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I dont want to make out with my boyfriend but everytime i want to kiss him he trys to stick his tounge in my mouth. it kinda grosses me out. but lately ive been wanting to kiss him. how can i tell him i just want to kiss him but not make out?
CiArA
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just be like lets kiss and not make out ok
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Just tell him. Be like can we just do a regular kiss? Tell him you don't want to be making out, and just a simple kiss should be ok everyonce in awhile. ~*AmAnDa*~
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If it grosses you out then one of you is doing something seriously wrong...but that should improve with a little practice. You don't necessarily have to tell him what to do (although that would be a quick solution to this...just be upfront and tell him to stop sticking his tongue down your throat until he learns to kiss properly, preferably from you). Show him. If he tries to stick his tongue in your mouth...push it out with your tongue or close your lips tight. You can always pull slightly away. He'll get the hint. But seriously one day you have to take that step though and let him stick his tongue in your mouth and from my personal experience when I was young, if he doesn't knwo how to do it properly...RUN!!!! haha. Just try to show him what you like. You should not be gagging on his tongue!!! Guys are clueless fools and need to be shown everything. He should not just be trying to ram his tongue down your throat anyways, that's no fun. Or as someone suggested before just bite it...haha...it works. He'll react quickly and his tongue will most likely never be in your mouth again.
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just like you just told us. its really that simple. your thinking too hard, cut that shit out
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Umm I dont know why you would feel that making out is gross since its normal human behavior but anyway you should tell him. Tell him that you feel comfortable making out and that you would just like to kiss him and if he understands than go ahead with your relationship if he doesnt that he's not worth it.
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Hey Ciara,
Just be straight up and tell him you'd rather not make out every time you kiss. Sometimes a light touch on the lips is nice. Just let him know what you're thinking. You're gonna have to, if you want him to know. Guys aren't psychic, as much as we wish they were...
So just talk to him. He's your boyfriend! He should be understanding and willing to wait until you want to make out to stick his tongue in your mouth. Lol. That's perfectly fine to not want that. I don't like it all the time. *Shrug* I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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well he is ur bf and he should understand when you dont want to do something right? just be straight out with him if he doesnt understand then i guess he wasnt worth your time and was only init for the making out part!
((x o ♥ Michelle))
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If your really not ready to make out with him then tell him and if he really likes you he will understand :-) hope i helped a little if you need more e-mail me xo_katie5@yahoo !~ xOx Katie!*~°
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Just tell him. Be like "I really care for you, but right now I dont think I can makeout with you. I think you should respect that and I'll tell you when I'm ready for the next step" If he gets all mad and becomes a B word hes not worth it. He needs to respect you!
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