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im 15 and my bf and i were kissing and stuff
and i noticed he had an erection he got embarassed about it i told him its ok but he's a little shy he a bit shy about his penis size
what can i do to help him?

You can't .. its normal..?!

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hey i feel really awkward saying this..but i need to tell someone..okay me n my friends hang out alot n we live by the local dairy freeze n we just started our dots and we needed tams cuz we were goin to the pool n we didnt want it to leak on people..n so we walked across the street to kroger n while we were coming back we almost got ran over so we ran really fast n i fell n of course i was the one holding the bag and they all flew out..n as i fell n they flew i screamed o no u guys my tams!!n of course cars stopped so they wouldnt run over me..n they all stuck there heads out the window n shouted n laughed at me..n from that day forward everyone has been making fun of me..they always say MOVE OR MY PERIODS GONNA LEAK ON YOU!....&....O NO MY TAMS..they also say other hurtful things to me n it makes me upset..what should i do? signed..M.O.M.P.W.L.O.Y.(Move Or My Period Will Leak On You)

Haha!! omg !! good one Sarah

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i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser?

well i wear a lot of skateboard companies and i have a skateboard but i don't skate that much anymore i used to over the summer a little bit but i hang out with a lot of people who do skate ... i don't really think it matters? if you used to its fine... and even if you just like wearing them then yeah no one can really tell you what to wear if they want to think you are a poser let them its thier opinion :-)
xox katie*

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is it unacceptable for a guy and girl who are just friends to kiss? even if the guy or girl has a boyfriend/girlfriend?

thanks everyone! (oh yeah, if you wanna look at my column! i'm rice06. i'm good at giving advice but i wasn't sure about this one ^^)

well..no.. not really i mean are you talking about like a kiss on the cheek or something? thats okay but you shouldn't kiss or make out with someone else if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend it won't work out trust me.
xox Katie*

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ok well see the thing is i dont have a boyfriend and all of my friends do and all of my guy friends have girlfriends so i feel so extremely left out its like this ok so they have their couples nights and everything so they go out to the movies or hang out at someones house and everything and they always neglect to invite me because yeah im the only person that is single. what should i do?

well do u have any close friends that are guys? if so then you could ask him if he would like to come out with you so you could go along with you and your friends and maybe it could actually turn into something if your willing to let it!
anyway e-mail me with what happens!*~ xox Katie

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I dont want to make out with my boyfriend but everytime i want to kiss him he trys to stick his tounge in my mouth. it kinda grosses me out. but lately ive been wanting to kiss him. how can i tell him i just want to kiss him but not make out?
CiArA

If your really not ready to make out with him then tell him and if he really likes you he will understand :-) hope i helped a little if you need more e-mail me xo_katie5@yahoo !~ xOx Katie!*~°

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okay im really confused im a freshman in high school and like it seemslike i should knoe wut i wanna do for a living by now..like everyone else and well im really not shua wut i wanna do i really wanna be and architect but theres alot of math in that and i hate math! i wanna do sumthin with good.. money a STABLE salary and that i can have fun with! i dont wanna be stuck in a cubical all day! so please gimme some ideas!

I am still confused about what i want to do for a living too. Try talking to your school counselor about it and that should help you with a few ideas. XoX*Janie

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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..

Well if you really want to then i don't see a problem. but like you said you know the consequences so if your comfortable with him and hes comfortable with him then i think it would work out fine. so if its really what you want to do then go for it! xOxO Katie**

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i have this friend i like.. hes like my best guy friend but i want to be more than just a friend to him.. how can i tell him how i feel?

if you are best friends. you guys should be pretty close and comfortable around eachother so you should be able to sit him down and talk to him about it and if he doesn't feel the same then there shouldn't be any awkwardness in the future. Hope i helped ! xoxo, Katie

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My mom seems to think that only black people wear brands such as Roccawear, Baby Phat and Ecko. I like the clothes and she wont let me wear them because on the websites the people who are modeling them happen to be black. So tell me really, do these brands are truly only worn by Africans?

It all depends on the person, most black people dont prefer wearing things like abercrombie or hollister but like i said it all depends on the who u r and who u associate with. I dont think that it matters what color you are you can wear whatever you want as long as you like it! Hope i helped a little! Xox*Janie

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i'm a total pimplehead and i have been for a long time.. like.. um.. since grade 5 i think.. i'm in grade8 now.. i've been using these cleanser things they're getting kinda better but i keep on breaking out.. any tips?? *omg i'm so embaressed asking this.. i need help!!*

It is probably just internal or heretitary. Ask ur parents if they had any when they were younger, sometimes that has something 2 do w/ it.I use Proactiv, it seems to work for me u could try that ask your doctor about it hope i helped! Janie*

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Okay theres this guy I like that I met at a dance in September. We talk on the phone and I go by his locker at school a lot. He told me he liked me still a couple weeks ago but we havnt talked too much cuz we have both been busy the past week or so. I want to ask him out now. I think I'm ready. But how and when should I?

well maybe you should try talking to him about it or write him a note telling him that you like him. but don't ask him out until you know if he likes you back or not. xOx janie*katie

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