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k so i love music, and i always have to wait to get new cd's. I want to download songs for free. like straight from the site, i have an Imac and firefox, i tried some sites, but it didnt work like on download.com (link)
i have some websites for you:
www.singingfish.com
www.mp3raid.com
www.emp3world.com
www.emp3finder.com


Well I been seeing this guy for about two months now and its great...sometimes. what I mean is that we dont always get a chance to see each other and when we do have a chance he goes riding with his boys. But then there are sometimes when he can be a SWEETHEART idk when he goes riding with his boys WHAT THE HELL IS HE RIDING??????? lol but sometime I feel that his friend are more inportant then me. (link)
just talk to him and tell him it bothers you that you guys don't spend more time. everything should work itself out if you guys have a nice talk.


Omg.......Theres guy and i really like him But he is my Best Friends Ex.....and we told each other that we would never go out with eachothers Ex's but i cant Help But Look at him and Want him even more....Well can u help out with this problem??? (link)
i think you should talk to your best friend and see what ur friend thinks.


um......well....theres this guy...and he is really cute but he is my boyfriends best friend and he told me he liked me but that we could never go out because he doesnt want to break his loyalty to his friend.....and i cant except that....so what should i do??????? (link)
go out w/ him


i dont know what to do..this guy and i have been friends for about a year and were best friends...and i think i might like him..and i dont know if i should tell him cuz he might get scared and not want to talk to me anymore..cause he just broke up with his gf..i dont know what 2 do (link)
wait a lil while and c how he progresses as a friend. get to know his love life.


so i like this guy. and it just so happens he's my best friend. weve tried going out, but it just ended up w/ us both being hurt, and now we arnt as close as b4. i kno that i shouldnt like him as more then a friend, but i do. hes just so awesome, and he has a rough life and i think he needs someone to help him through it. he says his friends are depressed, but really i think hes the one who is, and if i could get closer to him i think i could help him so much! hes the sweetest guy ive ever known, who treats me like an actual person, and i love him to death. i really dont kno how to confront him about this, ive tried, but i dont think he got the hint. help! (link)
i think u just need to b there for him and be rly nice to him. make him feel happy. and when around him, b as happy as u can.


ok my bf is like over reacting. the beginning of the school year i asked my friend if my bf ever hurt me would he kill him and he said yes. then my bf found out i asked a litle bit ago and hes taking it really serously like he cant belive id think that but i was really just curious to know. now i dont know if i really love him anymore or if i do. he over reacts on alot of stuff and we fight alot. i never get to see my friends cuze im sitting on his lap and doing nothing and not even talking but when i want to see my friends he thinks im ignoring him and i just wanted to see them before my break at school and he makes it a big deal. and another time its cuze i was to uncomfterble to eat at his house. then it was he thought i flirted with all of my guy friends at school so then i stoped talking to them then when i thought it was unfair to them i started talk to all of them again and he told me he thought i was flirting again and i told him get use to it cuze im not flriting. he did that 4 times with bringing up me flirting. now he wont stop crying cuze he thinks i dont love him anymore but i dont know if i even do love him. im thinking about it but i cant figure out if i do or dont. i know i love him but i dont know if im still in love with him. he was suicidel in the past and im afraid if i break up with him hell try it again. this is all over 4 months period. what should i do? should i dump him or what? (link)
i think u should dump him...


I really really want to learn guitar. I looked into lessons but their like 20$ a half hour! Its crazy. My friends tell me to just teach myself, but I have no idea how. And my sister told me to get a book or DVD on it to learn from. What do you think? And guitsrists around that could help me? lol. And anyone who taught themselves, how did you and how long did it take? (link)
get lessons!!!!!!!


My guy friend..lets call him K..likes me and I like him back..atleast I think so. We got kind of deep and talked about our feelings and stuff..and he told me all the reasons he liked me..I really liked him at that point..he's so sweet. One weired problem..when I'm not talking to him...or just talking to him online..I feel like I can't decide if I really like him or not..but when I talk to him in person it's totally different. I dont know I can't stop thinking about it and it's tearing me apart. If anyone could help..that would be GREAT! THANKS! (link)
sounds like he got no phone persona.


I'm in 1/2 of a band, and i have 2 questions here i guess..


1. We have only guitarist (myself) and a bassist (my friend.)...how can i find out if anyone is a drummer?

2. I'm kind of nervous to play guitar in front of people...and possibly sing if anyone thinks i'm any good....how do i get over my stage fright? (link)
practice playing in front of an audience!!! it always gets u used to things. and to find a drummer go to a local music store that teaches drums and put up notices saying u r looking for a drummer. good luck!


