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split friendships
ok so, im friends with these people, and they were always cool with me, but then they like their group split in 2 and i was still friends with them but now they're mad at me cause im friends with who they hate. i cant be friends with both sides, what can i do?
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Tell one side or the other that whether they like it or not ur not just gonna stop being friends with another. If they can't accept you because of someone else their not ur TRUE friends!
Best of luck!
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Tell them that they have to make up because your still friends with all of them and that if they dont make up you wont take sides with either of them.
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you could just be honest and tell then that ur not gonna pick between them 2
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if they are that selfish then they dont sound like such good friends....they are trying to controll who your friends with and thats not right..you dont tell them who to be friends with so te shouldnt tell you...id say forget about them if they are seriously going to get mad at you for having friends other then them...it will be hard but it will be worth it...god luck
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if they spLit their group in t0o .. juSt say that you dont liKe your group and go in the other haLf of the group .. or just trty to be friends ..well i gope you can make friends with all of them
<3 DanielLe *
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wait wait.. who exactally said you couldnt be friends with both sides? going into these freidnships did the put down a set of rules saying "absolutley no other friends"? the thing is that people change all the time and thats one of the mian reasons friendships end. people are changing but not together so they drift apart. if your friends get mad at you because theyve drifted from these people and you somehow have not then they arent true friends. true friends would accept you for who you are not who you hang out with (other than them) and maybe you need to sit down and talk to both sides about the situatuon and how it makes you feel and if they love you, they'll understand.. hope i helped..
-Tess
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Be friends with the people they hate!!!The other people must not be your true friends!!!If they were they wouldn't care that you were friend with the people they hate!!Hope I helped!!!
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Wow it seems like you are in a pretty rough situation. You have to decide which side to go on, if you pick one and the other side hates you for it you have to deal with it. The choice of which side is up to you. *OR* you can try and talk it out with your friends telling them how you wish it were back to the way it used to be between you guys, but if that doesn't work, try making friends that don't exclude people from their group. I would personally do that but its up to you. I'd be like go to hell I'll find friends who won't ditch me just cuz I hang out with certain type of people...bye. Well so do what you feel is right and good luck, need anymore help you know where my inbox is. =)
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