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I HATE MY BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW
my bf and me go to diff skools and we see eachother mostly lyke ery other day or something but we havent seen eachother for a week...well hes at the mall with his frends...and the mall is about 6 blocks away from my house...and hes walking around with his friends and hes like @ this church thats 3 blocks away frmo my house..he knows where i live n stuff but he "cant cmoe see me bc his friends will only come if i hav friends for them" and none of my friends r home....so ther goin bak 2 the mall....it really hurts my feelings bc I ALWAYS go 2 his house hes been to my house TWICE and i go to his EVERYTIME...so he called n was like uhh idk ill call u later if something comes up n we happen to go by ur house again and iw as like watever have fun at the mall bye nd i hung up on him...im realllly mad at him.....wat do i do? hes gonna b online tonite i kno that for a fact n hes gonna b all sweet 2 me....and if he calls bak....do ii answer?? wat do i say? =\
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tell him to start pulling his own weight! if he wants u for a gf then hes gota make things equal like u switch off going to eachothers house and tell him that it wasnt right to have his friends controll weather he comes to see u or not. and thats not right that theyre using u for your friends. im not real sure what to say and if he does call back answer it and talk to him aboutthis.
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dump him!
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if he cant even stop by your house when hes six blocks away thats bogus. i would tell him how you feel and that things need to change. if he still ditches you for his friends all the time then you should consider finding a guy who will come to your house when they are right down the street. good luck ~*Alexis*~
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sounds to me like your boyfriend is only thinking about himself. His terms and only his terms he obviously has all the power in your relationship. My advice is either let him go or tell him exactly how you feel and let him know its your way or the highway youve put up with this long enough.
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if he calls back, of course you answer. dont play little immature phone games. but look, how he is being with you is not cool. relationships are 50/50 and he is not paying up to his half. you need to explain this to him. if doesnt understand or is not willing to make a change then lose the loser. i understand that a guy needs to chill with his friends, but not coming to see you (HIS GIRL) because you have no friends around for his friends, is just plain messed up.
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soy... YOUR PISSING ME OFF... who is more imp ur damn friends or me... and be like if u never wanna hang out with me b/c ur friends dont.. then im not hangin out wit u.. see how he takes it.. but if he gets all sweet and tries the whole "im sorry baby..it wont happen again" remember..your madd at him.. and dont let ur gaurd down til he proves it! let me know what heppenes
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Tell him excally what you told us! Tell him how you feel and that you want him to come over sometimes! Tell him that you also dont want him to act different around his friends (because thats another thing it sounds like hes doing) let him not taht you love him adn you want it to work but he has to change because some things are really bothing you! hope i help you sweetie! Love ya! -:-Sara-:-
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