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(( LEFT IN PICTURE))hey yall.. My name is kelsey, and i am 14 years old. I just moved to arizona from southlake texas! i miss all my friends soo much, but i kinda like it up here to :) Im really good at giving advice.. so ask my anything you want..
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So my ex, Eric [of over a year] is acting strange. Lately, he's like.. "since you have Bob. you don't need me around anymore haha" Yeah, I have a boyfriend. But my ex has a girlfriend [keep that in mind]

And today.. Eric kept saying "you probably were talking to Bob while you were doing your homework"
and i kept saying no because Eric got online first so... I talked to him first.

I told him I wanted to hug him today.. when I saw him today. But Bob was holding me [it was raining] and Eric got to hug me quickly [but I didn't have time to hug back] so he says "i guess it wasn't much of a hug if you don't remember"

and it sort of goes along with.. what he said earlier "it's okay. i know your boyfriend is more important than just a friend. and don't say he's not because you know he is"

I've been with this boy for about 3 weeks and I don't know him well. Eric.. Of course I care about him. He's one of my best friends and he's very important to me. My friends come first.


I keep telling Eric he's important to me over and over.. he keeps telling me NO or that I'm wrong. I talk to Eric almost every day online. [Just like my boyfriend] and I go to see the BOTH of them when I visit their school.

I care about the both of them and I'm trying not to play favorites. Even though I should be closer with my boyfriend. I don't really know what to do. I don't want to come off as a bitch while saying , yeah I like you more than my boyfriend.. only because I've known Eric for years already and I feel more comfortable around him.


Why is my ex acting like this? What does it mean? (link)
All it means is.. thats his way of making you say that you DO care. its like when a girl is like "i am so ugly" usually shes just fishing for you to say shes not. and he pretty much still has feelings for you.. strong ones


hope i helped
xo


Hi ladies, I'm really curious to get the perspective of women on penis size. I measured mine hard and found that it was 3.7 inches long, 0.8 inches wide and 0.4 inches thick with a measured circumference of 2.7 inches. Is that normal, small or big. Also I have major right curve in my penis that's shaped like a u-turn. I mean it curves directly to the right and points at my right arm, not straight at all. Is that normal and if I jerk off with the left hand will that straighten it. My last 3 girlfriends said my penis was pathetic and they would get more pleasure from a toothpick. I assume that means that I'm skinny, but I don't know. Please write back with answers as I would love to know where I stand with other men. One more thing. Does anyone else have trouble with regular condoms. Every package i buy seems to be too big. I put them on hard and they just slide right off. They feel like there about 3 inches too long and way to big around. I don't even need to stretch them out to put my penis in them erect. I'm not buying the magnums either. I'm just getting the regular average ones. I'm open to suggestions. (link)
... is this a joke?


I was raped and It made it so I was kinda loose and not tight. I really want to be able to feel like I have my virginty. It was a really important thing to me.
Is there any excersises I can do to tighten up my vaginal area? (link)
kegel works good. but since you were raped, you didnt loose your virginty.. virginity is something you give up willinly.. so you not a virgin, but since it was really important to you.. you didnt really LOOSE it. because you were raped, so it wasnt your fault

hope i helped!


15/m ....i am about to go a little further with my girlfriend ....and i was wondering if most guys shave their pubic hair or not...? (link)
most girls dont really care. its your choice. but it just feel kinda weird for the girl if you dont


damnit, my parents are filing for divorce for the third fucking time. this is really chapping my ass. i can't deal with it anymore, and i don't want to. o ya, i dunno if my dad talked to ur mom, so don't tell her, because my dad was like "don't tell the girls, because i dont' want aunt steph to hear about me and your mother getting a divorce from the girls before i tell her." oh well. fuck him, i don't really care anymore.
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aww garrett im soo sorry.. I know how awful you feel. My parents are doing the same thing only im sure its not as bad as yalls case but. Uncle greg told my mom at the casino on the cruise, before he told your mom. SO then my mom told us. Im so so sorry. I know what your feeling, you feel like you cant live like this and its just not worth it. But it gets easier as time goes on. But dont be mad at your dad garrett, i know its hard to understand but this is better for you, and i know it is. Because ive seen you boys be upset and you punch holes in walls because of your parents fighting.. All three of us have been there to. But i can tell you from experience that once all this is settled, and your parents dont live with eachother anymore its better than hearin them fight. And its hard for us to because my parents live 15 minutes away from eachother and as you know me and lauren DONT get along.. and we have less time with our friends, and to be quit honest you get lonely sometimes. and your going to miss your family being together. But, it will get better i promise. You boys can get through this.. and we are here for yall whenever yall need anything!!! you can call our cell phones, or our house or whatever.. we are always here for you guys... and we completly understand how angry you are. But garrett try to be strong for carder because even though he is 12,you still understand it more than he does. I found out that my mom was an alcoholic when i was 13 ((just last year)) and ashley and lauren knew that since i was 7 years old. So try really hard to be strong for carder because he needs you. we love yall soo much, and are so sorry for wat yall are going through. We miss you, and cant wait to see you labor day! Keep your chin up garrett


i love you


ok so the guy i like told me that he also liked me. the problem is i start school in 2 weeks and hes leaving in september. is there even a point to go out? or should we just remain good friends and nothing more? (link)
well.. if you really like him then i think you should go out with him! i moved to arizona and i had a boyfriend in texas for along time and it worked out just fine! but if he is going like across the country then idk.. but its worth a try to make your relationship work! hope i helped


ok so i like this guy and i think he might like me, but i dont know for sure. he calls me all the time even if its just to say hi or how are you. the problem is we've already gone out, but we're still really good friends. do you think he likes me or is he just being nice??? (link)
well, he might like you. but if yall are really good friends then he should be calling you just to talk and stuff like that. But maybe if yall are close enough than you should ask him if he still has feelings for you. But If there is also another reason that you think he may like you, then he might.. but if him calling you and stuff just to say hi, then its probably just because he cares about you.. my ex boyfriend used to call me all the time just to talk, and it was great! but we were just good friends.. but you never know! :)

hope i helped


i'm going to a different high school next year and im afraid that my friends and i are going to drift apart. well, we kinda have...i call them all the time, but they never answer or return my phone calls. should i keep trying to save our friendship, or is it basically over? (link)
well.. i think that you should just try and talk to him/ her about the whole deal, and they will understand. and yall can still hang out on the weekend and stuff!! good luck!



My friend is going to a different high school next year and i am going to miss her. How can I still stay best friends with her? (link)
well call them and talk to them on the computer!! and since they are still close by you can spend weekends with them!!


hope i helped !!




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