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Hey im Serena and i luv 2 give advice!I go 2 WMS in rockwal,Tx!And i luv it there so don't be afraid 2 ask an thing!
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I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah

Sarah,
I think that would be wonderful if you said that because when your that age and pregant you feel like a cast away.And I know a lot of girls that are pregant just want someone who is there to help!She'll also be thankful that she has a friend to help her.Hope that helped!
Serena

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hey, I'm 13/f and i might have a four or five friends over for a slumber party soon. What are some things we can do?? We LOVE comedy and we aren't very into make-up. What are some good movies we could watch?? And what activities could we do??

Hey,
I'm your age and some good comedy movies are Dogeball,any Eddie Murphy movies,or watch sum Fresh Prince of Belair. Cheaper by the Dozen, Titanic type of movies are good!If yall think Chad Michael Murray is hott watch A Cinderella Story bc that made me cry,not when hillary and chad dance but when her sisters rat her out and stuff! But thats all really! Sum activities are a little diff bc evrything i think of yall might not want 2 do bc yall aren't into make-up. but sum face mask would be good 2 just get rid of sum pores and stuff! Hope all of that helped!

Serena

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Okay I am 40 weeks pregnant. I was due xmas day. I still have not given birth! What could be taking so long? I am becoming so miserable, uncomfortable and irritated, not to mention impatient. Please if someone has any suggestions please help!

hey,
I've never been pregant because I'm only 13 years old.But I know what you mean because when I was born I was 2 weeks late.So maybe it's in God's plan to have your baby boy/girl a few weeks late.Hoped that helped! And Congradulations to having a baby!
Good Luck,
Serena

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Hey all, well, on Saturday, im gonna get my cartilage pierced! (Like at the upper ear, where actress Raven-Symone has it). And i was wondering, if all of all of you that have one could tell me about the pain, how 2 make it go good and keep my mind off of it, and healing processes?!?!?! Im getting it down with a gun if it helps any....

hey i haven't gotten it done yet! but my aunt has and she said it doesn't hurt! it will hurt sum but not like pain all day or ne-thing like that! just maybe a sting or sumthing like that! it's kind of like a shot so i would relax and think about going 2 the beach or getting your first kiss!(if u haven't or think of how good it was if you have)! lol hope i helped :)
Serena

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Ok, so I like this guy and hes my best friends other best friend. And so we havnt MET in person yet, but we talk to eachother a lot and its not dangerous or anything because you know, its my best friends other best friend. Anyways he had sex with this girl the past weekend....and hes 13. It hurt me, but now he says that he doesnt really like her anymore and that if he met me that he would probably like me. But I dont know if I would be able to deal with the fact that he had sex with another girl so recently. SO I guess what Im asking is what would any of you out there do?! Because I really need some help....thanks.

i wouldn't even date him because he may pressure you into having sex. so you don't want to be in that situation. you can flirt w/him as much as you want but make sure that it doesn't go far! (it depends on how far you want to go) ok hope i helped! :)
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I am going to a dance tonight. I really want to ask this boy I like. Should I ask him? What should I say? I don't want to ask him around his friends because they are really insenstive and they are jerks. Any ideas? I need help ASAP. Thanks. I will rate.

I have been in your exact shoes and i went for it! it didn't work out the way i wanted but it doesn't mean it won't work for you because maybe for me there is a better guy out there! just say hey so&so you want to dance? but do it when his friends aren't around! who knows you may date him but don't worry bout his friends because they are going to have to deal with it!the last dance (if yall are still dancing) make a move don't ask him out but say how you feel! he may be shy and won't ask you out that nite but give him a chance! hoped i helped!
keep smiling :)
Serena

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Yeah, I think everyone knows about Daniel, and I have a question bout him...how do i deal with it? I mean I like him a lot, but how do i get to know him better? Like, I try to talk to him, but he doesn't carry on a conversation with me or anything. I dunno...what should i do?

Hey,
Well i dunno much bout Daniel but ovbiously u like him. And he sounds kind of shy. and i kno that bc the guy i used 2 like was shy 2 and it was very hard 2 carry on a conversation w/him. but don't wrry bc wut i did was if he had a class b4 me i would walk in and ask wut we did in ther and carried it on from there! and if u have the same class 2gether and u have time 2 talk then ask if he understood the homework or sumthing like that! i hope that helped!
Serena

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Okay, so there's this guy that I like. I want him to notice me more, but not "look at that skank" notice me. I need to know what look cute on someone like me with my hair and shape. I'm 5'3" i weigh 120lbs and I'm sort of hippy and I don't want to say cheasted, but I'm not flat either. I wear basically "prep" or sometimes "skater" clothes, whatever's comfortable. I'm conscience of my stomach, but I wear tight clothes anyways, no skirts thought. What could I wear to look okay? For my hair-- I dye it blonde and i have bangs off the the side that reach the top of my lips, its angled down from there to about 3 inches past my shoulders. I usually straighten it with an iron and curl the ends under, but I'm getting bored with this look. Also, scrunching it with gel makes it too snarly the next day. Could someone please help me here? ((I rate if it helps any)) 14/f

--Jor*

Lilangelshan08 is right don't change the way u r 4 a guy 2 notice u. But if u do want 2 change the way u dress. try wear 1 or 2 skirts a week or sumthing kind of bold and different but try not 2 go 2 different and bold like all these color swirls bc that's the 70's and it's old unless u go 2 a 70's dance or sumthing like that!lol
And a really cute pair of hip hugger jeans or low rider jeans would be really cute!on the hair ask ur mom if u can get either lighter blonde highlights or sum dark red highlights (but if i were u go 2 the salon.lol) but tell the lady (@ the salon)u want the streaks spread out not tiny streaks that r bunched 2gether. hope evrything goes out ok. aim me 4 anymore advice@ gurlygirl0381. maybe u won't get me 2 notice u,but im sure that sum1 special will!
XOXOXOXO
*Serena*

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my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed

Ithink that is terrible :( and i will pray 4 her even though i don't kno her name but ne-wayz i think u should tell her mom or ur mom so they can talk it out with ur friend bc thatis really bad bc if she decides 2 go in 4 rehab or w/e not only will it cost a lot(if u want 2 go sum place good)
there is not a 100 percent chance she will be totally normal and stuff. especially if it keeps going on and on like Mary-Kate Olsen's did.So talk 2 either her mom or ur mom then talk 2 ur doctor bc she can get u sum info. on how it'll kill her and stuff like that.
Hope i helped!God Bless :)
Serena

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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿

I think u need 2 talk 2 hur bc if u really luv hur and she really luvs u yall can work it out.
talk 2 hur and tell her that u feel like the bad guy. im sure it'l work out ok. but don't dump her.
my aim name is gurlygirl0381 so u can tell me how it went.
Hope i helped!
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