Question Posted Thursday December 30 2004, 3:33 pm
My ex-bf and I started talking again online. Sure, we worked everything out. It still feels funny when talking to him though, especially if I still like him, and he has no idea. Well last night, I asked him wut he was doing online, he told me he was talking to people and "his" girl. At first I thought, "is he refering to me?", but then I was like no, he can't be, he has another girl in his life. Well I was babysitting today and i was watching 3 kids play outside in the front, and what do you know...my ex comes walking down the street (he lives in my neighborhood) with 2 girls. I pretended not to even notice him because, look at me, I'm a loser babysitting, and look at him hanging out with girls from MY school and MY classes. I KNEW he saw me because right when he was in front of my house his face was no where near the direction in looking at me. So my questions are,
1) Should I ask him what he meant by "his" girl? I don't wanna look nosy though...can there be a way to make it sounds "non-nosy??"
2)Why didn't he even bother to say hi, or call my name, even if I wasn't looking his way?
Thanks soooo much
and you'd never guess who'd be asking this question...yes, I am a person on advicenators who gives advice :)
CoKeIzZle answered Saturday January 1 2005, 7:35 pm: Hey Hun,If you guys are friends he shouldn't care if you ask him hat he ment by 'his' girl.JUst be like "You kno a couple nights ago how you said 'my' girl?What did you mean by that?" It shouldn't bother him.He shouldn;t be emmabressed to say who his girl is!!Hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe~ [ CoKeIzZle's advice column | Ask CoKeIzZle A Question ]
xoxBECCAxox answered Friday December 31 2004, 3:31 pm: #1, i dont think you should ask him becuz there isnt a way that might seem non-nosy, you could find out da gossip from skool and just find out if hes going out with someone or not..#2,he probaly wanted to make you jealous and see your reaction with being with 2 other girls. u know since hes ur ex.#3, who cares if you give and get advice,no one has the answers to everything.
hope i helped
xoxo
~becca [ xoxBECCAxox's advice column | Ask xoxBECCAxox A Question ]
college101 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 9:10 pm: 1) no
2) because you didn't bother to do the same. it takes two you know. and you seem to be hung up on this guy. just forget about him. both of you have moved on and it is time for you to realize that [ college101's advice column | Ask college101 A Question ]
DeathAngel101 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 7:04 pm: Well, first of all, when U get the chance then as him what he meant by "his" girl(s). Second, I think he was trying to make an impression or get your attention by walkng right past U with the two girls. And third, i give and get advice myself:) [ DeathAngel101's advice column | Ask DeathAngel101 A Question ]
Toxicxoxo answered Thursday December 30 2004, 5:37 pm: ok he was trying way to hard to act cool infront of you, he probably wanted to show off. dont worry about it.. you can ask him whats going on with him and "his" other girl or girls... hope i helped ♥ Lexi [ Toxicxoxo's advice column | Ask Toxicxoxo A Question ]
Helpinghand1231 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 4:33 pm: Well i belive that he probably wants to make you jealous. Guys sometimes do that to make a girl want them more. My advice is to play hardball and beat him at his own game. That way hel come crawling back or at the least confront you about it and you can get to talking. [ Helpinghand1231's advice column | Ask Helpinghand1231 A Question ]
Sherry answered Thursday December 30 2004, 3:42 pm: First of all, we all need advice..even the advice giver outers. Most of the people that ask the questions, answer questions too..now to answer your questions...i think you should just be like "Sooo, do you have a girlfriend". Its really not nosey its just a question. Do it online if it makes you feel more comfortable. #2, he probably wanted to make you jealous, thats why he didnt say hi. he wanted to see your reaction since he was with 2 girls and all..hope i helped.. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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