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My boyfriend...and Me
Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.
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No, you need to tell him. It's sort of a risk you have to be willing to take. You got yourself into this situation in the first place, so you have to be the one to get yourself out. It isn't right to keep things like that from your boyfriend. If you respect him, then you'll tell him. Plus, what happens if he finds out from someone other than you? Chances are he's going to eventually, and it will be a lot better coming from you. That isn't to say that your boyfriend won't be upset, because of course, he will be...but you got yourself into this mess, so you have to face the consequencs. Good luck!
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well if it keeps burning up your brain by not telling him then you should. If he loves you in return he will find a way to forgive you. Next time you should think twice about going to an x's house alone and kissing him later that night. That isn't cool. But if you want to take that weight off your chest you have to say something because if you dont you will have that burdon on your shoulders everytime you see your bf.
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I think you should tell your boyfriend that you kissed your ex.
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Dont ever think about getting away with something like that, that's horrible. Tell you boyfriend, that's the right thing to do.
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I think you really need to tell him. Relationships are suppossed to be honest. Yes he is going to be hurt by this but its better you tell him then your ex. and plus, if you don't you're going to be carrying all the guilt around with you. So get it off your chest and just try to work things out with your boyfriend. Hope I helped!
Ciara
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Ok hun..im natasha and im ganna try and help you with this...Now you kissed him...bad..but not telling ur boyfriend would be tottaly worse...even if ur ex dident ull end up getting trapt in a corner.......so think about what u did then call ur boy friend tell him to come over...dont go over there and dont do it at school cause he could tottaly go CRAZY...ok now think is he that type of guy that u are scared of him doin sumthin to u or that typeof guy that u no u can trust and he wont lay a hand on u for doin this..no matter what his feelings wil be hurt but its up to u....to make him feel better....and like i said u gatta tell him....now add everything up that you thought of...now what do u get....what will you say to him..come back if u dont understand...My email is SmileyGurl@hotmail.com ok if comes to that..email me
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definitely tell him, he has a right to know.
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i think u should tell your boyfriend. maybe if wouldn't have gonna to your ex's house nothing would have happen. of course ur ex is going to tell him.
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*You have to tell him! If yuo sit there and talk to him and tell him that your sorry then he will proubley forgive you and just dont let it happend again! Make sure that u tell him everything and make sure that he know that you love him and that it will NEVER happend again! You have a chance of him forgiving you if you tell him but if u hide it and he finds out another way then he will proubley not forgive you because he thinks that he cant trust you and ur not being honest! Sit and talk to him! Good Luck Babe! x3..Sara*
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I think you should definately tell your boyfriend. Because what if you don't? What if your ex gets to him before you do? Then it will be much worse! I think you should be honest and tell your boyfriend the truth. He'll most likely get mad, but it's SO much better if you tell him yourself. Hope it works out..
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Well i think you should tell your boyfriend what you did and not keep anything from him!! He is your boyfriend and to have a realationship with someone you should not lie or keep any secrets even something like this! Just tell him and tell him your sorry and if he really loves you like he says he does then he will forgive you! Good Luck
-Katie-
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