Question Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:03 pm
Ok there is this girl at school..ill call her Kristen and we were like best friends in 5th and 6th grade and the beginning of 7th grade..we are now in 8th grade and i think Kristen hates my guts but im not really sure..but i still sorta wanna be Kristen's friend. My other friend ill call her Brittany..who is still my friend..is like best friends with Kristen. And whenever its just me and Kristen together..shes so mean to me and doesn't talk to me or anything. and whenever Brittany is around me and kristen..like we are all together..Kristen is super nice to me.. i think its because ive told brittany about kristen being like this and kristen doesn't want brittany to yell at her.I want us all to be friends..but i don't know how to because kristen is sorta 1 of the popular girls and im more in the middle and i don't know how to talk to the popular ppl. Sorry it was long..but does anyone have any ideas of how i could become friends with kristen? Or why she does is mean to me usually..but when brittany is there she isn't? Thanks in advance!
Additional info, added Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:36 pm: Actually Brittany is like one of my best friends..since we do alot together cuz my family is friends with her family. I just want me, brittany and kristen to be good friends like a group not just separate..if that makes any sense at all..i want to know how i can get us all to be friends together..and why kristen hates me when were not around brittany. Please help me!!!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xoxBECCAxox answered Friday December 31 2004, 3:57 pm: Just talk to kristen, and just because shes popular doesnt mean you have to talk to her differently then you would talk to someone who isnt as popular as her but anyway..just ask her whats her problem is with you and why she has multiple personalities meaning shes nice to you one time but mean to you another, which does not make sense. but if she doesnt understand or is still a bitch to you at times then just get over it, whats so good abot this girl whos rude to you usually, and why the hell would you wanna be frens with her? hope it works out but if it doesnt then there are other nice people in this world that woulnt act like her..hope i helped :)
xoxo
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xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx answered Friday December 31 2004, 12:19 am: this is a hard question i think you should ask kristen what her problem is with you and why she acts the way she does in certain situations and to be honest some times people who r popular are kind of snobby and are mean bc they think they are better then every 1 but if kristen treats you like htat alone shes not a very good friend so i d say just stick wit brittany and she may see your spending alot of time wit her and wanna be part of that if not us leave it go dont try to be all nice to her and liek bowing down to her bc then she has a rite to treat you like that! stand up for your self babe hope i helped
cya
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Sherry answered Thursday December 30 2004, 11:33 pm: Hey, you could try and ask Kristen why she doesnt like you. And tell her that you wanna become friends with her...but if she still doesnt like you, you cant do anything about that! Your just gonna have to deal with it. Not everyone will want to be your friend, thats life..=D [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
SunKissedHunnii answered Thursday December 30 2004, 1:11 am: Hey!..i think you should talk to her and ask her why shes like that you neva no maybe she wants to be your friend again to...you dont have to be afraid of the popular girlsz cuz those are the onesz that need the most love out of a friendship and there just like other people sOo just talk to her
xoO Carly <3
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