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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿
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I think u need 2 talk 2 hur bc if u really luv hur and she really luvs u yall can work it out.
talk 2 hur and tell her that u feel like the bad guy. im sure it'l work out ok. but don't dump her.
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Serena
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well.... i would work things out! bcuz u love her i mean b like wat is it? why are we constantly getting into fights wat is wrong wid me? then if her answers dont meet ur expectaions then break up wid her!
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well i dont have much to say but i think if she really like you she wouldnt say that stuff to you specially infront of ur friends.i mean im a girl and we are picky and stubborn and drama queens so i know what you mean. but i have a bf and i really luv him and i would try and work things out with him as best as i could.so my advice is to work things out with her as best as you can. well good luck.
alexxa
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if i were u i would ask her y she always fights with u but dont break with her
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talk about the things that yuo are argueing about try get them in the open!!!!!!!! mayeb it may help your relationship or just take a break but stay mates!!!! hope i have helped love kimberley!!!!!
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well, you should always try to work things. out. next time you guys get into a fight. just be a good boy and stop it. just be like * i dont wanna fight* and blah. but sometimes trying to wokr it out just doesn't work. and if it doesn't... bye bye girlfriend. but if you really love her, try your best to work it out, and maybe she'll try too. good luck. xo0x annie
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I would try and work things out because u really dont no what u got till its gone! I think u should sit down and talk to her and ask WHY! she proubley does it because she dont not want everybody to think you have her around you fingers (even thought u proubley know you dont she might just feel like that) let her know u love her and how you feel! Talk to her then see what she says then i think you to should dicide if you should break up togther!
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OKAY TAKE IT FROM ME HONEY, SHE SOMETIMES GETS THAT WAY BECAUSE SHE FEELS LIKE SHE HAS TO TAKE CONTROL AND MAYBE SHE FEELS LIKE HER FRIENDS ARE TELLING HER TO BE THAT WAY SO THAT IS HER ONLY OPTION. AS FAR AS THE THINGS SHE SAYS THEN YOU NEED TO DUMP HER IF SHE REALLY HURTS YOU BY SAYING THESE THINGS. ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE NOT TRUE! SO THE CHOICE IS YOURS DROP ME A LINE WHEN YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO AND I WILL HELP YOU THROUGH IT OKAY?XOXOXOXO
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i no wut u mean....me n my ex bf fought all the time and yeh sometimes even in front of friends....we broke up once then decided to go back out and try to work things out well the first day was okay....but then the next we started arguing more...so we broke up again so i jjust moved on...i think maybe u should talk to her first or just decided to take a break! good luck hun <3
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I think you should talk to her, Sometimes woman dont know how to deal with relationships in front of their friends, and talk shit wit you cus they think it makes them look cool in front of pple...i uno..hope i helped rate me
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It's natural for couples to disagree over different things. The important thing, is to listen to one another, learn from these fights, move on, and improve ofr the future. Communication is key. If you can do this, that's great. It's common for youung couples to fight in front of their friends because each of you want to look "good" in front of the other. I say before you abruptly end this relationship, try calmly talking with your girlfriend about the fighting. Tell her what you are thinking and feeling. Work together on the fighting issue. Give yourselves a chance to redeem yourselves before you just end it. Try to have her open up, and you two try and learn to agree to disagree and just laugh at it. Giveh er about 3 weeks or so to shows you are both making a difference. Then, if all that fails, then think about possibly ending things. But try to work it out first. :)
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Talk to her about it, maybe you guys need to take a break from eachother, otherwise see how things work out
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hmm--- well if you still "love" her i wouldnt dump her but if you dont really like her anymore...then i would dump her. and well maybe you two shouldnt go out in large groups if thats when you guys get in fights. maybe just go with like two other people to the mall or something. thats always fun! and tell her that you dont like getting into fights and that you dont appreciate looking like the "bad guy" or whatever.but talk this out with her, and dont start yelling at her...or she might just get madder. yah us girls..we tend to do that.
*becca
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