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Do I Keep Going Or Just Drop It?
Alright I'm a 17 year old male. I met this girl through a friend of a friend basically. At first it was rather awkward cause I'm a really shy person but she isnt. Then we got to know eachother rather well and became good friends. But I love this girl, shes so great. I've told her this and at first she started ignoring me. Then she was okay with it. She never said she loved me back. She just said it was okay If I loved her. So I started being more nice to her. I baught her lunch for a month,I pre-ordered the new Ev CD for her (she's a HUGE Ev fan), I gave her a necklace too... then she suddenly started ignoring me again. She won't even talk to me anymore. Some of her friends claim I freaked her out because I baught her stuff but... I was just being me. Being nice. I just wanted to see her happy. Anyhow, she's talking to me again but its not like before. It's only a hello here and there. So What do I do?
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She was probably scared of u saying u loved her. Maybe she is scared to be in a relationship. Just tell her that u were only trying to be nice that u didnt mean for her to get all freaked out. hope i helped
sk8terbabe019*
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your a really sweet guy, she is probably afraid of commitment or just thinks of you as a friend, and doesnt want anymore then a friendship from you.
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Just go up to her say i really really liek u. basically just tell her how u feel. if she doesnt feel the same way there is ntohign u can do dont try to give her gifts or anyhting even if ur just beign urself, a nice guy, many girls would take this the wrong way and freak out. so u didnt do anyhtign wrong so if she tells u again tht she doesnt feel the same way abt u just ask her if u guys can be friends at least thts somehtign right?
<3 Jen
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Leave her alone. i kno that sounded harsh but its the only way i could put it. there is some one out there that wants a guy like u so all u have to do is leave her alone(its gonna take time to not hurt like u are now)and slowly learn to love some one who deserves ur love.____Mo
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Maybe she is ignoring you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, and maybe you're trying too hard to impress her and make her like you. If she was nicer to you before you started to like her alot, and then when you told her you loved her, it might have mad things a little weird and maybe if you start acting like you did before she will like you like she used too. Maybe she's afraid of commitment.. hope it helped :)
-Madison-
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u should talk to her and see why she is not the same as when you to first met.
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Okay, here's what to do hun. Let her know you like her..but please don't over-do it...hit makes you kinda of obsessive...i'm only 13..but have been in love before..with a 16-year-old and 15-year. it's hard keeping quiet and not spilling your feelings out...but sometimes that's the key to secess..i hope this helps...<3Ash.
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back off, you're being way to pushy did you think to ask her if she wanted all of that stuff? i mean you prolly did freak her out, that's something that a boyfriend does and you're not that, you aren't her boyfriend and she doesn't seem to want you to be either, just give her some space and when she's ready to talk to you she will
*~*shan*~*
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GIVE IT UP BUDDIE! SHE DONT LOVE YOU! YOU DONT LOVE HER! you people just need to stop thinkin yer in love.. YER NOT INLOVE WITH SOMEONE TIL YA FUCKED EM! THATZ THE END OF IT
and if ya aint fucked her yet... then im sorry friend.. YER NOT INLOVE! haha! >:D
welll i hope i did a lyttle help... >(LaUrA)<
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She probably thinks you were "obsessed" because of all the gifts and saying that you loved her... You need to ask her why she is ignoring you and apologize for feaking you out... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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u should go up 2 her and explain y u did it all. apologise for the way u acted like u know buying her stuff. i know u wanted to see her happy bt i agree with all ur m8s u probly freeked her out. im a girl and i understand wots shes going through. all u need to do is basically tell her the truth. im not being nasty bt she prob doesnt fell the same way about you as u do her. if u get my drift. girls get freeked out by the way that people especially boys. if tboys tell girls they love them it can scare them away. just say that ur not gonna lie about still loving her and you can change the way that you feel bt tell her u still want to be m8s wiv her cus u like the relationship the way it was before. she might not acept it as first bt she will cum round it may take a while bt she will trust me i am 1.
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What's happening? She's not interested in you as more than a friend, you are obviously interested in her, and she's not comfortable telling you openly how she feels.
As someone who used to be inept dealing with situations like this, I can tell you she'd be happiest if you stopped buying her stuff and just remained casually friendly.
I understand you are a nice person, and want to see her happy - but you're only making her feel awkward. My opinion? You seem like a genuinely caring guy...and I'm sure there's a girl out there worth your time and effort.
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i think that you should just have a good talk with her and tell her its been bugging you how different she acts. just ask why she is acting this way and maybe see if she is okay.
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