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Q: I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor?

isnt fourty weeks past due?

Q: i REALLLLLLLLLLYYYYYY wanna go to Oklahoma University!

Does anyone know like what kind of grades, activities, SAT scores, or anything i need to work on to get in??

Plus whats the best dorm to stay in, and what is the campus like?

..and only respond if you know about this

Thank you!!

is it really that hard? http://www.ou.edu/

Q: This is a question to all advicenators: What makes you want to give advice to other people?

I get bored or when i dont want to do gayass physics homework anymore

Q: okay ive been dieting for the past like 3 dayz...ive been eating about 3 healthy meals a day and stop eating around 6. but today i dunno if i ruined it. I have an orange, an apple and a banana for breakfast, then for lunch i had a portion of turkey and a turkey sandwich with wheat bread, and then for dinner i had a bowl of chicken soup..But inbetween the meals i had another orange, a boiled egg, another apple, and another banana, and a bite of a pickle... it sounds like alot but it was through out the whole day..is this gunna affect my diet because i kinda over did eating the fruits?? thanks!

youre fine with the fruits.....eat more vegetables and drink skim milk if you have it...you still need the calcium and protein but try to have a varity of fruits and not just bananas apples and oranges...try grapes and peaches and pears or whatever is in season.....hope that helped

Q: Say you like a girl and you know she likes you. You've hooked up once or twice and promised to call her so that you can arrange a proper date. How soon should you call/meet/talk to to arrange this date?

talk to her as soon as possible....call her now

Q: Well, there is this guy i like and his bday is in a few days and i dont know what to say/do for him. Any ideas? (and im pretty good friends with him)

I rate high!!!

take him to a ball game or something....there is bound to be a pro/college football/basketball game around......hope that helps

Q: In june i got in a car accident where my friend rear-ended some1...and i ended up with a spranged knee and a neck brace..well now whenever some1 gets like close to a car i start to freak out and like lose my breath...is that ok? because it was in june and its now november

you will be fine....its just shock and you will eventually get over it...thats why driving is so dangerous and should never be taken lightly and driving with friends can be dangerous too if they get distracted easily....all in all its nothing to be alarmed about...you can only conquer your fears if you face them head on......hope that helps

Q: ok christmas is coming up, and i wanna get all my christmas shopping done. ok, the thing is im broke. i borrowed 50 dollars from my sis, and i need to buy holiday gifts. what should i get for my parents, mom & dad, 2 sis's ages 10 & 12, and my best friend, she's 15 and i also have like 7 god guy friends, nothing too close, but their goodold buds. any idea what i could get them? thanks, ill give you a 5 for trying. thanks in advance!

p.s. i rate for effort! ;)

go to the nearest local dollar store and pick up random trinkets and stuff that have somewhat of a meaning like an inside joke or something with the person you are going to give it to.....and there you go....shopping for less than twenty bucks

Q: im going to ask for a mini ipod for christmas, but which is better a regular ipod or a mini ipod and whats the differnce, and can i get a gift card thing to get songs at the itunes music thing online. and are they easy to use? becaus im not good with tech. things so im hoping its easy to use...please tell me anything you can about them.

i rate!!!!

the mini is good if you dont have a ton of songs to put on it...but if you are only gonna use your ipod for every song you have then go with the regular ipod....it may be more expensive...but for about a hundred dollars more it can hold 10000 songs compared to the measily 1000....dont get me wrong thats still a lot...but it all depends on youre situation....as to the songs....the best place to get them would be through iTunes.....for about $.99 you can get a song....kinda expensive but you can also use the pirating ones too....or you can just put CD music on it too....so yeah hope that helped......please rate

Q: Okay this a very weird question. When I woke up this morning, i couldn't find my glasses. Thinking I went to bed with my contacts on, I touched my eyes looking for the edge of the contacts. In one eye I felt it and in the other I didn't. When I checked my contact case, both contacts were sitting in the solution. Is it normal to be able to feel your eye lens? Because that's starting to freak me out.

you didnt touch your lens....the lens is under the surface of your eye...but thats the technical stuff.....but to answering your question...it is normal...ive fallen asleep with my contacts in before and i couldnt tell if they were in or not...as long as your eyes dont hurt anymore then its all good

Q: should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw?

dont do it for the guys....do it for yourself...if you can work to keep the weight off now then when youre older and youre metabolism slows down it wont be as hard to keep the weight off....so id say just cut back on the pop and eat healthier and do some form of workout whether it be running or lifting weights

Q: ok i have 4 dogs:
-Irish Setter
-Golden Retreiver
-Beagel
-Yorkie
And I have 3 cats:
-Siamese
-Sphynx
-Pursian

I need ALL different kinds of toys for these pets! just 1 toy wont be enough they all fight over it! Do any of yall know ne good cat & dog toys??? in need of help b4 pets go boring and sad!

