ok so, im friends with these people, and they were always cool with me, but then they like their group split in 2 and i was still friends with them but now they're mad at me cause im friends with who they hate. i cant be friends with both sides, what can i do?
wait wait.. who exactally said you couldnt be friends with both sides? going into these freidnships did the put down a set of rules saying "absolutley no other friends"? the thing is that people change all the time and thats one of the mian reasons friendships end. people are changing but not together so they drift apart. if your friends get mad at you because theyve drifted from these people and you somehow have not then they arent true friends. true friends would accept you for who you are not who you hang out with (other than them) and maybe you need to sit down and talk to both sides about the situatuon and how it makes you feel and if they love you, they'll understand.. hope i helped..
-Tess
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Your picture really reminds me of someone I met a while ago. I think it may have been last spring break but I'm not sure. Odly enough not only did this girl look like you she was also named tess.
So have you ever been to the Cayman Islands, particularly last spring break ?
no i never have. i dont even know where those are. sorry to let you down. i stayed home last spring break. you'll probably find this girl someday. she has a great name and sounds gorgeous (haha). good luck with everything. ill talk to you later..
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I really like this boy named demetri. He looks so good.......mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!~~~well i guess i dont really like him, but i wanna get to know him so bad and he dosn't wanna get to know me at all. He ignores me and he avoids me. Hes friends with these girls that are such b*tches!!She tried to pick a fight with me in the lunchroom. I know he was behind this!!!!!!I juss met him this year, but he acts like hes hated me forever. How can i make him my friend or at least talk to me??? Dont tell me hes not worth it----people always tell me that. But theres just something about him........I like it!! Amd my instincts are usually right........Help!!!!
first of all.. the reason you like him is one or both of these reasons:
a) girls always want what they cant have and youve proven that he makes it seem as if you cant have him OR
b) girls also always love a challenge. in other words, because he is friends with many girls who happen to be bitches you want to show thejm (and him) that they dont threaten you and you can get this guy.
what i said in choice "a" also goes for guys. playing hard to get is really not that much fun but it works. i just turned down this guy who is beyond orgasmic and now he just wants me that much more. if you stop handing yourself to him hell throw himself at you. when hes near you dont even look at him and go talk to the nearst guy you know. if he looks at you just smile vaguely really not to him.. just in general and never talk about him to anyone, dont talk to him and as for all his little bitchy followers.. youre probably hotter than they are and if that isnt the case.. who cares.. you probably have alot more going for you saying as they will all end up pregnant at the age of 16 and be fucked up for the rest of their lives. hope i helped
-Tess
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Ok, I was just wondering what kind of Abercrombie fragrance for women is the kind that smells like the store- if there is a kind that smells like that. There's three different types: NOW Fragrance, Signature Fragrance, and 8 Fragrance. I would think it would be Signature Fragrance, but I'm not sure. Does anybody know?? Thanks!
the store is actually a mix of all the fragrances.. when i bring stuff home though it always smells like fierce(which as you know is the mens colonge) but my personal favorite is 8. i also love now.. the store kind of smells like that. oh and by the way they have a new scent "ready" it smells like a 50 50 bar but my guy friend loves it on chicks so i'd say if you want to try something new go for that one!
-Tess
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And its causing my legs to hurt in pain. Ive been exerising for two days at the same place. I cant walk properly without having some kind of balance, and I've crawled most of the time even up the stairs. My mom thinks I'm faking it just because I dont want to go exerising again. I dont, because the pain will only get worse. Is doing the same exerise helping me or hurting me?
I'm 15, and female.
well it is obvious that you have excercised near to never prior to your mom forcing you to. am i right? well.. that being the case, yes it is completely normal. your muscles arent used to working so hard so they are sore. when i first started cheerleading i would come home sore everyday and it SUCKED! but after a while my muscles got used to the pain and it doesnt hurt anymore. the cure to your pain-CONTINUE EXCERCISING!!! event though it hurts dont quit because its good for you and the pain is only temporary. hope i helped
-Tess
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ok, at my dads house my brother and sister constantly make fun of me. last night they kept calling me a pig, and a special ed. and they will pysically abuse me sometimes. and they call me "g" casue i listen to rap music. and they like sing a song about me eating all the time. they are really mean. and i don't do anthing to them, and i tell my dad and he sazys either, i start it or get over it, or say something back, but when i say something back he says i start it!! what do i do?? please help!
first of all i would like to say i am so sorry. no one deserves to go through that even if they did bring it upon themselves (im not saying that you did) my brother and dad make fun of me alot too.. theyve never physicaly hurt me but they have emotionally. i used to hold it in. everytime i went to bed i would cry and if someone saw me i would say my eyes were watering. lately though ive learned to fight the fire with fire. i know its not a very mature thing to do but it works. everytime brandon (my brother) tries to make fun of me i just make fun of him. the reason people do these things is to feel better about themselves. if you cry you are only giving them what they want you need to fight back. it takes practice but when you are a flaming bitch back to them they'll get threatened and step down. eventually you'll need to confront them and say "look im sorry.. you guys hurt me so bad and i wanted to show you how it feels" and them simply ask them to stop. it sounds weird but it really has worked for me. my dad and brother never make fun of me anymore. if they ever do again i will just be an ass right back to them. oh but never say "yeah well.." before starting a come back. trust me that gives them more reasons to make fun of you. i tired that too..ok well i hope i helped. my email is TicketToRide@rock.com if you ever want to talk about anything else. keep me posted and tell me how everything goes. hope to hear from you soon.
-Tess
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