i love him but can't seem to make him feel the same
Question Posted Saturday January 1 2005, 6:01 pm
ok. i really like this guy but he told me that he thinks i am one of his best friends! but i know dreams don't matter much but i have had some really good dreams about him that have put me in the best moods and have made me so happy. only one thing everything in the dream never really happened. i just want to believe it did. well i always tell people and myself that i don't like him . but the thing is I DO. i just don't want to so i'm telling myself i don't because i don't want to get hurt by thinking i may get him when i never will. i can't just wait for him and not give up because he told me that he just sees me as being a friend and he doesn't want to hurt me cause he knows he would. i appeciate him caring for my emotions BUT he can't tell me if i want to go through being hurt or not. i know i don't but i would and want to take the chance because i like him that much. please help me. besides this guy i like someone else but thats not the point.
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xixixBIGREDxixix answered Saturday January 1 2005, 7:03 pm: Since i am giving advice and some of my experiences as a guy, please dont be offended by this advice. I think that infact this guy dosnt like you, he is just saying that he does because he is to much of a Derk to tell you. Im saying this because i have done this myself. and i have told ppl that i would hurt them if i ever went out with them just so i wouldnt have to tell them the truth (that i actualy didnt like them). But maybe i am wrong, in that case, tell this guy that you dont care if you get hurt. life is short and you dont wanna pass something like this up. SIMPLY: just tell him how you feel. Ask him to be completly honest with you and that it dosnt matter what the outcome is. you just wanna try it out.
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