|
Rumors suck
omg.. ok there was this whole rumor going around at school that all of me and my friends are lesbians... well they only think that because a couple of my friends told them what we did at partys.. Its true what we did but its not true we are lesbians.. what should I do?????
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos?
b/c you posted this a long time ago.. i was wondering whats happened since. i have a similair problem now and i dont know what to do. can you help?
]
You shouldnt care, i mean like dont let it get to you, cuz well the rumor will fade away sooner or later and if you dont want to be called a lesbo then dont do that "thing" at parties!
hope i helped
xoxo
~becca~
]
Well you cant do anything if its true.. except deny.. but that'd be lying. I would just try and ignore it and not do it again-HaPpY NeW YeAr!!-trix
]
Hey Hun* Dont Worry! i have that SAME rumor at my school about me and my friends but guys think its cute nd funny! but mines a little different they call us Bi but we like smile and walk away! hope i helped!
]
ignore it and if it gets too bad, then tell people to shut the eff up. Rumors can be spread but sooner or later people will get sick of hearing them.
]
then yall lesbians plain and simple if a guy even kissed another guy they would be gay. and by the way what did yall do
]
do worry about what they say.
]
Sorry, but you should have expected that when you did whatever you did at the parties. The rumors will go away eventually, but you just have to wait them out. You've got to deal with the consequences of your actions. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear, but it's the truth.
]
You can't do anything about it. You did something at parties, now you gotta own up to the outcome. People are going to talk. I suggest doing whatever you do in private with your other chicky friends if it really really bothers you that others gotta talk. Don't do it where others can see. They probably think that you want the attention and are looking for the lesbian label for attention. So don't ask for the attention. It's up to you.
]
If you look back on how many rumors have gone around you will see that they only last a couple of weeks. But it all depends on how you act about it. If you care to much then people will see that and they will keep spreading rumors because they see that it bothers you and they may think its true becuase you can act insecure. But if you let it go and just let the rumor go around then it will stop in a couple of days and people would think that who ever spreaded it is really pathetic. Just live the life you did when the rumor didnt go around. And next time watch for what you say it could get around what a small world.
]
One, w/e u did at the party, don't do it again, and Two, flirt with guys and act very FRIENDly to your friends, so it wont seem like you guys are lesbians, and when people tease you and crap, just say, You can think that if you want or something like that
]
ok...take it from me...me and my best friend spreaded a rumor about these two girls we were friends with....we got mad because they were talking about us behind our back and they ALWAYS were together....so we got mad and we just said that they were lesbians....*big mistake.....karmas a bitch...* but anyways.....the way they handled it....they acted like it didnt bother them ONE bit....and it got around to other schools and everything..but it blew over real fast because they acted like nothing happened....so just be like WHATEVER because the girls who started it are probably jealous of you and your friends...so stick close with your friends and youll get through it....
]
More Questions: |