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Lost Cuzin
I lost my cuzin and i tell my friends itz ok i hav to get over it i really don't get over cuz i rele miss her and i love her. Shuld i keep tellin my friends this?
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Lost Cuzin
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you know what...when a LOVED one dies..you DO not have to get over it. i swear..but your freind is a giant b**b!!! Grief can take a lifetime to get over. Some people handle it different ways...but your friends have no clue..i am betting they have never lost someone they loved.
Now if your griedf is amking you feel like dying too..you need some help..but if you are still mourning her loss...that is normal..i just would not talk to anyone who is not sympathtic to what you are still going through.
Your cousin was lucky to have you in her life for as long as sh did. I can tell you cared about her a great deal..that kind of love is precious.
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NO tell them how u feel they will understand. they probly r thinking tht its weird tht u arent tht upset they would think tht u wer emore normal if u were sad! u deserve to be sad abt this dont worry abt it, ur cousin knows u love her.
<3 Jen
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talk to your friends and have them comfort you and help you get through this tough time....talk to your parents and if you have a counselor at school...it really helps
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aww its ok its NEVER easy to get over someone....but just tell your friends that your glad they care but its ok even though your not over it...they should understand! good luck hun <3
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hey,im sorry for your but no you shouldnt keep it in,losing someone is so hard and if you have a close friend you should talk to him/her. you will feel pretty relieved. its not good to keep it in because it will hurt you even more, and thinking about it will make you feel even worse. Losing someone is something you cant get over, yo just have to grieve with it, but it is okay to grieve. And just think, your cousin is probably up in heaven watching over you. So she will always be there. If you need to talk you may respond back on my site, alrighty!
love unity
<3 chrissy walsh
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who cares what your friends think you can still love and miss your cuzin just remember all the good times with her. believe me i know this from personal experience.
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Friend-n.) One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group,
A friend is some one u can trust and u can tell them how u really feel theyll be there for you and sympathzize i hope ur helped
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Tell your friends it's more of a family issue an you really don't feel comfortable discussing it with them, and also tell them talking about it sets your mind in a state where you can't really think and process...i know it's a horrible feeling when you loose a love one..they should understand that and try to keep your mind on something else...Hope everything works..<3
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aw thats horrible! sorry about ur loss- i think u need to tell ur friends how u really feel so they can comfort you when u need them.
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you really should never hide andything from your friends, there there for you thats why there your friend. well i hoped i help!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!!!!!!
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hey..the same thing happened to me!! but after i told my friends that i thought i had to get over it, i realized i wuz totally lying. so when the conversation came up again i told them that im sorry if it sounds like im whining, but i really do miss my cuzin and i cant stop thinkin about her. that wuz b4 i burst into tears...and my friends were ok w/ it. they said i definitely wuz not whining and that they're there for me. try tellin them the truth and let me no how it goes.
~jasmine
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You should never hide your feelings. Your friends will be there for you and nothings wrong about feelin bad about that. Talking about it and how you feel will get you throught it more eaisly.
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no, u should tell them its bugging u. friends can work wonders
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