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Wake me up from this daydream and reality be just as good
Theres this boy I like, Josh. I have liked him since the school year started and we've been flirting like crazy. My friends say that he's really crushin on me because when other guys flirt with me, he gets all bothered and defensive. All my friends keep asking me if me and him are going out yet and even my TEACHER(gym class, only class I have with Josh) asks me and Josh continually if me and Josh are boyfriend/girlfriend. He even told us to get married over the weekend. Everyone thinks me and him like each other and are either going to, or are secretly going out. Now, even after all this, I was and kind of still am unsure of his feelings. I know he flirts with me a lot and he acts differently around me than around girls. Since the beginning of the year, too. Thats about 4½ months. We talk on the phone and he's just sweet and funny and goofy around me. Now, what I want to do is ask him to the dance coming up but I don't know how to exactly ask him so that I won't be directly letting him know I like him but still letting him know I do, in a way. If that makes sense. I mean, in a way, where, if he doesn't like me like that, I can easily deny it and be believable. Im really confused about all of this and I really want to go out with him. We danced at homecoming and we already act like we go together already..I just want my daydreams to come true but I don't know what to do. How can I "test" and make sure he likes me without him getting any idea? What "signs" should I definately look out for? Any advice would be strongly appreciated. Thanks.
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Allright, for the dance thing... you should ask him to go with you and a bunch of friends, but you being his date. and if he agrees to do so, then see if he acts the same way with you throughout the night as he usually does. if he doesnt its because hes around everyone and that will be a shure sign that you 2 are just friends or just flirt buddies. You deff dont want a guy who acts 2 or 3 different ways, so that will help you out too for thought.
Then if you dont gett up enough balls to ask him to the dance, then just come out and say that you like him n tell him you dont wanna keep liking him if the feelings arent mutual.then you should know the truth.
good luck
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It sounds like he likes you to me,but either way, you should talk to him and tell him how you feel cause he probably feels the same way. Hope I helped!
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Hey, this guy obviously digs you, but i understand that you are feeling uncertain. If I were you and i were unsure about a guy I would just be like "you going to the dance friday?" and see what he says. If he says yes you could say i'll see u there. If he says why are you askin you could tell him that you were going and you wanted him to go to. Some signs are if you see him looking at you, if your sitting alone somehwere and he comes and sits with you when there are plenty of other girls around... you said that you talk to him on the phone a lot and that you spend a lot of time togehter... those are signs also. I hope I helped! If you have any more questions leave them in my inbox.. I would also like to hear if he went to the dance with you!
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why do you care? he obviously likes you, so you should ask him. just be casual about it, and if he turns you down, be like 'ok, ill jus see you there-save me a dance' he'll get the point
**_Nicole_**
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well it seems that you said he "acts" different around you and that's asign right there! he is constantly flirting with you that's another sign! if i were you i would just ask him be like "do you want to go to the dance as friends?" and see what he says he maybe to afraid to ask you and maybe this will take some pressure off of him! and just keep talking to the guy and flirt and just talk a lot he probably wants to know more about you before going into a serious relationship! good luck and happy holidays!
*BeSs*
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