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Ok, so I like this guy and hes my best friends other best friend. And so we havnt MET in person yet, but we talk to eachother a lot and its not dangerous or anything because you know, its my best friends other best friend. Anyways he had sex with this girl the past weekend....and hes 13. It hurt me, but now he says that he doesnt really like her anymore and that if he met me that he would probably like me. But I dont know if I would be able to deal with the fact that he had sex with another girl so recently. SO I guess what Im asking is what would any of you out there do?! Because I really need some help....thanks.
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i wouldn't even date him because he may pressure you into having sex. so you don't want to be in that situation. you can flirt w/him as much as you want but make sure that it doesn't go far! (it depends on how far you want to go) ok hope i helped! :)
Serena
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i think i would avoid talking to him for a while... i would be too afraid of getting used like he used that other girl. i don't think he seems like he's ready for the real world, but that could just be me. stay safe
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dont go with him! you might get pregnant, and then there would be an unwanted child. its not cool to sleep with people when you are not married or even out of your teens!!! its probly not safe to go with him anyway if you dont know him in person. he might hurt you badly.
-FunnyCide
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WeLl- I think that if you really turned out to like the guy then everything would be okay becasue you would probably be able to get over the fact that he just had sex with another girl. Follow your heart and i know that it will let you know whats right. Another thing is that it's not a good idea for him to be having sex at such a young age. if you like him go ahead but i would just get over it because how would you feel if you were the girl that he just had sex with and you found out that the guy didn't like you anymore. You would have lost your virginity because of some lame guy.
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i am still shocked he is 13... but i say forget him because if he was interested in you before the fact and then he went and slept with someother chick... he sounds like "A REAL WINNER" (that was sarcasm)....i say forget him i mean if you do say forget it, it is not like you have really lost a lot and it is not like you have met him in person either...i mean it would be better to sy NO now and not be hurt than no later when he does it again and you end up being hurt alot more
hope i helped
kev
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i dont think u can get over someone that fast. and he had sex for crying out loud! i'd let him be for a bit.. if it hurt you, then i'd let him for a while.. i hope i helped :o)
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