Blue_Fusion

just get random stuff.....theyre animals....they wont know the difference and besides...they will take eachothers toys anyways

Q: Ok hello people i not really fat or anything but i m starting to like get more fat around mi legs and stomach anyone got any ideas on good exercise to get ride of it or any tips?
~Help~

cut back on carbs and eat for fruit and less sweets and pop

Q: how do i make my biceps bigger? i lift waits all that time but they never seem to get any bigger. any tips on working out?

it doesnt just happen over night....it takes time and drink some protein drinks too

Q: I collect coffee mugs. I have 804. I can't stop collecting them, every time I am out for dinner with my parents I cant' stop looking at coffee mugs. Mum accidently smashed one the other day and I just lost it, I was crying and screaming at her. I don't want to be like this, but I really love my mugs.

Am I obsessive compulsive?

um well....there is no real way of answering this question without offending you so here it goes....you really need to seek professional help. Im not physcologist....but what I would tell you to do is to get rid of all of the coffee mugs...i know that would be hard...but to get over the obsession is to get rid of its roots which would be the coffee mugs...either way...you are going to have to end up getting rid of them sooner or later...and if you go to a physcologist they will most likely say the same thing......hope that helps

Q: ok, so i dont think im ugly, but i know im definitely not gorgeous, and when i get compliments on my body or anything else from guys, i don't know how to respond. I've had self-esteem issues and when i hear these compliments, im glad someone thinks of me that way, but i dont wanna sound like "OMG! Im hot shit.." How do i respond to these compliments without sounding like im hot shit or end up rejecting them?

just say thank you and compliment them back....everyone likes to be complimented back....hope that helps

Q: ok im a 15 year old dude and my gf goes to a dif skool and it really sux i know most of u think thats gay but itz all good.. but i don't get to see her a whole lot i don't get my car for three months. do u know how i can strengthen my relationship for these next three months b4 i can see her a whole lot more?

theres not much you can do....just do what youve been doing for however long youve been dating her

Q: sry if this is gross but i'm constipated and i have no way of getting any medicine for it and its soooooooo painful! does anyone kno what i can do? thanx i'll rate ya!

EAT FRUIT LIKE NO OTHER AND STOP EATING JUNK FOOD IF YOU ARE....it helps so much and plus if that still doesnt work...try some stool softener......please rate

Q: There is this guy that I'm really interested in and I think he's into me too. we have only one class together at school and we never hang out when we aren't at school and he doesnt have my s/n email or number...should I give it to him? or should i wait til he asks for it (he is kinda shy)

is he the guy for me?

please help !

i can tell you from experience that its difficult to talk to the girl they like. Its much better for you to make the first move and initiate the conversation...once you start talking to him i promise you he will become more outgoing and stuff.....hope that helps....please rate

Q: Ok. My recent exboyfriend & I both work at the same place. That is how we met but now still have to work together despite us breaking up. It has only been about 2 weeks since we broke up and he's been telling everyone at work that it was mostly him who wanted to break up. I know this is kind of dumb but this bothers me because I was the one who had to bring it up(us breaking up). He never said anything to me about wanting to break up. And so he knows that it was mutual yet he's telling everyone that it was mostly him. He's the type of person to be boastful about things so this is just another added bonus. Should I confront him about it and how this bothers me and risk our friendship or just let it go and let him have his fame & glory?

just let him have his fifteen minutes of glory....itll all blow over. If you make a big production about it people will think you are the jerk in the relationship...youre probably thinking that im retarded and stuff because hes making you look like the jerk because youre the reason why you broke up with him. I can vouch for experience in saying that I (a 17/m) like to take credit for stuff....if you just let him talk then people will get annoyed with him and start to ignore him...its all a matter of time. i hope that helped....please rate

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Well....my name is Brian and Im 17...currently a junior in high school and someday want to go into the medical field...im outgoing and am easy to talk to...give me a hollar if you want to talk...ask me questions and ill answer them to the best of my ability.......later