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Wicked Stepmothers
(How many times has THIS question been asked?) Okay, my stepmother hates me, or rather, she hates my mother and takes it out on me. Everything I do is wrong to her. Once, my cousin and I were fighting over a pillow, and she tells me to stop pulling on the pillow or I'll rip it, and my cousin didn't get in trouble, even though he hit me several times. She insults my choice of clothing/music/accessories. She once told me my mother cheated on my father, and I know that isn't true. She used to go into my room and go through my stuff. It drives me insane. Does anyone have any advice?
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Dear Wicked Stepmother,
I am going to give it to you plain and simple. You need to go to your step mom and talk to her about the problem. You need to voice out everything that you told us. Tell her that it hurts your feelings when she talks about your Mother. That is your Mother and no matter who it might be, you do not want to hear someone talking badly about her. That is so disrespectful. Also bring up the fact on how she insults your taste in style. What you wear and how you advertise yourself is expressing who you are on the inside. That is why when someone makes fun of what we look like we get so upset. Just talk to her like a normal human being and not like she is your step Mom. Keep in mind that by being calm and discussing with her your problems, you are being the adult. If she does not hear you out, go to your Dad. Your Dad loves you and he should be able to help the problem. You also have to respect that your Dad loves this person too, and you should not talk badly about her. Just confront the problem in any way that you can and all should go well. Good luck.
♥Sarah
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What i would do is tell her to back off, and to leave you the hell alone..pick on someone her own size(lol) anyway..or you can talk to your dad about whats shes doing, or your mom.
xoxo
~becca~
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There are many things to do about this, one way is to tell her that you don't like her and confront her that she doesn't like you and then tell her that you both should just leave each other alone. Another way is to tell your father about this, or tell your mom. Or the last way (i would do this) tell her to get out of your life and that you hate her and thhat she is ruining you life. and tell her be lik why do you hate me so much what did i do.... because mabey she hates you beacuse of something you did so if you need anymore help wll talk e mail me @ Wantiin You x3@aol.com
jess
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There are many things to do about this, one way is to tell her that you don't like her and confront her that she doesn't like you and then tell her that you both should just leave each other alone. Another way is to tell your father about this, or tell your mom. Or the last way (i would do this) tell her to get out of your life and that you hate her and thhat she is ruining you life.
~soccrchick~
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Does your mom or dad know? Stepmoms can be really bad and it sucks...I really don't know what to tell you so yeah if you want to talk more and tell me a little more and I could help you a little more email me miss_adriauna04@yahoo.com
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tell her to chill.
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it sounds like you need to ignore her. From my experience she is only doing it to make you mad, and if you show your anger she will know that its working and only get worse. talk to your father about what she is telling you. Write times and dates that she says these things so that you will have proof. But i would simply do what she says. if it is necassary to argue with her on it then do so, but dont take it to a serious level. if you act more mature then her, she will see how much of a child she is being (hopefully).
:) xixixBIGREDxixix
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my step mom is the same way what i did was get up in her face and tell her to stay out of my business she backed down but it took a couple of times just stand up to her and if your dad isnt helping you you need to stand up to him too! hope i helped write to me keep me updated!
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I think you need to tell your father about this. Now if he doesn't see her doing it, he might not believe you. In that case, you could go to your mother and see if she could do something about it. If all else fails--attempt talking to your step-mom and basically just tell her how you feel. Explain that what she's doing bothers you and makes you feel uncomfortable around her. Hopefully it will all work out. I know how it feels living with step-parents---I have two. Good luck with her =)
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