thats nott calling you cause his priorities arent straight.
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you could try talking to him about how you feel when he doesnt call you ever to make plans. things might do a turn around and u might see a nice change. tell him how good it would feel if he would just arrange sumthing 4 u 2 do sumtime.
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I think you should talk to him tell him whats on your mind maybe he is scared to call you maybe he doesnt want you to think he is annoying and doesnt want you to leave him, i think you got the right guy hun just step up and talk to him. hope i helped hun.
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Call him and tell him that you kind of want him to call some of the times. He probably doesn't even realize he's doing it. If he still doesn't call then don't call him and wait for him to call you. After he realizes that you want him to call too, he should notice his mistake and start calling you. Hope I helped! =c)
racheL
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You should tell him how you feel. Maybe he doesn't understand that you don't like being the person doing all the communication. He could very well think you like doing this so he's backing off to make you happy. He might be shy about making the plans as well. Maybe he doesn't know where to go or what to do. It could be easier for him to leave that to you. I think there's nothing wrong with calling your boyfriend. You're going out because you like him and because he likes you so talking to each other isn't outrageous or anything. Well, good luck!
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No, don't call him, cause he might think your being too clingy.
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