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Boyfriend problems
Ok..So i am 16 years old and i have never had a serious relationship...I have been sexually active with guys but i am still a virgin....I tend to get attached to guys very easily and when i get them i get scared and i break away letting go a guy that cood possibly be someone who i cood date for awhile....am i scared or and i just doing this whole dating thing wrong? Ne advice?
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Well i think that you need to stay with a guy longer becuase he will probely think you only want to do stuff with him and then leave, becuase thats kind of what you have ben doing, stick things out and dont just leave or else its going to bcome a habit thats going to be bad later on. Its good you are still a Virgin tho! Just try to stay with one guy for awhle n see how things work!
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it sounds like your just not ready. if your not ready don't think you have to be just becuase all your friends have had serious relationships and what not. don't pressure yourself. go at your own pace not everyone elses. just you kno play the field but don't take everything serious.
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For a while I was just like you, getting into relationships, getting scared, and ending them. There isnt really any specific advice I can give...everyone's different. In my case, a good friend of mine told me to let go of my fears and take a chance with someone. I did, and right now I dont know if I could be happier. So do you think that you're jsut afraid of getting hurt? If that's the case, the only thing you can do is take a change and hope things work out. They may not, and you could get hurt, but if you could be happy, isnt it worth the risk?
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I don't think your dating wrong.. lol cause who makes those kinda list?! However i think your still wondering about other guys who may like you and possibilities that could come up. Which makes you want to break up and show guys your available. It's not a bad thing, it's just kinda in the way with having a long-term relationship... haha don't worrie im picky too!:)
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ok well im 15 and im in my first really serious relationship....and at the begining i was like the sme as you....getting scared and breaking away......like if my boyfriend would forget to call or something id like freak out...id be like...OMG he hates me thats why hes not calling or something id just think of all the bad things....and it would end up being something as simple as his dad wouldnt let him use the phone...theres nothing WRONG with you...but its that you have low self confidence....be confident...just think good things....and act like you wont lose the guy...i mean he is with you out of all ppl rite? just act like your relationship wont end...your scared ofl osing him...and you will lose him if you keep thinking you are going to...just be confident you know?
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