Theres this boy I like, Zach. I only met him once and that was at my almost but now ex-almost-boyfriend. My ex-almost-boyfriend-and-now-ex-friend(Lets call him MEABANEF) Well, MEABANEF had a birthday party and thats where I met Zach. MEABANEF paid no attention to me hardly and only to his ex-girlfriend who is now his girlfriend. Zach did pay attention to me though. A lot. And in a flirty way. Like, when I fell asleep, coming downstairs a lot to try and wake me up so I wouldn't miss out on stuff. Just basically paying me a lot of attention and in more flirty ways as time went on.(Oh, yes, I fell asleep at MEABANEF's party. It was so much fun, I just couldn't stay awake) So I got his(Zach) screenname and I've been talking to him but I'm not sure if he likes me. We exchanged phone numbers and we plan on chillin together at the mall some time with a few other people but I just don't know how to tell him I like him. I seriously want to and I'm very outgoing with these things but theres a problem with this one. If it turned out he didn't like me, and he started trying to not be around me so much anymore/talk to me much anymore. I would never see him or talk to him because we go to different schools. So, I'm not quite sure what I want or should do. I just know I really want to go out with him and I think this boy is a good choice, I just need help going about getting him.
Additional info, added Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:10 pm: Heres some of the ways we have been flirting or at least what I think of as flirting:
-While I was sleeping at MEABANEF's party, Zach came down wearing a Jason mask, trying to get me to wake up because I was about to miss going to eat cake. Hes the only one who came down
-He kept messin with me and I'd go after him and there was pushing, we play-fought. But we laughed and it was fun.
-I accidently made his soda fizz on his crotch and he started laughing and kept bringing it up and we joked about it for a while.
-He kept doing crazy little things and I chased him into the bathroom and everytime he opened the door to see if I was still after him I'd push the door open
-Online, I said "And I could do the shimmy to "I need a hero. That would be entertaining" and he said "Yes it would be very entertaining"
-He says "lol" to every remotely funny thing I say. Even if I don't think it's all that funny.
Bonus info:
-MEABANEF said, when my friend Mya said something to him, he said "Ashley and Zach are in love" Just randomly.
-I asked Zach did he have a gf, he said "Nope" Then there was a pause in the conversation for a moment until I changed the subject.
-At the end of our online conversation, I said "call me tomorrow" and he said "ok". Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xdelightfulpainx answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 5:05 am: Ok first I would like to say he sounds like a nice guy. I think you should give him clues that you like him, dont make him feel too special though (trust me, that gets to guy's heads). Just give him hints and wait for him to make the first move... if after a while he hasn't done anything and you really think he likes you than you make it. Good luck. [ xdelightfulpainx's advice column | Ask xdelightfulpainx A Question ]
Pinkbaby3546 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:20 pm: OK first off never ask a boy out. ok i know it may be old fashion but some guys get intimidated if girls ask them out I mean no guy wants their girl to be braver then them. It seems like he is attracted to you. I am pretty sure that if you and him hang out casually he'll be the one to ask you out. You should also show him that you're into him as much as he's in to you! Good Luck!!
And no matter what HAVE FUN!!! [ Pinkbaby3546's advice column | Ask Pinkbaby3546 A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 9:18 pm: if you like him then keep hanging out with him and be flirty and stuff. then when you know each other good and there seems to be "love" tention then ask him out, if he acts flirty around you then he probably feels the same way!
hope i helped!!
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