I play classical guitar. I left my teacher a few months ago and I'm learning on my own. I need to know how to play sharps and flats on guitar. (link)
u know how there are dots on the fret board. well in between those dots are usually sharps and flats of the chords u play. for instance, 3rd fret sixth string is a G. right? so one fret higher would be a A flat or G sharp.(a flat and g sharp are the same thing)


I lost my cuzin and i tell my friends itz ok i hav to get over it i really don't get over cuz i rele miss her and i love her. Shuld i keep tellin my friends this?
Signed
Lost Cuzin (link)
no, u should tell them its bugging u. friends can work wonders


my bf and me go to diff skools and we see eachother mostly lyke ery other day or something but we havent seen eachother for a week...well hes at the mall with his frends...and the mall is about 6 blocks away from my house...and hes walking around with his friends and hes like @ this church thats 3 blocks away frmo my house..he knows where i live n stuff but he "cant cmoe see me bc his friends will only come if i hav friends for them" and none of my friends r home....so ther goin bak 2 the mall....it really hurts my feelings bc I ALWAYS go 2 his house hes been to my house TWICE and i go to his EVERYTIME...so he called n was like uhh idk ill call u later if something comes up n we happen to go by ur house again and iw as like watever have fun at the mall bye nd i hung up on him...im realllly mad at him.....wat do i do? hes gonna b online tonite i kno that for a fact n hes gonna b all sweet 2 me....and if he calls bak....do ii answer?? wat do i say? =\ (link)
dump him!


PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!! (link)
ask his friends if he likes u. or get ur friends to ask.


ok, so i dont think im ugly, but i know im definitely not gorgeous, and when i get compliments on my body or anything else from guys, i don't know how to respond. I've had self-esteem issues and when i hear these compliments, im glad someone thinks of me that way, but i dont wanna sound like "OMG! Im hot shit.." How do i respond to these compliments without sounding like im hot shit or end up rejecting them? (link)
say,"thanks, u look good too" and smile!


ok recently i posted a message about "tyler" rite....

well today i had a dream about him... i went up and asked him if he liked "rachel" he said no...... i like u... so i stood there like an idiot and just said o.... ummm.... so im not sure if i like him or not!! !! so heres the 411....

~hes in my language arts class and math class
~we sit across from each other in class
~he says bless u and smiles at me everytime i sneeze but only to me and he never says it to ne1 else
~if i drop my pen like behind me or sumthin he will GET UP and get it even if some1 else cud!
~the other day i was like "omg my poem sux soo bad" he said "thats really good" so i was just like "ok....."

do i like him or what or does he like me im just so confused!! bc i mean i want him to like me but im not sure i want a relationship!

im SOO SORRY its long but i really need some help!!! plz!!!

*i RATE high!

~boy crazy~ (link)
he likes u. if u dont wanna relationship, dont say yes if he pops the q.


Does anyone know any easy ways to get rid of hard skin around the nail like on the skin? haha, i used to bite the skin and ive stopped now but its like ripped. any ways? (link)
ummm, leave it be?


ok well heres the situation i liek this kid n hes on the same sports team as me but i juss dont kno how 2 exactly get him 2 notice me liek as more then a friend cus i realli liek him n i woudl realli like us 2 go out or atleast become realli good friends n yea but my 1 friend thinks i shoudl ask him 2 come bowlin w. a group of us but idk cus then i dont realli want him 2 kinda kno i like him if he doesnt like m bac cus then it'd bb awkward if he doesnt n i dont want it 2 b also a lot of grlks liek him n tahts anotehr reaosn i dont wanna juss come out n b liek yea i liek u n crap cus i dont realli think id have a realli good chance cus of all the ppl that liek him so yea. i neeed usm things 2 talk about n stuff i hope u can help me cus i realli need it! ty if u can!!!! (link)
ok. u need to figure out what he is interested in that u like. and just take a good liking to it. im not saying change urself. and have confidence. guys like confidence. also, just try and talk to him more. he'll prbably take a liking to u. so basically, get to know him!


Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.
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I think you should tell your boyfriend that you kissed your ex.


Alright I'm a 17 year old male. I met this girl through a friend of a friend basically. At first it was rather awkward cause I'm a really shy person but she isnt. Then we got to know eachother rather well and became good friends. But I love this girl, shes so great. I've told her this and at first she started ignoring me. Then she was okay with it. She never said she loved me back. She just said it was okay If I loved her. So I started being more nice to her. I baught her lunch for a month,I pre-ordered the new Ev CD for her (she's a HUGE Ev fan), I gave her a necklace too... then she suddenly started ignoring me again. She won't even talk to me anymore. Some of her friends claim I freaked her out because I baught her stuff but... I was just being me. Being nice. I just wanted to see her happy. Anyhow, she's talking to me again but its not like before. It's only a hello here and there. So What do I do? (link)
i think that you should just have a good talk with her and tell her its been bugging you how different she acts. just ask why she is acting this way and maybe see if she is okay.




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